DaRealness
I think very deeply
Manhood doesn't exist anymore.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Manhood doesn't exist anymore.
Shameonyou
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Beerus
Banned
nikka a bum i can't evenDaRealness
I think very deeply
Can you imagine seeing some shyt like that on our TV screens, say, 20 years ago - especially from a black man?
This is how bad things have become in society. "I do this because I love her"
But hey, when you're an enabler, this is an extreme example of what will happen.
To call dude a simp would be an insult to simps.
This is how bad things have become in society. "I do this because I love her"
But hey, when you're an enabler, this is an extreme example of what will happen.
To call dude a simp would be an insult to simps.
and that's what i meant when i said forget about saving simps in another thread. they're like hoes, they don't want to be saved just like hoes. just let them be miserable. all we can do is share what we know. they choose how they live.Can you imagine seeing some shyt like that on our TV screens, say, 20 years ago - especially from a black man?
This is how bad things have become in society. "I do this because I love her"
But hey, when you're an enabler, this is an extreme example of what will happen.
To call dude a simp would be an insult to simps.
smARTmouf
Ascended Member
Man I can't believe I got my head bust and heart broken like this... but I can't lie. I feel like its what was needed, I think I put women on a pedestal in certain ways that they just don't belong on. It was my upbringing though. Being raised by a single parent and seeing the drama she went through.
I mean I stood by this chicks side through things just about every other guy wouldn't and when its all said and done. I was the bad guy and dismissed.
I actually have no love lost for her, and thats how i know im in a good place. All I know is she missed out, and hipped me to the game of women and how not to lower your value's standards or morals for them (aka in the name of love). When its all said and done they are gonna do what makes them feel good, and the moment you bend your lifestyle or standards for them its a warp.
Especially these young hoes, there minds are already warped because of social media...
I feel like I can see clearly now, to bad I had to get a such a battle scar and waste my prime on this chick... but ah well.
I mean I stood by this chicks side through things just about every other guy wouldn't and when its all said and done. I was the bad guy and dismissed.
I actually have no love lost for her, and thats how i know im in a good place. All I know is she missed out, and hipped me to the game of women and how not to lower your value's standards or morals for them (aka in the name of love). When its all said and done they are gonna do what makes them feel good, and the moment you bend your lifestyle or standards for them its a warp.
Especially these young hoes, there minds are already warped because of social media...
I feel like I can see clearly now, to bad I had to get a such a battle scar and waste my prime on this chick... but ah well.
Redguard
Hoonding
Manhood doesn't exist anymore.
This dude needs an intervention. He has to have some male relatives that can maybe talk some sense to him. Then again he seems like a lazy bum with no backbone so I can't really feel sorry for the guy.
smARTmouf
Ascended Member
Man I can't believe I got my head bust and heart broken like this... but I can't lie. I feel like its what was needed, I think I put women on a pedestal in certain ways that they just don't belong on. It was my upbringing though. Being raised by a single parent and seeing the drama she went through.
I mean I stood by this chicks side through things just about every other guy wouldn't and when its all said and done. I was the bad guy and dismissed.
I actually have no love lost for her, and thats how i know im in a good place. All I know is she missed out, and hipped me to the game of women and how not to lower your value's standards or morals for them (aka in the name of love). When its all said and done they are gonna do what makes them feel good, and the moment you bend your lifestyle or standards for them its a warp.
Especially these young hoes, there minds are already warped because of social media...
I feel like I can see clearly now, to bad I had to get a such a battle scar and waste my prime on this chick... but ah well.
you sound like a good dude..
don't change and let this situation jade you cause she played you..
I learned it's important to set clear boundaries..and never deviate when that shyt gets crossed...
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
1.You tell them your #1 hurt and she throws in your face later
2.To gossip.Women love juicy news.You tell her you been hurt and she tells her homegirl,sister,mother etc Not that yo ucare what anyone thinks but they will advise her based on your hurt or as I say weakness.
3.Never tell any woman who you share interest in about your past relationship.The ONLY man who tells a woman about his past girlfriend is the man who has a child with another woman,cause you cant hide that.Even in that situation you say you have a child and keep it moving
Man I can't believe I got my head bust and heart broken like this... but I can't lie. I feel like its what was needed, I think I put women on a pedestal in certain ways that they just don't belong on. It was my upbringing though. Being raised by a single parent and seeing the drama she went through.
I mean I stood by this chicks side through things just about every other guy wouldn't and when its all said and done. I was the bad guy and dismissed.
I actually have no love lost for her, and thats how i know im in a good place. All I know is she missed out, and hipped me to the game of women and how not to lower your value's standards or morals for them (aka in the name of love). When its all said and done they are gonna do what makes them feel good, and the moment you bend your lifestyle or standards for them its a warp.
Especially these young hoes, there minds are already warped because of social media...
I feel like I can see clearly now, to bad I had to get a such a battle scar and waste my prime on this chick... but ah well.
live and learn man, trust me the second girl I was in love with almost destroyed me and i sacrified and did alot, financially, emotionall I don't even want to get into it
.One time she was near death and I was the only person in the hospital with her for a few days, she was literally useless in life until she met me, she had no job, no education, every guy she been with before me just pumped and dumped.
I gave her my all and treated her like a queen, and in the end i had my heart ripped out, to this day im ashamed of all the simping stuff i did, i had to deal with the hardships, the talking out of suicide, the opening my door when she had no place to stay, the opening my cupboard when she had nothing to eat, and then i got played and some other dude got the finished product.
all you can do is cut off the poison, heal, get on with your life and choose better women and be smarter about it. I speak from experience , and still to this day I still don't want to rehash all the things this woman did to me. Literally if it wasn't for me she would be dead in a ditch somewhere, or turning tricks on the street.
sometimes having your heart broken is needed, you no logner see women as innocent and always right and realize what they are capable off.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
That clip with the dude whose woman tells him how long he takes a shower.Were they married?He takes an L for just living with her 
Everything with women is contingent on how much they like you. As soon as they stop liking you, you pretty much are nothing to them. You could have been there and done everything for them, but as soon as they don't have those feelings for you anymore, you are disposable. When a woman likes you, she's sweet as sugar. When she doesn't, she's cold as ice. It really doesn't matter that you help a woman out, you upgrade her or any of that nonsense. She won't appreciate it and won't care. She'll give her best to whatever man is making her 'feel something' at some particular moment in time... so I don't seek any longer to 'upgrade' some woman's game or position in life. They don't appreciate that at all. How many example of it do you need to see? A big girl finds the one and only guy who appreciates her while she was big and he stays by her side and helps her lose weight. As soon as she loses the weight and gets newfound attention, she ditches the guy that stood by her. You have some girl that is out of a job and has no money. James Simperson the II steps onto the scene and pays her rent and helps her get on her feet. Do you think she will appreciate that? I think not. Improving a woman's life, being by her side, etc., will not keep her around nor will it make her appreciate you. Ice cold, but it's the truth. Don't waste your resources trying to rescue these women. The only time you need to be spending on them is if they've demonstrated a commitment to you as your woman. Going over and fixing her computer for free, playing taxi cab and all other sorts of corny behavior is a no no.
I've started to take the writing thing more seriously. A lot of people have told me I should write a book, but I've done something slightly different. I'm working on 'newsletters' that are about 10 pages or so in length with the best of my thoughts in them and will sell them for $1.50. I'm just about finished with the first one. I'll keep ya'll up on the details.