I think it's worth posting again:
https://www.dhealthstore.com/index.php/articles/mens-health/g-series-loaning-her-money.html
Fellas or men: When your girlfriend or woman asks you,
“Babe, can I borrow some money? I’ll pay you back!” you have to understand the coded language she’s using as a female within an intimate relationship to prevent future headaches over money.
Many women are good with relationship language which is also known as
coded, tricky or
deceptive language. This means women use certain language or words within a relationship that doesn’t have the same meaning of the word in the ordinary usage of the world in the ordinary course of life or outside of an intimate relationship with a man. You have to understand what your woman is asking of you when she says,
“Babe, can I borrow some money? I’ll pay you back!”. While she may be saying “borrow”, nine times out of ten she’s really “asking” you for some money despite using the word “borrow.” Within relationship language commonly used by females, “borrow” is synonymous with “giving.”
A lot of times a woman (girlfriend, mate) will ask to “borrow” some money when she knows the amount of money “asked” for (under the pretense of “borrowing”) is astronomically high or higher than usual than what she commonly asks for and feels comfortable in asking you for.
Normally when the amount of money asked for is low or nominal, she’ll just outright and nonchalantly ask you for some money to get whatever it is she wants or to do whatever it is she’s going to do with the money, usually to get her hair and/or nails done, buy some groceries, get some toiletries, pay some bills, minimal or basic shopping for some clothes or shoes, to have some pocket change, etc. She knows you won’t trip (resist her) on a small amount of money but she knows you may resist her demand if and when the amount is high or out of the ordinary or extraordinary.
Generally, when she knows the amount is extraordinarily high, she’ll use
coded, tricky or
deceptive language that makes you feel comfortable in giving her an extraordinarily high amount of money. She knows “borrow” presupposes to pay back (and she’ll say
“I’ll pay you back!” when asking for the money), however, she really has no intentions of paying you back (because in her mind she’s fukking you and thus are giving you something of value, as most women see their vagina as something of high value and attach a price to it); but using the words
“borrow” and
“I’ll pay you back” softens you up to part with the money to her.
In your mind, especially if you’re a simp or wussie type of guy, when you hear
“borrow” and
“I’ll pay you back”, you’re thinking “loan” which presupposes “payback” as loans are to be paid back and generally are. But again, she has no real intentions of paying you back because #1, she’s you’re woman, and #2, she’s allowing you to have sex with her (and not for free). While love may not cost a thing, p*ssy does! And don’t ever get that twisted, especially here in the Matrix where it’s all about commerce (and sex is commercial in nature and regulated which is why it’s illegal for a woman as well as a man to sell her/his body sexually in exchange for money).
In saying
“borrow” and
“I’ll pay you back”, she’s using the coded, tricky, or deceptive language to get what she wants from you. Remember, all relationships in the Matrix are
quid pro quo (something for something).
Now here’s what you need to know about the coded, tricky, and deceptive language many women use to get high sums of money out of men.
“I’ll pay you back” does not tell you HOW she’s going to pay you back or with WHAT is she going to pay you back with. She’s just saying,
“I’ll pay you back.” But pay you back with what? That’s the question you need to ask if you’re really tripping on the amount of money she’s asking you for and expect to be paid back
in cash. She can pay you back with something other than money but with an equivalent value, like her vagina or sex. All women (in the Matrix) subconsciously put a price tag on their vagina.
Okay, so let’s say you “loaned” your girl some money. $2,000.00! After a few weeks or months, you ask her about the loan, when she’s going to pay you back. Now, if you didn’t get clarity on the entire transaction from jumpstreet when you gave her the money, you may get a response from her like,
“Oh, that was a loan?” “I thought you were giving me the money!” “I didn’t know I had to pay you back!” But she damn well knew she had to pay you back or that you expected to be paid back, but had her mind made up from jump that she wasn’t going to pay you back, well, at least not with money.
The cold thing is this: a lot of times women will pay a man back for a cash loan with that in which she’s already giving or offering to her man in the relationship, and that’s SEX! Now most women don’t want to admit this, but this makes them a whore, being technical. They’re exchanging sex for money and it’s easy for them to do this under the banner of being a girlfriend, mate, or wife. It’s dignified to them, in their mind, compared to the female who outright and consciously sells sex for money.
Most women equate having sex with their man as a favor to the man. Women are quick to tell a man, in her own defense, especially when money owed is brought up or the things her man does for her is brought up:
“Well, I’m fukking you!” like she’s doing him a favor. Most men never say,
“Well, I’m fukking you!” “So what does money have to do with it?” If you loan your woman money she can’t automatically assume the loan is paid back through the sex act. That’s not fair. Yes, she may be giving the man some p*ssy but he’s also giving her some dikk. It’s an even exchange. But if money is involved, the man giving it to the woman, the woman is winning here because she’s getting some dikk (sex) and some dollars and women like and enjoy sex just as men do. The man is just getting some p*ssy but no dollars. The man is parting with more than the woman and that doesn’t denote fairness.
In closing, let me just say this: all p*ssy comes with a price tag! A woman may give you some p*ssy on consignment because she likes you, put at some point, reality is going to kick in and it will be time to pay up for all that past p*ssy given on credit or consignment.
My advice to fellas is this: either be like me and take the position where you give your woman money (regardless of the amount, especially if you got it like this financially but also if she’s putting out sexually to your satisfaction keeping matters equal and balanced) or you make it clear to her that you’re giving her a cash loan and expect to be paid back in cash (and not with a piece of ass); or, that you don’t make loans at all (which might piss her off and make her vagina dry up like a dried up well, which means she may get tight with the p*ssy and sexually starve you to make you pay for not paying her).
Also, know this - if you get in the habit of loaning her high sums of money any time she asks for it, don’t be surprised when you become her ATM ready teller machine, in her eyes. Her 4-digit ATM pin number is located between her legs.
And look out for the Scorpio female or the woman with a lot of Scorpio placements in her chart or a lot of Eighth House placements in her chart (as the Eighth House corresponds to Scorpio, the eighth sign of the Zodiac) because Scorpio deals with OPP: other people’s money and loans are other people’s money.
If she has Mars (sexual energy) in Scorpio (other people’s money) or Mars (sexual energy) in the Eighth House (also other people’s money), or worse, Mars in Scorpio in the Eighth House, look out! She’s already highly sexually charged with the Mars in Scorpio placement but she has the penchant for loans (other people’s money).
And remember, Mars is the sub-ruler of Scorpio (Pluto being the primary ruler of Scorpio). So, Mars is at home in Scorpio and the Eight House as it is the natural ruler of both.
Scorpio’s astrological statement is: “I Desire!” So the Scorpio woman desires a lot, especially sex and money (other people’s money). If not, then she has some other placements in her chart that positively balances her out.
So, if you didn’t know what you learned or gathered from this article, now you do and thus are responsible because coming into knowledge makes you responsible!
I gotta pay tuition, sorry.
damn so I can't take you on a date, she starting laughing like lol no no. So anyways I was like 
I mean why would she hit a nikka up this late out of the blue b! I shoulda said somethng else god dangit DAMNIT!
i mean whats her motives behind this b 
