Shameonyou
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so you could live with a woman that probably doesnt respect you as a man, but loves you anyways?
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so you could live with a woman that probably doesnt respect you as a man, but loves you anyways?
this doesn't make sense. if a girl loves you that means by default she respects you. She won't love you if she doesn't respect you, unless she doesn't respect herself which should be enough reason for you to give her
If the girl is IN LOVE with you, and wants to live and base her life around you, there's no way she's thinking of doing that without in her mind that she respects you, and then you can judge based on her actions. If she says she loves you, but hangs around other nikkas and starts arguments without over petty shyt, then again it's
.Now on the other hand, a girl CAN respect you (as a friend, brother etc) but doesn't mean she's in love with you. She just enjoys your company, etc etc but you two don't have any sexual connection.
Shameonyou
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this doesn't make sense. if a girl loves you that means by default she respects you. She won't love you if she doesn't respect you, unless she doesn't respect herself which should be enough reason for you to give her
If the girl is IN LOVE with you, and wants to live and base her life around you, there's no way she's thinking of doing that without in her mind that she respects you, and then you can judge based on her actions. If she says she loves you, but hangs around other nikkas and starts arguments without over petty shyt, then again it's
Now on the other hand, a girl CAN respect you (as a friend, brother etc) but doesn't mean she's in love with you. She just enjoys your company, etc etc but you two don't have any sexual connection.
fair enough
My clueless ass gotta take it back to the basics
What cues/body language says that a girl is interested? Not while spending time with her but before that...seeing her on the street/around school type of thing...
Me - just eye contact is enough for me go in, but smile is more obvious
it may be something in her eye but to me she winking!
Show her you are serious by spending a good amount of time with her. I was in the same position with my girl. After I broke up with my last serious ex I was just dealing with random chiks and let her know how I felt about her. At first she didn't take me serious cause I was running around. But gradually I knew I didn't wanna fukk things up because I was genuinely into her. Only thing I could really do is just spend a lot of my free time with her and show and prove. Her last serious ex cheated on her so she was veeeery cautious. Eventually it just seemed natural to take it to the next level.
Yea this is pretty much the same situation, I can kick it with her cool and she is actually down to do stuff and actually listens to what I have to say unlike 95% of these boring ass chicks. Thanks.
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Did y'all hangout a good amount of times? Have you ever tried to make a move?
Yea a good amount, alone like twice. most of the times it's with other people, nah I aint make a move yet - just because I'm thinking if I really want her, and she knows I talk to other girls so I have to be really serious if I do make a move.
Yeah chill with her on a solo tip and just put it out there. Don't be too shy, then someone else hooks up with her. Though you don't see, there's always another dude drooling waiting in the dugout. I've learned that in my younger days. No such time as the perfect time.
Yea, I know plenty of nikkas are tryna get at her. If there's one thing I learned with girls it's you have to act fast or someone else will.
Something interesting I've found is that women pretty much have decided if they like or dislike you before you even say a word to them, and your interaction with them will proceed from that. I've had a girl tell me that she misses me and it's weird for her because she doesn't even really know me. You could be average joe and you talk to a woman and getting conversation from her is about as fun as getting a tooth pulled... but let you be somewhat famous, and all of a sudden conversation flows so much easier.
The key I've found is to recognize when a woman likes you and to focus on those that do. Don't waste your time extracting conversation into women that aren't really into you... and you can tell when you first talk to them because they just don't seem very interested.
The key I've found is to recognize when a woman likes you and to focus on those that do. Don't waste your time extracting conversation into women that aren't really into you... and you can tell when you first talk to them because they just don't seem very interested.
Here's a thought I had today. This right here is going to sound soft as hell, but it's real life, judge me if you want. 
If I were to not call my mother or father for a year, a full year. Never them a gift, never take them out to dinner, never surprise them with roses/flowers/gifts, or even show my face to them for an entire year, on 1/13/2015 I could walk up to the front door of my parents house ring the bell and say to them "Hey Mom, Hey Dad. I just want to let you guys know that I love you both." and they'd say "Hello my son, we've missed you come talk to us, where have you been? Come inside talk to us" They'd love me just the same.
Now honestly my old man would probably be some type of way about it for a quick minute though, but my mom? Man, my mom would'nt miss a beat.
That's real love right there! Appreciate your moms fella's! She's a woman too!
If I were to not call my mother or father for a year, a full year. Never them a gift, never take them out to dinner, never surprise them with roses/flowers/gifts, or even show my face to them for an entire year, on 1/13/2015 I could walk up to the front door of my parents house ring the bell and say to them "Hey Mom, Hey Dad. I just want to let you guys know that I love you both." and they'd say "Hello my son, we've missed you come talk to us, where have you been? Come inside talk to us" They'd love me just the same.
Now honestly my old man would probably be some type of way about it for a quick minute though, but my mom? Man, my mom would'nt miss a beat.
That's real love right there! Appreciate your moms fella's! She's a woman too!
Something I've found is that you simply have to avoid arguing with simps and male feminists. If they want to jump off the cliff after you told them it's not a great idea, then let them experience the repercussions behind their actions. You've warned them. They refused to heed it but instead want to make you look like a bad guy... At that point, stop giving them any more energy and let them eat the fruits of their philosophy.
Male feminists are one of the huge problems of the day. They justify any and all bad behaviors by women and make every move necessary to give their power over to a woman and will talk down and try to shame men who tell them the opposite. Sometimes people just don't learn until they've been hit in the head by their own nonsense a few times.
On another note, your social skills, personality, and general demeanor are of utmost importance when dealing with women... and just like you workout your body, you need to workout your social skills. Make sure you 'get out the house' regularly... I'm not saying go to a club or some such environment, but steadily ensure you are environments where you are meeting people and doing things you enjoy. It's easy to get stuck chilling at home all day... When you go out, don't go out to 'catch women.' Go out to have fun and enjoy yourself. Learning to enjoy yourself and be more social has the added side effect of making you a lot better with women... but just like anything, don't do it to 'impress' or catch women. Do it because it's something that improves you.
Male feminists are one of the huge problems of the day. They justify any and all bad behaviors by women and make every move necessary to give their power over to a woman and will talk down and try to shame men who tell them the opposite. Sometimes people just don't learn until they've been hit in the head by their own nonsense a few times.
On another note, your social skills, personality, and general demeanor are of utmost importance when dealing with women... and just like you workout your body, you need to workout your social skills. Make sure you 'get out the house' regularly... I'm not saying go to a club or some such environment, but steadily ensure you are environments where you are meeting people and doing things you enjoy. It's easy to get stuck chilling at home all day... When you go out, don't go out to 'catch women.' Go out to have fun and enjoy yourself. Learning to enjoy yourself and be more social has the added side effect of making you a lot better with women... but just like anything, don't do it to 'impress' or catch women. Do it because it's something that improves you.
the funny thing is brehs ive been chilling with this broad the last few weeks, i've known her for years, shes not the most attractive 10/10 dime im used to dealing with . But she's always treated me great 
, the funny thing is im myself around here, i tell her my views on women how i feel etc. and while she disagrees she understands and doesnt call me a misogynist etc.
im not saying im going to even date her etc., it was just a observation that I always wondered why men would marry a
broad when they could attract a broad, there is more to looks.
, the funny thing is im myself around here, i tell her my views on women how i feel etc. and while she disagrees she understands and doesnt call me a misogynist etc.im not saying im going to even date her etc., it was just a observation that I always wondered why men would marry a
broad when they could attract a broad, there is more to looks.