that's a good trait right there. it shows she can be civil about a disagreement but still control her emotion and not try to shame you for what you believe in. Some other people would call her weak but the irony is, just based on her attitude, i'd be more open to listen to her point of view so she actually gains some power by being more "submissive".the funny thing is brehs ive been chilling with this broad the last few weeks, i've known her for years, shes not the most attractive 10/10 dime im used to dealing with . But she's always treated me great, the funny thing is im myself around here, i tell her my views on women how i feel etc. and while she disagrees she understands and doesnt call me a misogynist etc.
im not saying im going to even date her etc., it was just a observation that I always wondered why men would marry abroad when they could attract a
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Young women are really immature that they dont get this point. Still looking for a woman without an ego
yeah man like this girl ive been chatting with , going out with etc. its so obvious that shes so into me, this is how its suppsoe to be EASY, no texting games, etc. Like yesterday we just chatted in my car for about a hour and a half, no money spent, no lets do this, no throwing all my pearls before swine who don't appreciate it.
all that chasing ish, pick up games, wining and dining and swooning is for birds, if a chick is into you, she'll freeze in a car with you if it means she'll be around you
im not saying im going to date this broad even casually but this is the way it should be no stress, no worrying, no battling 10 other dudes for a night out, no pondering whether she likes me or not.
How bad is it to initiate text?
If the girl doesn't initiate, it's a pretty big indicator that there's no interest right?
If the girl doesn't initiate, it's a pretty big indicator that there's no interest right?
some women use that "im old fashion the men should text first"
if i feel like texting i will go ahead and text, by her response and subsqueent texts i can see if she's interested.
if you get the k and one or two word answers dont do it aagain bushes.
women wont flat out tell you leave me alone im not interested as they love attention
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
her initiating means shyt bruh. Hit her up, plan a time, date and place where ya'll will meet and that's it. She could be initiating to get attention or some other shyt, whereas you are initiating cuz you wanna take action. 2 different goals = 2 different outcomes.
Always control.
her initiating means shyt bruh. Hit her up, plan a time, date and place where ya'll will meet and that's it. She could be initiating to get attention or some other shyt, whereas you are initiating cuz you wanna take action. 2 different goals = 2 different outcomes.
Always control.
no response from her
damn man that's like 5 girls i've gotten rejected by in a span of 2-3 weeks.
Virtuous_Brotha
Superstar
these women have too many options thats the fukin problem you gon have to stand out from the crowd like a job interview my nikkano response from her
damn man that's like 5 girls i've gotten rejected by in a span of 2-3 weeks.
Shameonyou
All Star
what do you do when your boy is treating his girl like shyt blatantly and shes a good woman? I cant look at him the same....he too old to fukk up a good thing...i tried to tell him to drop the hoes but he doesnt give a shyt....he been my boy for a long time, but im starting to lose respect for him honestly
You do nothing because it's none of your business breh. How is he treating her like shyt? how do you know she's a "good woman"?. if she's such a good woman, why is she with such a low-life? Let her choose. If you don't want to be friends with him, cool, fair enough. but i gotta keep it real with you breh. sounds to me like it has nothing to do with his relationship between him and the chick. sounds to me like you have some mild hate in your blood for the dude. if i'm wrong i'm wrong but from a detached point of view, that's what it looks like to me.
CrossBones
Louder than words
as men one thing that we fail to do is look at things for what they really are. we overthink and we second guess whats right in front of our eyes. instead of counting role with whos in front of us and what theyre doing, we're spending our time looking at excuses and what could the reason be for this misbehavior. we try to get behind the mentality of these females and logically figure out what a woman could be thinking. we end up playing their game, going full cat and mouse. its one game that will only have you following her up and trying to juggle her emotions to keep it all in the air
I see it now, I see posts where we'll be sitting here wondering why shes not texting you back after she said right to your faces that shes down. we'll be thinking, why is it that we had such a good time but now shes hard to reach. why did she suddenly turn a cold shoulder and is hard to find. why do I have to keep everything live and functioning. why is it that like she says one thing and does another. why is it that theres no loyalty from these females if youre having a hard time. why do they feel so entitled to so much, and for so many favors, but then when they get it theyre not appreciative at all. why do they try to get a man to serve them, and then when they do, theyre not happy at all. why do they settle down with a man and effectively try to neuter him and make him a slave to her power. why do some women get a nice, healthy routine going on in their relationships, and it looks like they have it all, but then they have a desire to leave because its become boring to them. why is it that she wants to be friends with one type of man who will be a provider, a lover, and a listener, but diss him for a man who only wants to smash and leave her. why is it that we can see a man do so much for a woman, even help her out in life, yet she still checks out in a foul, deceiving way because she thinks that she sees a better deal. why does the concept of appreciation and reciprocity seem so foreign to females. why does no one want to be under their guidance. why do the feelings of others seem so irrelevant to them. its like 1 + 1 doesnt equal 2. we see a lot of times that we dont understand their thinking, and the truth is, many times niether do they. you see this is EXACTLY why women are not good leaders, and EXACTLY why you can not follow them
theres an old saying which goes, there are two things you do not chase: the bus or a woman, because theyll both just leave you behind
if you got rejected, good. if you feel you got abandoned, or left behind for no disconcernable reason, good. if you feel betrayed, and like you didnt deserve what you got, good. youve got your eyes opened now. the next thing to do is to never have your balls cut off in a relationship, and to never put yourself in a position where you can get ruined again. dont put your all into someone else. dont have yourself under a woman or anybody else. dont base yourself, your activities and your personal values around a woman and what she wants to do. never that. establish a goal for yourself that overrides a womans importance. have things that you enjoy. be about something. dont just be about bytches and make your life be based around them and what they like. they dont even like that, so cut it out. make yourself bigger than the need to chase women. dont tarnish your image in order to thirst and snare a woman. dont be out here setting up traps. be you. be secure and make sure you put your bid in, anything else, you let it go. be ready to walk on any of them. put down some real rules. follow them.
now that youve had your heartbroken, make sure that you remember what the future will hold if youre basing your happiness and life around a woman. youre just as likely to win the lotto twice as you are to find a woman who will "complete" you and never try you in some way. the only thing that will complete yourself, is your personal code and your ability to follow it. think with your brain, not your dikk. youll see that a woman is mostly just arm dressing and something to keep you warm at night. aside from that, if youre having troubles, you can always rent one or just get an extra blanket. p*ssy not what determines happiness anyways, so you should never act like that. theres plenty of men out there with bytches, but have a stressful life and one where theyre more or less trapped by their balls so they can not leave. many men would wish to be free, so dont get locked down into something you really dont like. dont let yourself be the neutered ox, a shell of himself and a fraction of what he could be; be the bull, with his strength respected and his power feared. show them what the fukk you can do when your not tied down by some form of weak thinking. what Im saying is - dont let these women make or break you. in the end, only you have the power to do that, and you dont have to be a willing participant of any of that.
I see it now, I see posts where we'll be sitting here wondering why shes not texting you back after she said right to your faces that shes down. we'll be thinking, why is it that we had such a good time but now shes hard to reach. why did she suddenly turn a cold shoulder and is hard to find. why do I have to keep everything live and functioning. why is it that like she says one thing and does another. why is it that theres no loyalty from these females if youre having a hard time. why do they feel so entitled to so much, and for so many favors, but then when they get it theyre not appreciative at all. why do they try to get a man to serve them, and then when they do, theyre not happy at all. why do they settle down with a man and effectively try to neuter him and make him a slave to her power. why do some women get a nice, healthy routine going on in their relationships, and it looks like they have it all, but then they have a desire to leave because its become boring to them. why is it that she wants to be friends with one type of man who will be a provider, a lover, and a listener, but diss him for a man who only wants to smash and leave her. why is it that we can see a man do so much for a woman, even help her out in life, yet she still checks out in a foul, deceiving way because she thinks that she sees a better deal. why does the concept of appreciation and reciprocity seem so foreign to females. why does no one want to be under their guidance. why do the feelings of others seem so irrelevant to them. its like 1 + 1 doesnt equal 2. we see a lot of times that we dont understand their thinking, and the truth is, many times niether do they. you see this is EXACTLY why women are not good leaders, and EXACTLY why you can not follow them
theres an old saying which goes, there are two things you do not chase: the bus or a woman, because theyll both just leave you behind
if you got rejected, good. if you feel you got abandoned, or left behind for no disconcernable reason, good. if you feel betrayed, and like you didnt deserve what you got, good. youve got your eyes opened now. the next thing to do is to never have your balls cut off in a relationship, and to never put yourself in a position where you can get ruined again. dont put your all into someone else. dont have yourself under a woman or anybody else. dont base yourself, your activities and your personal values around a woman and what she wants to do. never that. establish a goal for yourself that overrides a womans importance. have things that you enjoy. be about something. dont just be about bytches and make your life be based around them and what they like. they dont even like that, so cut it out. make yourself bigger than the need to chase women. dont tarnish your image in order to thirst and snare a woman. dont be out here setting up traps. be you. be secure and make sure you put your bid in, anything else, you let it go. be ready to walk on any of them. put down some real rules. follow them.
now that youve had your heartbroken, make sure that you remember what the future will hold if youre basing your happiness and life around a woman. youre just as likely to win the lotto twice as you are to find a woman who will "complete" you and never try you in some way. the only thing that will complete yourself, is your personal code and your ability to follow it. think with your brain, not your dikk. youll see that a woman is mostly just arm dressing and something to keep you warm at night. aside from that, if youre having troubles, you can always rent one or just get an extra blanket. p*ssy not what determines happiness anyways, so you should never act like that. theres plenty of men out there with bytches, but have a stressful life and one where theyre more or less trapped by their balls so they can not leave. many men would wish to be free, so dont get locked down into something you really dont like. dont let yourself be the neutered ox, a shell of himself and a fraction of what he could be; be the bull, with his strength respected and his power feared. show them what the fukk you can do when your not tied down by some form of weak thinking. what Im saying is - dont let these women make or break you. in the end, only you have the power to do that, and you dont have to be a willing participant of any of that.
CrossBones
Louder than words
I liked this post I saw the other day so I wanted to reply. personally, I dont believe that a woman knows how to love someone more than she loves herself. only her child in some cases, but she fully expects a man to stand on his own and to not need her. so she will not love a man like she fam or like he is as important as her. she is hard wired to protect herself at all costs, so thats just how it is. she looks to a man for that kind of shelter, and does not love a man if he cant bring her something that she values. so I would go for respect all day and everyday. showing respect is a form of grace, acceptance, appreciation, and manners. thats seriously what I would want. anything less can be a disaster.
thats why I say that women are arm dressing and not that serious, because if she is not all of that, graceful, accepting, appreciative, and well mannered, then I would cut off immediately. you see a woman can have love, but still cheat. she can still be a bytch and love you. and even still, she can be in love with you and not even be with you. she will be in love, however, but love is just a feeling. Id rather have respect because thats an action of hers, and not just a feeling. Im not going to be arguing and fighting her all day because she is out of line and wants to be a bytch. they can keep that, Ill take the respect. it is what it is, what can I say
DaRealness
I think very deeply
http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/360577/Just-Jane-Is-my-girl-just-a-gold-digger-
I DON'T know where I stand with my girlfriend.
We’ve been seeing each other for the past two years but I’m not sure if it’s me or my money that she loves.
When we first met she was always complaining that she was living with her parents and didn’t earn enough money for her own place.
I suggested that she move in with me, but she said it was too soon, so I told her I’d pay for her rent.
She found a flat and I thought that after six months or so she would move her stuff to my house.
But it’s never happened.
And she’s become distant with me.
Unhappy
When I go to see her I don’t even know if I’m staying overnight any more, which I used to do about four nights a week.
Now she mostly says that she’s got a headache or has to get up early and she expects me to go home.
Sometimes when I drop round in the evening she’s not even there and a couple of times she’s had friends round and has asked me to leave.
When I’ve tried to talk to her about how unhappy and used she’s making me feel she gives me a massive kiss and we always end up having wild sex.
Then she’s fine and I start to question how I could have doubted her. But after a couple of weeks she’s back to not letting me stay and always being out when I call round.
I do love her and I don’t want to split up with her, but I thought that she wanted to be with me and now I am starting to wonder if she’s only with me because she’s a gold-digger.
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When are these dudes ever gonna learn?
You just met a chick and you're regularly paying her rent?
@ her telling him to GTFO when she has friends round.