Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Atlrocafella]

Is it a good idea to ask a girl why she flaked or just

Never breh. Straight Bushes. IF she doesn't have the courtesy to reach out to you and explain what happened, no need to go further.

 

[SubLyminalz]

for having the balls to the single mom. I wish I had the same courage to end it like you did. Basically everything you said is what I went through. To the point where she was like "oh you don't think I can find another man"

Lol, bytch take your broke ass and your damaged pasts to someone else. I'm done. But then I simped to make her think she's all that again.

Oh well shyt happens. Time to move on. I've been hitting the gym too and getting great responses from people.

I been wanting to do it for quite sometime now until I talked to my pops and he told me it was best for me to give her the bushes unless I wanted to take responsibility for her 6 year old kid down the road

last night I had to do what I had to do

 

[kevm3]

Everyone pretty much already told you. Don't waste your time trying to get an answer. You'll probably get a lie anyways. "Oh sorry, I was busy. School and work are too crazy." Yeah, your life is so busy that you can't take 5 seconds to write a text. The reality is you were a low priority to her, and here, we don't mess with women that treat us as low priority. She lost her chance.

Thing is, if you were looking for a job and you got an interview and didn't bother showing up, that company isn't going to call you and ask you why you didn't come in. They'll say, "Oh, he must not have wanted the job" and will give it to another candidate. When dealing with women you have to come from the mindset of YOU being the employer and you're the one interviewing. If she doesn't want to work at your company, that's fine since there are so many others who do.

Also, this thing of women not responding back is a very common thing today. Don't get mad at her. Just keep on pushing for another opportunity. No need to waste time and emotions getting mad at people who aren't feeling you. They are saving you time by giving you the opportunity to get with someone who is.

 

[kevm3]

When you first meet a woman, she is in the INTERVIEW process/probationary period. In other words, don't get too attached to her and realize if she ain't acting right and doesn't 'show up to work' or come in for the interview, that new position will be opened right back up without even missing a beat. Most of us, when we were younger, had that simpish mindset of us seeing a woman, imagining her as the one and only before we even had a conversation with her and wanting to obtain her by any means necessary. That mindset put all the power in her court and put is in a position to 'chase' this woman. When you chase a woman, it will never end up well. Now, you realize that she might be pretty, but it's how she TREATS YOU that determines whether she is worthy to stay. "Yeah ma, you look pretty and everything but let me see if you act as nice as you look."

 

[kevm3]

As much as we like to get on women, we got to turn the mirror to ourselves. Women go for swag, but we go for looks. We get on women for chasing this bad boy and trying to change him around, knowing he won't change, but how many of us go for that superfine broad and ignore just about everything about her personality, but think we can mold her into the woman we want? We see that super bad broad with that big booty and we tell ourselves we got to have her by any means necessary, but we ignore the fact that she has 10,000 dudes texting her. We ignore her scandalous club history. We ignore the fact that she hasn't been in a relationship that lasted more than 4 months her whole life... but we say we'll get her and then use our 'game' to morph her into miss loyal and miss sweet.

something about women you got to realize is that some are like dough and are actually moldable, while others have already came out the oven and are the way they are going to be. What happens if you try to take a cookie that's out the oven and try to remold it? It'll break. Some women are simply not moldable, and keeping them around when they have all the wrong characteristics is inviting disaster. You got this fine woman with ho characteristics, but you want to try to turn her into little miss pure? Disaster. We all would save a lot of time and problems by realizing that we invite either problems or pleasure by the women we invite into our lives, so it makes sense to learn to assess them to a high degree, and that includes taking looks out of the equation when making our character assessment.

 

[MikelArteta]

thee is something about closure forgot what user wrote it

ill try and find it

 

[MikelArteta]

As much as we like to get on women, we got to turn the mirror to ourselves. Women go for swag, but we go for looks. We get on women for chasing this bad boy and trying to change him around, knowing he won't change, but how many of us go for that superfine broad and ignore just about everything about her personality, but think we can mold her into the woman we want? We see that super bad broad with that big booty and we tell ourselves we got to have her by any means necessary, but we ignore the fact that she has 10,000 dudes texting her. We ignore her scandalous club history. We ignore the fact that she hasn't been in a relationship that lasted more than 4 months her whole life... but we say we'll get her and then use our 'game' to morph her into miss loyal and miss sweet.

something about women you got to realize is that some are like dough and are actually moldable, while others have already came out the oven and are the way they are going to be. What happens if you try to take a cookie that's out the oven and try to remold it? It'll break. Some women are simply not moldable, and keeping them around when they have all the wrong characteristics is inviting disaster. You got this fine woman with ho characteristics, but you want to try to turn her into little miss pure? Disaster. We all would save a lot of time and problems by realizing that we invite either problems or pleasure by the women we invite into our lives, so it makes sense to learn to assess them to a high degree, and that includes taking looks out of the equation when making our character assessment.

yep

my life

 

[Medio]

thee is something about closure forgot what user wrote it

ill try and find it

i'd be very interested in that

 

[MikelArteta]

i'd be very interested in that

forgot what poster here wrote it

Women will most always look for something to justify their wrongs with. They often think with emotion rather than logic Better yet, don't even give closure. Just say ok and move on. Women need closure whether they are the one doing the dumping or the one getting dumped. If you never give a woman closure to a relationship (acknowledging fault or explaining what went wrong) she will forever be stuck thinking about your situation for years to come. By simply moving on, stop calling, stop texting, and stop all communication. No random texts, calls or anything. Women need men to feel like he's lost something great. If you don't respond that way (or at all), over time she will start to believe that she has lost something great. And it always works, regardless or not if she moves on with her life with another man

 

[CityGuy]

As much as we like to get on women, we got to turn the mirror to ourselves. Women go for swag, but we go for looks. We get on women for chasing this bad boy and trying to change him around, knowing he won't change, but how many of us go for that superfine broad and ignore just about everything about her personality, but think we can mold her into the woman we want? We see that super bad broad with that big booty and we tell ourselves we got to have her by any means necessary, but we ignore the fact that she has 10,000 dudes texting her. We ignore her scandalous club history. We ignore the fact that she hasn't been in a relationship that lasted more than 4 months her whole life... but we say we'll get her and then use our 'game' to morph her into miss loyal and miss sweet.

something about women you got to realize is that some are like dough and are actually moldable, while others have already came out the oven and are the way they are going to be. What happens if you try to take a cookie that's out the oven and try to remold it? It'll break. Some women are simply not moldable, and keeping them around when they have all the wrong characteristics is inviting disaster. You got this fine woman with ho characteristics, but you want to try to turn her into little miss pure? Disaster. We all would save a lot of time and problems by realizing that we invite either problems or pleasure by the women we invite into our lives, so it makes sense to learn to assess them to a high degree, and that includes taking looks out of the equation when making our character assessment.

Only 26 but had to learn this the hard way.......About 3x

Beside taking pride in yourself, building your brand this is maybe the realest thing in this thread

 

[RealAssanova]

Is it a good idea to ask a girl why she flaked or just

com'on world. Fix up nikka. That is an OBVIOUS sign that you need to take time out from women and do you man. Just isolate them. Your mind ain't strong enough for the game at the moment cuz if it was, you wouldn't have asked such a question.

Take weeks or even months out to work on yourself. You gotta take advantage of all this while you are still young and have the energy. Also, don't concern yourself with others and what they do. Trust and believe in yourself nikka.

 

[Reality]

damn brehs i need to make this thread my homepage. i just got out of a 2 year relationship and started dating again and forgot what the shyt was like . definitely caught oneitis and let a broad get in my head after a single date. so disappointed in myself.

 

[DaRealness]

damn brehs i need to make this thread my homepage. i just got out of a 2 year relationship and started dating again and forgot what the shyt was like . definitely caught oneitis and let a broad get in my head after a single date. so disappointed in myself.

I have to learn to battle that myself sometimes when I feel the inner simp trying to rear it's head. You meet a woman, you vibe so much that you imagine her being wifey and the mother of your kids before you even get to know her, then next thing you know, you don't hear from them again and you get all disappointed and pessimistic.

Just never allow yourself to get too easily attached and fall hard for any woman, even if the relationship is serious. You have to protect yourself emotionally at all times and always have options and don't put your all into one chick.

Plus another thing I've learned is that just because you and a chick have a lot in common doesn't necessarily mean you're right for each other or that anything is even going to happen. Just bear that in mind.

I'm of the mentality that if it doesn't happen it was for the best and that better will come.

 

[kevm3]

pretty much. If you come in with the expectation of them not sticking around, then you'll be a lot better off. If she does stick, great, but you have to be prepared for her to leave at a moment's notice. That's why I recommend you learn to be alone and you build your foundation on something other than women. If she leaves, you don't miss a beat. Does it sound cold? It might, but that's the reality of modern dating. Commitment means little these days and people will jump in an instant for what they perceive as a 'better deal'... so prepare yourself mentally for that. If she sticks around, lovely... reward her accordingly for that... but I see loyalty as more of a pleasant surprise than a basic expectation in this day and age.

 

[DaRealness]

Another thing to consider is that we need stop viewing rejection or lack of interest from a female as an L. You can't "lose" something you never had in the first place.

Just keep it pushing and you'll get over it very quickly.