Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

We can only talk about women and how to deal with them so long before we start repeating ourselves... and ultimately, you can't really control what a woman does and you'll never really know what she's doing when you're not around... so let's focus on the main subject that we CAN control, which is improving ourselves.

Let's continue on the discussion of money. The average guy looks at money as something to be procured and spent immediately on some material item. That's because of consumerism-oriented brainwashing. Most people have this unexplainable urge to buy things, and they can't really figure out the root of it. Little do they know how much psychological trickery and brainwashing goes on in order to induce within you an impulse to buy. This constant need to buy will introduce a mentality into you that will forever have you as a debt slave and you will continually be under the thumb of corporations. You will also be a dependent and be forced to work at places you hate with people you cannot stand. Why? Because you have no kind of savings to fall back on.

Your mission is to pay off your debts and to start saving your money so you can live a FLUID and FREE lifestyle, meaning if you get fired or lose your job for another reason, it won't be all that huge of a deal because you have so much money saved up. Structuring your life to be responsible is the key. Minimalism is a philosophy you should embrace. Just as companies aggressively cut costs to improve their bottom line, you should cut out unnecessary expenditures so that you can build up your fall-back fund and your investment fund. You need to also take time to reflect on your consumeristic nature and learn to slowly reduce your addiction to buying. What you are ultimately developing are positive financial HABITS.

 

[DaRealness]

men...dont be fooled...im sick to my stomach read these womens confessions...purely sickening...dont get married brehs

http://www.lipstickalley.com/showthread.php?t=425797

Dude why even read that mess?

I wrote those lsa chicks off as a lost cause a long time ago. As long as you follow the gems in this thread, you'll be straight.

 

[Spin]

Good post by a person on Reddit. The importance of touch.

"I found through exploratory touch in encounters; (typically in higher class bars and nightclubs I frequent) that the more of these areas I can touch, casually, the higher the likelihood of me fukking her that same night. Although let's face it, if she lets you rest your hand inside her thigh, she's gonna be riding alpha dikk as soon as she can get you alone.

I try to incorporate these touches in stages; beginning with the wrist, usually by lightly grasping it to offer her a drink, making sure of eye contact. A woman is dominated by her inability to ignore chemical and hormonal impulses. This combination of touch and eye contact has secured me p*ssy in many encounters.

If followed up by moving your next exploratory touch to her upper arm. This is how I normally incorporate this touch - I leave her the fukk alone. For her, it's an uncomfortable length of time. I excuse myself to the bathroom, and tell her I'll be back quickly. Then I sit down, check my emails. I might text another girl. I might text my friends. The point is, I'm taking my fukking time.

When I return, 9/10 times she's still sitting there, alone or being bothered by beta jackals. On approach, I grasp her shoulder more firmly than my first touch. I apologize and take my seat. Resuming conversation, I'll order more drink and shift closer. I find it easier to establish body contact before the next touch. What I mean is, scoot closer to her and make your thigh touch hers. This has been the best time in my experience for what is, in my opinion, the most important touch. Her inner thigh. Do it with confidence, don't make it look accidental. Don't make it look fumbling or creepy. It's a statement of fact. You're asserting something you both know, that's unspoken until you do this. You're going to fukk her, and you're going to do it tonight. If she reacts positively to this, you're in. Access the nape of her neck next, brush her hair from her collar, and let your touch linger.

Obviously the picture also highlights her breasts and ass, if you can pull off those touches right away then you're not working on the right girls - you're touching a whore right now, dude. Maybe move your hunt to a higher class establishment.

This isn't a PUA routine, this isn't supposed to be a script, don't try to pick-up a woman simply by using these touches, without any charm or conversation to back it up. This is just advice that you can ignore or incorporate to enhance your encounters with women."

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/...counters_capitalizing_on_the_sensitive_areas/

 

[Medio]

We can only talk about women and how to deal with them so long before we start repeating ourselves... and ultimately, you can't really control what a woman does and you'll never really know what she's doing when you're not around... so let's focus on the main subject that we CAN control, which is improving ourselves.

Let's continue on the discussion of money. The average guy looks at money as something to be procured and spent immediately on some material item. That's because of consumerism-oriented brainwashing. Most people have this unexplainable urge to buy things, and they can't really figure out the root of it. Little do they know how much psychological trickery and brainwashing goes on in order to induce within you an impulse to buy. This constant need to buy will introduce a mentality into you that will forever have you as a debt slave and you will continually be under the thumb of corporations. You will also be a dependent and be forced to work at places you hate with people you cannot stand. Why? Because you have no kind of savings to fall back on.

Your mission is to pay off your debts and to start saving your money so you can live a FLUID and FREE lifestyle, meaning if you get fired or lose your job for another reason, it won't be all that huge of a deal because you have so much money saved up. Structuring your life to be responsible is the key. Minimalism is a philosophy you should embrace. Just as companies aggressively cut costs to improve their bottom line, you should cut out unnecessary expenditures so that you can build up your fall-back fund and your investment fund. You need to also take time to reflect on your consumeristic nature and learn to slowly reduce your addiction to buying. What you are ultimately developing are positive financial HABITS.

I agree and can't stress enough that finance is maybe the most important thing to improve about yourself. Recently over the last couple years I have began starting to shy away from consumerism which is a good thing, it's such a cycle and ridiculous way for you to give your money to someone else, that's it. You don't gain shyt from it. I really save a lot of my money now, I don't know what I'm going to do with it yet but I damn well know I'm not going to spend it on some 200 shoes or a shirt with some stupid logo on it. I buy clothes but I keep it simple Let's face it, if you are worried about something being 'a fake' like fake jordans or a fake polo or some shyt then consumerism has got you like crazy.

I myself, I took out loans for college - this is pretty much the only thing in life that I regret. If I could go back I'd work for 2 years after highschool and save money then go to college. But I got a good advanced degree and for me it was an investment because I will be able to pay off my loans with ease considering my salary. After I'm done paying them off I will be so happy and free and I can't wait. It's going to be a great feeling to not owe anyone money for anything.

Also, I think it comes down to school and learning. I feel financial independence and finance is not taught enough in schools, and this has us trapped. I feel if students learned more about finance, the what to do's and what to not do's a lot of people would be better of financially but it's just another way to keep people in more debt.

 

[smARTmouf]

men...dont be fooled...im sick to my stomach read these womens confessions...purely sickening...dont get married brehs

http://www.lipstickalley.com/showthread.php?t=425797

Imagine the stories here if people could go incog..

 

[jjj123]

Imagine the stories here if people could go incog..

no need breh, that thread right there is enough for me

 

[MikelArteta]

Thank you God for blessing me

 

[jjj123]

Thank you God for blessing me

do tell

 

[MikelArteta]

do tell

just saying when you find a good girl whose into you and respects you as a man, and has a humble heart of gold don't mess it up.

she may not be a 10/10 instagram model with a big booty and big t*ts, I never ever thought I'd get the great white buffalo again but i have .

one righteous great women is worth more than a million big booty instagram models

 

[CASHAPP]

Imagine the stories here if people could go incog..

i always wondered what the fukkery in general would be on coli if folks could go "incog"

 

[Kenny West]

Good post by a person on Reddit. The importance of touch.

"I found through exploratory touch in encounters; (typically in higher class bars and nightclubs I frequent) that the more of these areas I can touch, casually, the higher the likelihood of me fukking her that same night. Although let's face it, if she lets you rest your hand inside her thigh, she's gonna be riding alpha dikk as soon as she can get you alone.

I try to incorporate these touches in stages; beginning with the wrist, usually by lightly grasping it to offer her a drink, making sure of eye contact. A woman is dominated by her inability to ignore chemical and hormonal impulses. This combination of touch and eye contact has secured me p*ssy in many encounters.

If followed up by moving your next exploratory touch to her upper arm. This is how I normally incorporate this touch - I leave her the fukk alone. For her, it's an uncomfortable length of time. I excuse myself to the bathroom, and tell her I'll be back quickly. Then I sit down, check my emails. I might text another girl. I might text my friends. The point is, I'm taking my fukking time.

When I return, 9/10 times she's still sitting there, alone or being bothered by beta jackals. On approach, I grasp her shoulder more firmly than my first touch. I apologize and take my seat. Resuming conversation, I'll order more drink and shift closer. I find it easier to establish body contact before the next touch. What I mean is, scoot closer to her and make your thigh touch hers. This has been the best time in my experience for what is, in my opinion, the most important touch. Her inner thigh. Do it with confidence, don't make it look accidental. Don't make it look fumbling or creepy. It's a statement of fact. You're asserting something you both know, that's unspoken until you do this. You're going to fukk her, and you're going to do it tonight. If she reacts positively to this, you're in. Access the nape of her neck next, brush her hair from her collar, and let your touch linger.

Obviously the picture also highlights her breasts and ass, if you can pull off those touches right away then you're not working on the right girls - you're touching a whore right now, dude. Maybe move your hunt to a higher class establishment.

This isn't a PUA routine, this isn't supposed to be a script, don't try to pick-up a woman simply by using these touches, without any charm or conversation to back it up. This is just advice that you can ignore or incorporate to enhance your encounters with women."

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/...counters_capitalizing_on_the_sensitive_areas/

Kino is king.

 

[The ADD]

just saying when you find a good girl whose into you and respects you as a man, and has a humble heart of gold don't mess it up.

she may not be a 10/10 instagram model with a big booty and big t*ts, I never ever thought I'd get the great white buffalo again but i have .

one righteous great women is worth more than a million big booty instagram models

 

[MikelArteta]

Here's what guys in here should focus on. Build yourself up and learn the difference between putting your resources into depreciating and appreciating assets. You go around here, spend all your money on Jordans, clothes, rims, etc., trying to look fly and you'll have just put yourself in a position of financial dependency. You won't be able to sell all that junk nearly for the price you've paid for them. Maybe you got some broad's attention 'flashing' and 'looking crispy', but after a few moments with them, where are those broads now? Oh yeah, they're a memory, but I bet you wish you had that money. Assets that appreciate are education, stocks, bonds, land, etc. What you really should be doing is educating yourself and developing skills, and I don't necessarily mean through school. I learned way more outside of school than I ever did inside.

A man that learns to focus on putting the majority of his resources into assets will end up much better off than one who is throwing his money away trying to impress women or just on consumer items. Here's the number one thing I want you guys to focus on this year. GET YOUR DEBTS PAID OFF. It makes no sense 'saving money' in a low interest banking account when you have a high interest loan/cc bill going against you... Why is that? Because you are getting poorer by the minute. How are you really getting ahead if you get $5 of interest but you are paying the CC company $45 worth? The key is to put the percentages of interest in your favor.

One of the best feelings you can have is being debt free and not really owing anyone money. And let me tell you one of the biggest areas people spend all their money when they could really be saving is in cars. You buy this expensive new car and you'll feel fly for a couple of years, but that new car soon turns into an old and used car, but you still have that massive car payment. Instead of getting that $40,000 car, get that $20,000 car and use the 20,000 difference to flip it legally and make more money or to significantly improve your skills, which will make you more economically viable.

You don't want to be in a state of dependency with debt collectors beating down your back, and if you structure your life correctly, you can be doing real fly things... you'll be nearly stress-free and taking trips across the world while other dudes are getting abused by their bosses at a job they can't leave because they are knee high in debt.

yup because the sad thing is most of these women only stay around for a season, just like fashion, you may be that new shoes in her closet she loves it etc., but its only a high and once it dies will you still be rocked

 

[kevm3]

What makes everything so difficult as a man is that we place such a high emphasis on looks, but when it comes down to it, the woman for us may not be the best-looking. Fine women are kind of like a rat trap. You see the cheese there and you want it so bad you ignore the clamp that's about to slam on your neck. We call animals dumb, but we fall for the same thing.

 

[Two Stacks]

What makes everything so difficult as a man is that we place such a high emphasis on looks, but when it comes down to it, the woman for us may not be the best-looking. Fine women are kind of like a rat trap. You see the cheese there and you want it so bad you ignore the clamp that's about to slam on your neck. We call animals dumb, but we fall for the same thing.

This kinda sorta happened to me. Chick tried to get at me at the tail end of 2012. All into church, etc, doesn't have sex, and was sexually abused during her childhood through HS years, which is what really distanced me....I felt shallow though for the fact she has to at least be 250-300lbs, damn near same height as me. But she seemed to like me for me.