Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CanesMiamiLakers]

A man one thing about women is you finish how u start...if u show her it's a 50-50 thing then that's how it will be. But u can't just pay for everything all the time and then expect her to start doing it.

 

[BreezyH]

was out in DC this weekend. went on a date with a chick who really likes me. long story short, she got a deal and paid for it in advance. so i had to reimburse her. i gave her 50% of the costs and she got upset. like "Oh... we're splitting everything?" im like this was your idea. you mentioned splitting it. don't switch it up and expect me to translate that into I need to pay 75 -100%.

and she's one of those independent chicks with a good job. i dont understand women yo. im bout to her to the bushes off principle.

for those of yall in the dating game, i swear you'll learn a lot about women by asking them to go dutch or asking them to plan a date. just try it out and see how indignant they get. this shyt sparked a debate with my homegirl too. She was like, "I just feel like a man should plan the dates and pay in the beginning to show he's interested and cares." I was like, "What is the woman doing in return to show she's interested and cares? Putting on makeup? Yall expect us to do everything but want things to be equal." she had no answer for that.​

whether or not it works out, you just laid down important groundwork. when she calls you up, now she knows it ain't for a free meal all the time. i can't get mad at the girl for wanting you to pay - it's in her short-term best interest to not come out of pocket, but if she inviting you out, picking the place, she needs to expect to pay.

also keep in mind, yall not even exclusive so she probably dating other dudes and you other women. take that date that you're "supposed" to pay for at multiply it by 3 or four . a lot of these women wouldn't want date around privileges if they actually had to come out of pocket

 

[JackM]

Okay, just because you won't tolerate it doesn't mean I can't. Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who was friends with their ex? If you haven't then you're advice is VERY limited to me. I appreciate your concern though, honestly. I know people who are friends with their ex and they have a fine relationship with the current person.

She told me from the jump she is friends with her ex still and it's something that I can accept. I am not going to have a totally flawless relationship, I'm not insecure about it at all. She literally has no time to even do anything, she is in a hard medical program, all she does is study study study. She likes me so much that she is willing to even do a little worse in her program gradewise just to salvage our relationship. We both are putting in a lot of work making our relationship work. We don't even have time for games man, real talk. I have her class schedule, passwords to all her accounts/emails/everything, i can go through her phone, etc. etc...

So even if she did do some funny ish it'll be fukking hard AF for her to hide it.

That's why I appreciate the advice from reincar cause he knows I'm not going to tolerate anything, I don't like it but I can accept it. If you got burned in the past doesn't mean I will. And if she tries anything with that nikka, i'm leaving her so quick and she knows that.

RED FLAGS BREH!

Kick her to tha curb.

 

[A.V.]

RED FLAGS BREH!

Kick her to tha curb.

I tried to tell this nikka, he ain't wanna listen. Let him learn on his own

 

[JackM]

I tried to tell this nikka, he ain't wanna listen. Let him learn on his own

She laid it out for him bascially.

"Look bruh, I'm still cool (aka still hittin) wit my ex bf, I ain't got time 2 kick it with you, matter of fact, I DON'T wanna kick it with you, I wish you would catch a hint."

 

[DaRealness]

I tried to tell this nikka, he ain't wanna listen. Let him learn on his own

 

[Jone2three45]

Never mess with a woman who still keeps in contact with her ex and guys she grew up with that she considers brothers.

 

[DaRealness]

was out in DC this weekend. went on a date with a chick who really likes me. long story short, she got a deal and paid for it in advance. so i had to reimburse her. i gave her 50% of the costs and she got upset. like "Oh... we're splitting everything?" im like this was your idea. you mentioned splitting it. don't switch it up and expect me to translate that into I need to pay 75 -100%.

and she's one of those independent chicks with a good job. i dont understand women yo. im bout to her to the bushes off principle.

for those of yall in the dating game, i swear you'll learn a lot about women by asking them to go dutch or asking them to plan a date. just try it out and see how indignant they get. this shyt sparked a debate with my homegirl too. She was like, "I just feel like a man should plan the dates and pay in the beginning to show he's interested and cares." I was like, "What is the woman doing in return to show she's interested and cares? Putting on makeup? Yall expect us to do everything but want things to be equal." she had no answer for that.​

LOL @ her getting upset when she's the one who suggested it in the first place. She probably thought getting a deal was enough.

You always learn a lot from listening to women talk. Notice how they never, ever talk about things they "should" do (that benefits the man)?

A man "should":

- Always be the one to approach and initiate convo
- Always be the one to ask for the number and call her first
- Always be the one to do the homework on any hot spots
- Always be the one to drive his car (and pay for his own fuel) and pick her up
- Always be the one to lay his jacket on a puddle so she can step on it
- Always be the one to hold the door
- Always be the one to pay for the meal (it has to be expensive too!)
- Always be the one to drop her off home walk up to the door
- Always be the one to text the following day to say "it was great" (then get a "k" in response LMAO)

What does the woman do in all of this that benefits the man? fukk all.

I could go on and on.....the more you analyse this shyt, the more you realise that most have been and are still getting played. A lot of it is because they fall for the shaming tactics by women and simps and have been brainwashed. They're too scared to speak up in case they're labelled as cheap or not being real men, so they go all out tricking, spending money they'd rather hold on to.

If Starbucks ain't enough for a chick then you need to send her off to the bushes. As a man, don't let no one tell you what you "should" do with YOUR own money and time while they just sit back and reap off it.

 

[DaRealness]

We all love old school R&B, but man, the simp messages were super cringeworthy looking back!



[SPOKEN:]
Hey, come here for a second
I don't like the way he treats you
He doesn't deserve you
He really don't

What kind of man
Would leave you standing in the cold
Must've been a silly one
To sacrifice a pot of gold
You're the kind of woman
That needs a man that's always there
It's not that you require a lot
Just need some tender love and care

I give good love
I'll buy your clothes
I'll cook your dinner too
Soon as I get home from work
I'll pay your rent
Your faithful lover
Soon as I get home, soon as I get home from work
Girl, I'll treat you right
And I'll never lie
For all that it's worth
I give good love (good love, good love, good love, good love)

It doesn't make sense
That you should have a broken heart
If I were the only one
I'd never let you fall apart
You're the kind of woman
That needs a man with lots of cash
With a stack of major credit cards
And with me you don't have to ask

I give good love
I'll buy your clothes
I'll cook your dinner too
Soon as I get home from work
I'll pay your rent
Your faithful lover
Soon as I get home, soon as I get home from work
Girl, I'll treat you right
And I'll never lie or flirt
Soon as I get home, soon as I get home from work
Girl I'll be around, never let you down
For all that it's worth
I give good love (good love, good love, good love, good love)
I give good love (good love, good love, good love, good love)

[HOOK]


So you do all that for a chick who's never even shown she deserves all that shyt, yet after a hard day's work you're gonna come home AND cook dinner on top of it? So what was she doing for nine or more hours? Oh that's right, probably maxing out your credit card and getting her back blown out by that same dude who supposedly treated her bad!!

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Brehs how can I get my woman to act right?
My only problem is that I want her to sweat me. Basically want her to be thirsty.

Spoiler

yes I might be a beta male and need a neg but if my woman was on my jock heavy I'd be

 

[Atlrocafella]

I really needed this thread today brehs.

 

[DaRealness]

I really needed this thread today brehs.

Why's that bruh?

 

[kevm3]

That's why I never liked rnb... all that whining and catering to women.

you seriously need to think of the audacity for her to choose the date/dinner and then try to lay the costs on you. That's like you walking up to a woman and saying, dinner and a movie tonight. By the way, you're paying. A lot of women love fishing for suckers and try to get men all they can get them for. It's your job to say no.

 

[Jone2three45]

That's why I never liked rnb... all that whining and catering to women.

you seriously need to think of the audacity for her to choose the date/dinner and then try to lay the costs on you. That's like you walking up to a woman and saying, dinner and a movie tonight. By the way, you're paying. A lot of women love fishing for suckers and try to get men all they can get them for. It's your job to say no.

We should give praise to rap for an alternative

 

[Atlrocafella]

Why's that bruh?

I was starting to fall into a web of games this female was trying to play with me. Had to remind myself to toss them into bushes once they start with that mess.