Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

The primary way that men lose when dealing with women is they have the attitude that they want to 'be with the woman' as opposed to having the woman 'wanting to be with him.' When you look at your interactions with women, you have to check yourself for the former attitude constantly. A lot of old school cats will tell you quite simply, "She has to like you more than you like her." To further elaborate, you will enter into a losing relationship when the woman perceives herself as higher value than you and you also perceive her as higher value than you. From this perception will derive emasculating and catering behavior on your part, as well as disrespectful behavior on her part. As a man, you have to learn to keep your emotions in check and learn to limit the context in which you express that feeling of desire. You also have to be aware of the paradigm in play. Are you being looked upon as higher value? Are you consistently acting in the fashion of a man who is higher value? Ignore the mainstream agenda of 'men and women are equal'. If you do not provide her a feeling that you are of higher value, then she simply won't deal with you. Remember, women choose UP... and the element that determines your value the greatest is not materials, but rather, how you express yourself... your personality.

 

[BAiiNE]

The primary way that men lose when dealing with women is they have the attitude that they want to 'be with the woman' as opposed to having the woman 'wanting to be with him.' When you look at your interactions with women, you have to check yourself for the former attitude constantly. A lot of old school cats will tell you quite simply, "She has to like you more than you like her." To further elaborate, you will enter into a losing relationship when the woman perceives herself as higher value than you and you also perceive her as higher value than you. From this perception will derive emasculating and catering behavior on your part, as well as disrespectful behavior on her part. As a man, you have to learn to keep your emotions in check and learn to limit the context in which you express that feeling of desire. You also have to be aware of the paradigm in play. Are you being looked upon as higher value? Are you consistently acting in the fashion of a man who is higher value? Ignore the mainstream agenda of 'men and women are equal'. If you do not provide her a feeling that you are of higher value, then she simply won't deal with you. Remember, women choose UP... and the element that determines your value the greatest is not materials, but rather, how you express yourself... your personality.

Wow. Reading some of these post, I'm amazed

 

[DaRealness]

lol guess who sent me a WhatsApp message again.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

WTF is wrong with these hoes. The game is fukked up.

I'm gonna try to smash and if she doesn't let me smash quickly I'm throwing her in the bushes breh. She showed her hand. Too many cats are getting used for dinners. Not me breh.

The audacity of this broad. Back in the day, I used to set the date up then cancel the night before just to be spiteful.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

You know what...I have my morals. She's 31. I was told that she doesnt have sex at all. That either means she's NEVER had sex or she's reformed. If i find that she's reformed, im im not dealing with that.

I'm not naive nor am i ignorant. She's either a super prude angel or a bustdown. Gotta find out which.

Or there is a simpler explanation...she's been too busy on her medical study grind to develop a relationship to the point where she's comfortable enough to have sex.

She is a doctor. That means after graduating undergrad, she's had to complete:
4 years of med school
4 years of residency

Not to mention her specialty aint all that easy to get into.

Dont make assumptions and talk yourself out of this.

 

[Atlrocafella]

The primary way that men lose when dealing with women is they have the attitude that they want to 'be with the woman' as opposed to having the woman 'wanting to be with him.' When you look at your interactions with women, you have to check yourself for the former attitude constantly. A lot of old school cats will tell you quite simply, "She has to like you more than you like her." To further elaborate, you will enter into a losing relationship when the woman perceives herself as higher value than you and you also perceive her as higher value than you. From this perception will derive emasculating and catering behavior on your part, as well as disrespectful behavior on her part. As a man, you have to learn to keep your emotions in check and learn to limit the context in which you express that feeling of desire. You also have to be aware of the paradigm in play. Are you being looked upon as higher value? Are you consistently acting in the fashion of a man who is higher value? Ignore the mainstream agenda of 'men and women are equal'. If you do not provide her a feeling that you are of higher value, then she simply won't deal with you. Remember, women choose UP... and the element that determines your value the greatest is not materials, but rather, how you express yourself... your personality.

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[Two Stacks]

One of the most dangerous assumptions that men make about women is that they were taught the exact same things that they, as boys, were taught when growing up. In some capacity, boys were taught to be fair, we were taught to treat women like ladies. To be nice... to be providers, etc. On the contrary, how often have you heard women being told to 'woman up' or to act like a lady? If you've been privy to hear women talk where they feel comfortable, you'd learn that in many aspects that they will discuss how to manipulate men for their own benefit. You don't often hear philosophical discussions of fairness and decency in regard to men. While the average man is typically being taught to look at women as beings who are their equals who should be treated more than fairly, etc., women are often taught to look at men for their 'utility', or rather, what she can get out of him. "What kind of job does he have? Get a man that makes a lot of money. What kind of car does he drive? What did he buy you?" A woman will hear a lot of that talk from even her mother. A large population of women are trained by countless sources that it is ok to manipulate men via charm and other psychological techniques. Simultaneously, men are trained to be these suckers who are more easily manipulated, aka be chivalrous. If you are not aware what is happening, you will continually be used, abused and disrespected.

One of these techniques is called procuration by hint. She will indirectly suggest what she wants in order to hopefully get you to step up and take her up on her offer.
What she says: "Ughh, this month has been so hard for me financially. I don't know how I will pay my bills."
What she means: "Let me see if this dude will pay my rent."

What she says: "That diamond ring is SO nice."
What she means: "Let me drop hints so he knows what to get me if he decides to 'surprise' me with a gift."

Women don't often come out and directly say what it is they want or what they want you to do. They circle around the wagon... and if you notice, in this increasingly feminized society, a lot of dudes are using the exact same tactics. A lot of dudes are 'hinting' instead of going for directly. But anyways, back to manipulation technique discussion. Another one is favor stacking. This is where she asks for something small... she sees that you will do it, and she gradually builds the requests to larger and larger things. "Can you pick that pencil up for me?" "Can you bring me that over there?" "Can you drive me to the movies?" "Can you loan me some money?" When she gets you comfortable saying yes to the small things, she will go on to the larger things.

Another technique is 'flipping the script."
When she gets caught up doing something wrong, instead of owning up to it, she will 'flip the script' on you and try to make you feel about about something to get the blame off of her.
Man: "I saw you were out at the club when you told me you were sleeping.
Woman: "Oh, why you checking up on me? I feel sooo creeped out by your spying."

The primary way that men lose when dealing with women is they have the attitude that they want to 'be with the woman' as opposed to having the woman 'wanting to be with him.' When you look at your interactions with women, you have to check yourself for the former attitude constantly. A lot of old school cats will tell you quite simply, "She has to like you more than you like her." To further elaborate, you will enter into a losing relationship when the woman perceives herself as higher value than you and you also perceive her as higher value than you. From this perception will derive emasculating and catering behavior on your part, as well as disrespectful behavior on her part. As a man, you have to learn to keep your emotions in check and learn to limit the context in which you express that feeling of desire. You also have to be aware of the paradigm in play. Are you being looked upon as higher value? Are you consistently acting in the fashion of a man who is higher value? Ignore the mainstream agenda of 'men and women are equal'. If you do not provide her a feeling that you are of higher value, then she simply won't deal with you. Remember, women choose UP... and the element that determines your value the greatest is not materials, but rather, how you express yourself... your personality.

Or there is a simpler explanation...she's been too busy on her medical study grind to develop a relationship to the point where she's comfortable enough to have sex.

She is a doctor. That means after graduating undergrad, she's had to complete:
4 years of med school
4 years of residency

Not to mention her specialty aint all that easy to get into.

Dont make assumptions and talk yourself out of this.

*listens* @PrnzHakeem EDIT: She told me she is done with school, and her FB reflects that. She told me all she really does is work, and go to church. She's involved with a youth group. She also said that I came along at a great time. So I'm just letting this all develop, not even sweating her right now. I just want to make sure she doesn't think I want her money, cause I don't.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

*listens* @PrnzHakeem EDIT: She told me she is done with school, and her FB reflects that. She told me all she really does is work, and go to church. She's involved with a youth group. She also said that I came along at a great time. So I'm just letting this all develop, not even sweating her right now. I just want to make sure she doesn't think I want her money, cause I don't.

She's done with school, but she might not be done with the grind. After med school comes a 4 year apprenticeship where you're working 10-12 hours a day, then you gotta study just to keep up cuz everyday at work is a test, on top of that you might have a licensing exam coming up or some research you gotta do. All to make some measly $50-$60K for those 4 years. She really might only work and go to church.

I met my lady when she was a 2nd yr med student, we got married a few months after she graduated. Even though we lived together, we rarely kicked it with each other until it was bed time.

Take it as a good sign that she's open to spending time with you. As you talk to her more, find out what her schedule is like and decide for yourself whether she's blowing smoke about her social life.

edit: LOL, one of my wife's Dr friends is still a virgin. She dates but is more "meh" about it. She's super fly too. I think no dudes stick around cuz she might be waiting til marriage.

 

[The ADD]

She's done with school, but she might not be done with the grind. After med school comes a 4 year apprenticeship where you're working 10-12 hours a day, then you gotta study just to keep up cuz everyday at work is a test, on top of that you might have a licensing exam coming up or some research you gotta do. All to make some measly $50-$60K for those 4 years. She really might only work and go to church.

I met my lady when she was a 2nd yr med student, we got married a few months after she graduated. Even though we lived together, we rarely kicked it with each other until it was bed time.

Take it as a good sign that she's open to spending time with you. As you talk to her more, find out what her schedule is like and decide for yourself whether she's blowing smoke about her social life.

edit: LOL, one of my wife's Dr friends is still a virgin. She dates but is more "meh" about it. She's super fly too. I think no dudes stick around cuz she might be waiting til marriage.

Pic vio on the unicorn

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Starting to get warm. Coming outta hibernation for the summer. Cant wait.
Crib is wardrobe gettin right, new ride coming in June w/ money ready for mods.

When your shyt is in order, and you KNOW you have value as a man, if a woman says "no" you just keep it movin. Their loss, literally

 

[EA]

@kevm3 drops nothing but wisdom

 

[Panther]

Ol girl wants me to commit to being in a relationship before giving up the puss...not gonna happen

 

[Mr.Plan B]

So me being nice guy gave the African chick who made me some food some candy nothing big about 5 bucks..................

How the fukk everybody at work know about it 5 different females came up to me today asking about the chick i gave candy too.......

Man this bytch have the nerv to say this place is just like a high school anything that happens we will find out............. fohhhhhhh

 

[PrnzHakeem]

Ol girl wants me to commit to being in a relationship before giving up the puss...not gonna happen

@The ADD

See how sometimes these chicks fall through the dating cracks and end up 30 year old virgins?

 

[The ADD]

@The ADD

See how sometimes these chicks fall through the dating cracks and end up 30 year old virgins?

I dated one and worked with another it's