Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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But nah she knew she fd up, acted like she was tired and went to bed. Then calls me at 1am when she's at the club I was sleeping. Then I asked why did you call me so late oh I went to my ex coworkers party.

Then yesterday night this ex co worker birthday party was at a club and this ex coworker is a male :camby:
Women and their half-truths
 

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The bytch I met off that Tinder app seems to genuinely be attracted to me (but im on high alert catfish guard, she's about a 6 or so.). She's 27. She works for a non profit.

The doctor (anesthesiologist) seems to see my potential cause she gave me her number even though im beneath her on a professional level, and 3 years younger.
(she has the same birthdate as my sister). I miscalculated. She's 31, and I'm 27 (28 in the summer).

This chick i met who's into shoes like me is about to be 22. She likes to skateboard too. She is a teacher. Her moms likes me.

The coworker (yea i know) is in nursing school. She will be a nurse. Black mom, white dad (absent).

There's another that ive know for fukking...12 years, she's 27, works at UPS. One of the few women I fukked. I'm very picky about that. We click. But sometimes, she tends to close up and cut herself off, cause she's mad at her family or some shyt :childplease: she irritates me with that, but i can tell she cares....on guard.

So that would be my starting 5. All i'd rate between a 5 and a 7 on an overall scale. The coworker has the best t*ts i've seen in a long time, and she got a fat ass p*ssy.

Pending is a 25ish year old Asst. Manager at a footlocker. I forgot what she went to school for but she's sexy as fukk and has a great personality. I'd give her an overall 8 on the scale.

I read some shyt saying to go for women out of your league, and you'd be surprised. That would be the doctor, and she's been very receptive, and i've only texted her on wednesday. got her number monday.

based off that list i'd say go for the doc too. i was initially going to say the chick that likes shoes like you/skateboards (seems cool as hell) until i read the part about her moms
 

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based off that list i'd say go for the doc too. i was initially going to say the chick that likes shoes like you/skateboards (seems cool as hell) until i read the part about her moms

Right now I've pared it down to the doctor, the skater chick, and the young AM at the local footlocker (if she doesn't have a bf).

Why not the skater chick if her moms thinks im a good dude?
 

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That lil mo leaves the preacher thread just made me think about something. It's very important to look into a woman's past and see the type of dudes she normally deals with. What are the similarities of her past dudes? Every woman has a type or types she likes to deal with. Some women like them 'roughnecks' and others like intellectual brothas, and other like smooth, playa types, etc., etc.

Why is this important? This is important because if you are in direct opposition to the type she normally deals with, you need to start asking questions. There is a very high probability that what you're doing with her won't last if you are not her inherent preference. For example, you meet this chick and she dealt with nothing but bikers, but all of a sudden she says she wants some nice guy that has it all together. What made her want to change? I bet when you ask her, she will tell you something along the lines of 'they just weren't right for her.' Realistically, everyone has their inherent preference... They have that type they are naturally attracted to, and if finances and other life considerations were taken out of the equation, that's the type of dude they will gravitate towards and deal with over all others.

The importance of this knowledge is that you don't want to be that 'contrast' to her normal type, ESPECIALLY when she wants to deal with you because she feels the other guys aren't committing or causing too much trouble for her. She's essentially saying that she needs a walking paycheck or emotional rest haven to get her back on her feet and she's scouting you as a potential victim. When her emotions or her finances are recuperated, she will go RIGHT BACK to her initial preference.

You want to be that dude that deals with women who like your type. If you're an intellectual type of dude, you want to go for that chick who likes intellectual dudes and that's who she deals with inherently. People gravitate back towards their inherent preferences more times than not.

would that fall under race also in regards to type? how deep does it go/what type of levels? Say it's a chick that doesn't mess with brotha's and switches up to a brotha, or vice versa always messed with brothas then switched it up, should there be concern for the dude. I feel you on the mental aspect of it (such as intelligence), i've never thought too much about the physical makeup like race, is there any weight held there?
 

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Right now I've pared it down to the doctor, the skater chick, and the young AM at the local footlocker (if she doesn't have a bf).

Why not the skater chick if her moms thinks im a good dude?

Why do you have to pare it down? Date all of them as you should :manny:
 

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Right now I've pared it down to the doctor, the skater chick, and the young AM at the local footlocker (if she doesn't have a bf).

Why not the skater chick if her moms thinks im a good dude?

i've heard too many stories, hell even from my own personal experiences that if the mom digs you TOO much, not on some :shaq: ish (even though it can be that way in some cases) but mainly on some homer/biggest fan type ish it COULD be bad. Better results are produced if the pops is feeling you n/h (bar any situations where the pops is not in the picture in some aspect).

I'm just saying watch/make sure her moms isn't over doing it, it will start to drag/get on her daughters nerves and she will take it out on you.
 

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Meaning those are the 3 i WILL date. All others= bushes. :camby:
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http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/371001/Just-Jane-Should-I-forgive-my-cheating-ex-girlfriend

MY ex-girlfriend insists that I forgive her for breaking my heart and ripping me off.

She says that she can’t move on with her life unless she knows that I’m willing to absolve her of everything she did to me.

She is actually demanding a letter. She’s sent me a draft copy with the kind of wording she thinks would be appropriate.

To say I’m gobsmacked is the understatement of the year.

This is from the woman who spent my money, insulted my parents and trashed my car.

Not only that but she seduced two of my closest friends and continued to work as an escort girl throughout our two years together.


On the day our relationship finally imploded and I dumped her, I looked her in the eye and spat: “I don’t really know you at all, do I?”

She just raised her eyebrows and shrugged.

Two weeks later she sent me a long, rambling email blaming her parents and terrible childhood for her behaviour.

In short, she blamed everyone while still refusing to take any responsibility for herself.

Now, apparently, she’s turned over a new leaf and part of her fresh start involves seeking forgiveness for her past sins.

She hurt me so much but now she’s making me feel guilty and awkward for refusing to write the letter she requires.

The woman is doing my head in all over again. But why on earth should I dance to her tune?


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bytch is actually demanding dude write her a letter (making a draft and all) expressing his forgiveness so she can move on! :mindblown: WTF? I've never heard no shyt like that yet! :dead:
 

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hilarious when you just say fuk it and stop initiating contact two weeks and counting brehs not a peep. should of known from the start bytch was just fuking with me, saying she loved me after the first date and shyt yet cant send a fuking text:camby:

girls are like casinos....you wont win shyt but they NEED you to have a reason to play....its how they survive.....dont be a gambling addict
 
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