The media...Whats up with women who talk down to themselves "I dont think im cute,im overweight" etc...
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Rocket Scientist
Superstar
bruh its serious brainwashing.Im not sayin a woman should be arrogant but she needs some sort of confidence.I dont know how cats deal with that
its like going in crcles "im not cute,im fat" whenever she is given a compliment.
Yepbruh its serious brainwashing.Im not sayin a woman should be arrogant but she needs some sort of confidence.I dont know how cats deal with that
You can't treat people like their NBA players
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You look good...but, you could like better 
if you ain't gettin' better, you gettin' worst"And, the dynamics of sex have caused us men to co-sign any goofy ideals of "I'm too fat" and, to women, "Nah, babe you good" has become currency to get in her pants.
Cray
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/371001/Just-Jane-Should-I-forgive-my-cheating-ex-girlfriend
MY ex-girlfriend insists that I forgive her for breaking my heart and ripping me off.
She says that she can’t move on with her life unless she knows that I’m willing to absolve her of everything she did to me.
She is actually demanding a letter. She’s sent me a draft copy with the kind of wording she thinks would be appropriate.
To say I’m gobsmacked is the understatement of the year.
This is from the woman who spent my money, insulted my parents and trashed my car.
Not only that but she seduced two of my closest friends and continued to work as an escort girl throughout our two years together.
On the day our relationship finally imploded and I dumped her, I looked her in the eye and spat: “I don’t really know you at all, do I?”
She just raised her eyebrows and shrugged.
Two weeks later she sent me a long, rambling email blaming her parents and terrible childhood for her behaviour.
In short, she blamed everyone while still refusing to take any responsibility for herself.
Now, apparently, she’s turned over a new leaf and part of her fresh start involves seeking forgiveness for her past sins.
She hurt me so much but now she’s making me feel guilty and awkward for refusing to write the letter she requires.
The woman is doing my head in all over again. But why on earth should I dance to her tune?
bytch is actually demanding dude write her a letter (making a draft and all) expressing his forgiveness so she can move on!
nothing surprises me anymore when it comes to women.
I'm sorry to say this @DaRealness breh but some dudes have to and must suffer the consequences for letting shyt get to this point and have no one to blame but themselves.
this is exactly what happens when someone does not respect you in the slightest.
Met another prospect. Teacher from Ohio, she's 24. More details as I get them.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
Whats up with women who talk down to themselves "I dont think im cute,im overweight" etc...
Uhhhh insecurity.
Most of what I'm saying is just a general observation. It's not something purely scientific that will predict things 100% of the time, so you always have to use your personal judgment.
Now, the basis of people who make their choices in such a fashion is that they are operating on a level of superficiality, including if they are dating someone else solely because they want to 'try a new race out'. If someone dated you specifically because you are black and 'out of their norm', I'd be wary of that person... or how you might come across some white girl who 'only likes black guys.' When you have someone who is dealing with you on that superficial factor, the problem is, you're not the only black guy out there... so if her dating criteria is that she wants to try out a 'black guy' or she likes 'black guys', then there are a ton of black guys out there and there and there is little that really distinguishes you. When it comes down to it, you want to deal with the woman who has gotten to know you and likes you because of YOU and not some general characteristic like you being black or having big muscles. Your personality and your individuality is really the only thing that is unique to you when it's said and done. If you're catching the interest of women on factors other than her really liking who you are as an individual, you become interchangeable... because there are always other people with muscles, who have the exotic appeal of being a different race, etc.
hilarious when you just say fuk it and stop initiating contact two weeks and counting brehs not a peep. should of known from the start bytch was just fuking with me, saying she loved me after the first date and shyt yet cant send a fuking text
"I love you" coming from the average woman's mouth means nothing. It's about as meaningful as her telling you, "You have nice shoes." A broad can tell you she loves you while another man is in the background smirking, about to tear that thing up. The thing that matters from a woman is her behavior towards you and the respect she accords you. If you want to continually be taken for a fool, base your decisions on what a woman says. If you want to keep your wits about you, base your decisions on what she does.
Words are cheaper than toilet paper and if you let a woman or anyone for that matter, buy themselves into your circle of respect and trust with smooth-talking, then you'll be taken for a sucker all the time. In fact, if someone gave you some toilet paper, at least toilet paper has utility. Their words don't. It's all about action. As you know, females are emotional creatures, as well as creatures of utiliy, so much of what they say is based off of that. She might be feeling great today and tells you she loves you because of the emotion she is feeling tomorrow. A couple of months down the line, the emotion is gone because 'she is bored' of you, and all of what she told you didn't mean a thing. If a woman tells you she loves you and you just met her, it's a lie and it's just verbal garbage that she pulls on everyone. If someone tells you they love a PS4 and you ask them what games they've played on it and they tell you they haven't played any games on it, you'd think they were crazy. How can you love a system that you haven't even tried out? Same thing with a woman. How can she love YOU when she knows nothing about you? Women that pop up with that I love you nonsense real quick tell that to everybody. She is either saying that to manipulate you in some fashion or she's reacting off of an immediate emotion... and the next dude can get that same emotion out of her, hence she will be saying the same thing to him.
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DaRealness
I think very deeply
I agree 100%. Some people will simply have to put their hand in the fire to know it burns.
What gets me is that even after the fact, they still ask "what should I do?"
Virtuous_Brotha
Superstar
ive come to realize love in general is an emotion no different to saying your happy or sad and can change just as easy. in my case i honestly think it was just a bit of fun like some role play shyt just to pass time like i said on valentines she was on facebook claiming shes lonely and single,yet was on the phone at 11 at night to me saying shes looking forward to a future with me even got me a valentine gift.
Virtuous_Brotha
Superstar
i used to drop them good morning texts every day for the last couple of months,then abruptly stopped two weeks ago.if she does eventually hit me up and hits me with the why havent i hit her up,i was wondering if should just be straight and tell her i thought she lost interest and was just stinging me along,or just play it cool and say i been busy doing me?
Data-Hawk
I have no strings on me.
Bruhs , if a female has pic of her and her ex on her IG, dead her.Lol. New chick give me her IG, so I started browsing it, she still has pics up of her and her ex showing the Good times less than a year ago..
I asked her , " are you REALLY single?". of course she says yes.. I didnt care to tell her why i asked her that because it would just lead to an argument. We arent together and I didnt hit yet so its not worth the trouble..
cut her off...
I asked her , " are you REALLY single?". of course she says yes.. I didnt care to tell her why i asked her that because it would just lead to an argument. We arent together and I didnt hit yet so its not worth the trouble..
cut her off...
fishing for complements. I usually don't even say anything likeWhats up with women who talk down to themselves "I dont think im cute,im overweight" etc...
Love is powerful, but what most people claim as love is nowhere near as such. They confuse a nice feeling with love, but love is more than a feeling. Love requires sacrifice. What most people claim to be love is nothing but them feeling a nice emotion, but that's nothing but an emotional high. Real love requires commitment... just like Jordan loved basketball, because even when he had that flu and wasn't 'feeling great', he still got on that court.
Honestly, that girl sounds shady. On one hand she's saying she's all into you, but on the other hand, she's leaving herself open to options, so i have a feeling that she is very interested in talking to other guys if she isn't already. Something I've come to realize is that a lot of women love collecting options. They love to have a foot in numerous doors. They might be with one guy, but they will leave their foot in other guys' doors in the even their current relationship busts bad or they feel like you're an 'upgrade'. They might be on facebook and poke you but they have a man or some other such nonsense.