Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RealAssanova]

I'm still learning shyt from this thread, but when has it EVER been cool to let finding your WIFE sucking some other nikka off slide?!?!

NEVER breh. That's why i want @DaRealness to stop posting shyt from that dumbazz maryjane section cuz every story just keeps getting worst and worst.

 

[RealAssanova]

Its this broad at work that don't talk to too many people besides me.
My supervisor saying im scared to get at her and all this but I think she would shoot me down.
When I first started talking to her I never tried to pull her so now waiting months later and trying to get the number probably wont work.
Missed my chance.

when you don't make your intentions known, shorty almost always bags you. She knows that point of you tryna fukk her has long passed, so she is now in a comfortable position where she can use you for attention and other shyt and not fukk or date you. Never give women that power. Always make your intentions known and control how you want things to happen cuz the minute you give someone else power it turns into a war you most likely won't ever win.

 

[DaRealness]

@DaRealness breh, it seems every post from there just keeps getting worst and worst. For our own sanity, can you not post anymore stuff from this site? You don't kno how many times i wanted to bang my computer cuz of sheer rage from reading shyt on this site.

I'm still learning shyt from this thread, but when has it EVER been cool to let finding your WIFE sucking some other nikka off slide?!?!

LOL I hear y'all, but the thing is, dudes (lurkers for the most part) need to be reminded and know what they're up against and notice the patterns and how to avoid them. Trust me, you can learn A LOT from simps and weak ass manginas and the women who manipulate them. Not even just simps, but regular dudes who genuinely get caught up since it can happen to anybody.

That's why a month ago I mentioned that this thread http://www.thecoli.com/threads/how-did-yall-find-out-your-boo-cheated.79036/ is the second most important after this one.

As unpleasant as it is, these horror stories need to be told every now and again. Who knows, it might just save a lifetime of misery to a dude who's on the verge of slipping.

 

[RealAssanova]

when it comes to initiating we as men for the most part have no choice but to do a lot in the early stages but if it doesnt even out after a while then somethings wrong.
she might even only be replying to not appear rude,let her hit you up sometimes.

i got no qualms about going after a broad in the beginning just so i can get what i want. Matter of fact, i prefer it this way cuz i got all the control. Ye she can say no or begin to play games, but then i'll just cut her off move on..which again leaves me in control (of myself atleast). The minute you lose control and fall into a single ploy of hers, its all downhill from there on out.

 

[DaRealness]

People will say reincar was too hard for dumping his chick for saying she was going to a bday party only to discover it was to the club to celebrate with a male coworker, but now you guys are understanding why. If you give these women an inch and let them play around, they will do unbelievably disrespectful things. You let the club thing slide, and next it'll be her going to lunch with a male coworker or 'just watching a movie together.' As a man, your time is too precious to be playing around and dealing with nonsensical drama.

He was right to dump that broad. If she can lie over something like that, then who's to tell what she'll do or lie about later on down the line. She knew it would be some shyt he'd disapprove of and that's why she did that. You can't start off a new relationship with dishonesty and expect it to go well. That's why all these marriages are falling like a deck of cards.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

when you don't make your intentions known, shorty almost always bags you. She knows that point of you tryna fukk her has long passed, so she is now in a comfortable position where she can use you for attention and other shyt and not fukk or date you. Never give women that power. Always make your intentions known and control how you want things to happen cuz the minute you give someone else power it turns into a war you most likely won't ever win.

I ain't shyt breh

 

[DaRealness]

Also another thing to consider: What other thread on this forum with a million plus views has a different dude every week saying how much this thread has changed their lives? As much as some of these other jokers like to throw sneak disses at us on here, what other thread are people admitting that it's shaped their whole outlook? We have men relating everything from huge losses to huge successes, some bad, some good. Many of us have dodged bullets as a result of something another person has related from personal experience or quoted from another source. While some people have accused us of saying same thing over and over, a new lurker discovering this thread for the first time is hardly gonna start at page 1 and read right through to 673 (current page). The thread has obviously evolved since it's inception and will continue since we're all getting older and eventually our individual views will change. Face it, this is one of THE best threads for men single or otherwise that you'll ever read.

 

[RealAssanova]

I ain't shyt breh

let this one go and take it as a lesson learned. Shorty may like you enough to introduce you to her homegirl(s). But the next shorty you wanna fukk, let her kno wassup from the 1st or 2nd time you interact. Trust me, you'll feel A WHOLE lot different.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Also another thing to consider: What other thread on this forum with a million plus views has a different dude every week saying how much this thread has changed their lives? As much as some of these other jokers like to throw sneak disses at us on here, what other thread are people admitting that it's shaped their whole outlook? We have men relating everything from huge losses to huge successes, some bad, some good. Many of us have dodged bullets as a result of something another person has related from personal experience or quoted from another source. While some people have accused us of saying same thing over and over, a new lurker discovering this thread for the first time is hardly gonna start at page 1 and read right through to 673 (current page). The thread has obviously evolved since it's inception and will continue since we're all getting older and eventually our individual views will change. Face it, this is one of THE best threads for men single or otherwise that you'll ever read.

Absolutely one of the best threads on the coli, and any message board I've been on. I'll be the first to say that I changed how i used to do things based on this thread, and there is always something new to learn. to all the brehs that have dropped powerful gems in here, especially the breh @kevm3

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

let this one go and take it as a lesson learned. Shorty may like you enough to introduce you to her homegirl(s). But the next shorty you wanna fukk, let her kno wassup from the 1st or 2nd time you interact. Trust me, you'll feel A WHOLE lot different.

You can't do that though.
Hoes know when dudes JUST LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE and wanna fukk.

 

[RealAssanova]

You can't do that though.
Hoes know when dudes JUST LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE and wanna fukk.

what you mean you can't do that though?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

what you mean you can't do that though?

Breh hoes know when dudes just wanna fukk.
You gone get added to the "ugh same ol nigguh" category

 

[RealAssanova]

Breh hoes know when dudes just wanna fukk.
You gone get added to the "ugh same ol nigguh" category

i didn't mean like a 'reveal you hand' typ'a thing. I meant, make your intentions known so that shorty knows you are a potential nikka she can fukk and perhaps develop a relationship with rather than being a nikka that is a pu$$y and a nikka she knows can be manipulated and used.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with tellin shorty you find her attractive and that even though ya'll may not know each other that well, you don't see why that can't change.

vs

talking to her whenever you get a chance to about common stuff and other mundane shyt

2 different actions with 2 very different outcomes.

and the reason why i say always do the former is because, if shorty agrees, you will almost always get what you want and if she doesn't, you can be at peace with yourself knowing that you tried and she just ain't the one. This also goes back to the point @Turbulent made about setting the frame from the jump and how it will dictate future interactions and actions between you and da b!tch.

 

[USSInsiders]

It's one thing to offer to take a girl out for dinner.....it's another thing for her to try to trap you into to doing it & picking the place. Don't be a girl's personal ATM breh. I don't even really know this girl and she's asking me can I take her to dinner and pay. FOH. I met this girl while I was Djing last week and she came up to me and holla'd at me. We had a few text message conversations but bytch I'm not taking you to dinner on the 1st date you just choosing some place.....WTF is wrong with these hoes. The game is fukked up.

I'm gonna try to smash and if she doesn't let me smash quickly I'm throwing her in the bushes breh. She showed her hand. Too many cats are getting used for dinners. Not me breh.

That struggle trick trap when she should know there's NBA money out here ripe for taking

 

[Turbulent]

i didn't mean like a 'reveal you hand' typ'a thing. I meant, make your intentions known so that shorty knows you are a potential nikka she can fukk and perhaps develop a relationship with rather than being a nikka that is a pu$$y and a nikka she knows can be manipulated and used.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with tellin shorty you find her attractive and that even though ya'll may not know each other that well, you don't see why that can't change.

vs

talking to her whenever you get a chance to about common stuff and other mundane shyt

2 different actions with 2 very different outcomes.

and the reason why i say always do the former is because, if shorty agrees, you will almost always get what you want and if she doesn't, you can be at peace with yourself knowing that you tried and she just ain't the one. This also goes back to the point @Turbulent made about setting the frame from the jump and how it will dictate future interactions and actions between you and da b!tch.

it doesn't really matter if they know you want to fukk. that's actually the point. they should know you want to fukk if that's what you're trying to do. You shouldn't be trying to trick a chick into fukking you. Letting them choose is a beautiful thing once you subscribe to it.