Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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me and leave. This is since I've cut all communications with every current girl. 
Don't do it. there's no reason to tell her all about your past. What are you going to do, rationalize her into loyalty and explain to her how loyal and nice of a guy you are? If she asks, just say something like we weren't as compatible as I thought, but I'm not tripping. I'm looking forward to the future. Going into all kinds of details and letting her know if you were cheated on if she cheated on you, and giving all these details will make you look like a loser to her. Always give minimal details.
Let me put you on to something. We, as dudes, will run little tests by females a lot of times to see how 'hoish' they are... like asking indirect questions to see how she will respond and whether it will reveal if she really gets down or not. For a woman we take seriously, we don't want promiscuity. If a woman lets us get it too easily or if she answers a question that reveals she has a real slutty type attitude, we may quietly dismiss her. With that understanding, you have to know that women do the SAME thing... except they test for strength. Just like if a man tries to talk a woman into the sack and she resists, the man gains respect for her. If she gives in too easily, he loses respect for her. Women do the same thing, except it's about strength and whether they can get away with disrespecting you. Women will do little things to push the boundaries, and if you don't check her, or you go into that weak, apologetic, I don't want to offend you mode, she looks at you as weak. Stop worrying about what you think a woman will 'like' or what the 'cordial and pleasing' reaction will be and always demonstrate strength. She may act out for a little while, but she will gain much more respect for you when she sees you can't be punked or manipulated.
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Here's something to ponder. When's the last time you saw a woman just, of her own volition, reading a book about logic, science, programming or some other such subject? If you see a woman with a book, it's probably some mystery thriller, some romance/erotic novel like 40 shades of grey or something about vampires... That tells you right there tells you what women are attracted to. They are not attracted to logic. They are attracted to whatever gets their emotions running and mystery. The Bible told you a long time ago with the story of Adam and Eve what it was. there was ONE tree that she was told not to eat from, and yet which one did she gravitate towards?
This is why when dealing with women, you cannot REASON them into liking or doing things for you. Women have to LIKE you, and then they will become compliant. You ever notice how when you first meet a woman, she is usually a lot more enthusiastic? It seems backwards, but the less she knows about you, the more she likes about you, right? That's because she likes the mystery. You're like a brand new movie that she doesn't know what to expect. If you tell her the ending, which is by you being predictable, being overly stable with her and telling her everything about you, you spoil all suspense and you likely get stuffed into the friend zone. Stop telling these women any and every little thing on your mind. A woman isn't your 'homie' or your philosophy buddy.
This is why when dealing with women, you cannot REASON them into liking or doing things for you. Women have to LIKE you, and then they will become compliant. You ever notice how when you first meet a woman, she is usually a lot more enthusiastic? It seems backwards, but the less she knows about you, the more she likes about you, right? That's because she likes the mystery. You're like a brand new movie that she doesn't know what to expect. If you tell her the ending, which is by you being predictable, being overly stable with her and telling her everything about you, you spoil all suspense and you likely get stuffed into the friend zone. Stop telling these women any and every little thing on your mind. A woman isn't your 'homie' or your philosophy buddy.
The brehs that are reading this shouldn't even be entertaining hood chicks...
Broad Street Bully
Sick & Tide Sixers/Phillies/Cowboys fan smh
i mean you have a point but if thats the environment you're in most of the time, such as i am then
Broad Street Bully
Sick & Tide Sixers/Phillies/Cowboys fan smh
idk i just be rapping to them lol. keep a convo going on, dont look or seem unconfident. if you trying to get them, make sure they realize that from the jump with consistent eye contact, a smile and say funny shyt. you a pretty mothafukka right? lol you got that going for you already,i dont know what the problem is if you got that and a slick tongue.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
Broad Street Bully
Sick & Tide Sixers/Phillies/Cowboys fan smh
Breh im ugly.
Never said I was pretty.
well ugly nikkas get hoes too. all comes down to confidence then.Its not that hard to go to places where non hood chicks chill at and bag them. Messing with hood chicks gets you 20+ years of child support and a free trip to Stamford, CT for the Maury show.i mean you have a point but if thats the environment you're in most of the time, such as i am then
KevM with the gospel again.
Just like how he said its amazing in the beginning when she knows nothing about you or trying to learn about you,
the texts, the phone calls, not cancelling plans, women go crazy for men who seem mysterious and/or indifferent.
Guys who have a take it or leave it attitude, guys who are
if she doesnt talk to them again or if she does.
That's the mentality as a man imo you should have, if a woman doesn't reach out to you or show interest cut her out
,
fear is the one thing women hate, fear that she will never hear from you again. you ever wonder why exes reach out, or women you ignore
come back? Because of your inaction to what most men continually do CHASE.
A woman dumps a guy and offers friendship, men will say ok with hoping that it leads to something more, or they will say no. But at the drop
of a text message will reply and google what does it mean if my ex texts me after a week of no contact etc.
In a woman's mind she still has you, I remember when I tried to be friends with a ex and i said after awhile this isn't working, she told me
you'll come back, you always come back and that got me angry and I never said a word to her again (4 years and counting).
Women are attracted to guys whose feelings they are unsure of. He cheats but he says he loves me, does he? he treats me bad, but he does so many things,
he said he cares about me but bought me nothing for valentines day. He says he hates me but he still replies to my texts and comes over.
When females are certain of how you feel for them, "im attracted to you", "i love you", "im thinking of you all the time", "ill do anything for you"
that's when the bulb comes on oh hes not a challenge anymore, they don't have to work to get him anymore he's defeated, hes now predictible and boring the tingles are gone.
Just like how he said its amazing in the beginning when she knows nothing about you or trying to learn about you,
the texts, the phone calls, not cancelling plans, women go crazy for men who seem mysterious and/or indifferent.
Guys who have a take it or leave it attitude, guys who are
if she doesnt talk to them again or if she does.That's the mentality as a man imo you should have, if a woman doesn't reach out to you or show interest cut her out
,fear is the one thing women hate, fear that she will never hear from you again. you ever wonder why exes reach out, or women you ignore
come back? Because of your inaction to what most men continually do CHASE.
A woman dumps a guy and offers friendship, men will say ok with hoping that it leads to something more, or they will say no. But at the drop
of a text message will reply and google what does it mean if my ex texts me after a week of no contact etc.
In a woman's mind she still has you, I remember when I tried to be friends with a ex and i said after awhile this isn't working, she told me
you'll come back, you always come back and that got me angry and I never said a word to her again (4 years and counting).
Women are attracted to guys whose feelings they are unsure of. He cheats but he says he loves me, does he? he treats me bad, but he does so many things,
he said he cares about me but bought me nothing for valentines day. He says he hates me but he still replies to my texts and comes over.
When females are certain of how you feel for them, "im attracted to you", "i love you", "im thinking of you all the time", "ill do anything for you"
that's when the bulb comes on oh hes not a challenge anymore, they don't have to work to get him anymore he's defeated, hes now predictible and boring the tingles are gone.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
you don't know how many times i've heard this from nikkaz. Shyt is like a broken record being played over and over again. Been telling these very same nikkaz to cut these hoes off but all i get is justifications in return. Like, nikka you serious right now?and sure enough, i end up being right
now i learn to just tell em once in very simple terms, if something is bringing you problems in your life, remove it and dats it. I don't give a shyt about the specifics of the issues or anything like that. I just keep it simple and realistic.
Too much men keep indulging these broads rather than quit while they're ahead. When a chick's getting distant, the relationship is as good as dead. It ain't got shyt to do with her 'problems', because if that was the case then she'd lean on you for support.
I've had to cut off a lot of people from my life and I feel better inside because of it. The older I get. the less tolerable I am for the bullshyt.
Even if they imply you're not saying too much because you wanna hide some foul shyt, it's better they end it with you based on that rather than going into stuff you don't need to.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
I feel you.
I can't even bring myself to approach because I know what they like and Im not that.
*I been charged by a few hoodrats in my day*