FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
She keeps her phone put up when we're out.
And she thought my bday was on the next day.
The point im making is that she doesn't do anything wrong.
But my insecurities make me think she is and I take it out on here.
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She keeps her phone put up when we're out.
And she thought my bday was on the next day.
The point im making is that she doesn't do anything wrong.
But my insecurities make me think she is and I take it out on here.
I would play it cool and don't bring it up for a while. If you bring it to her attention mentally she can be guarded at all times for any possible slip ups. People reveal themselves eventually if you pay attention. Play it cool, hush your insecurities for a minute and you'll get your answer.
When you bring it up to her how does she respond?
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
She reminds me why she didn't respond and she lets me know that she love's me and that she'll try to do better.
Idk how to get rid of my insecurities.
Its like my emotions want her to hit me up all day every day.
Im too attached to the point if idk what she's doing, negative thoughts come out of nowhere.
For example weeks ago we went to the movies.
I got up to get some fries and my insecure emotions wondered if the dude who was with his woman two seats over tried to talk to her.
Its ridiculous I know but my common mind and emotions are at war.
NormanConnors
Detroit/MSU Spartan Life
I got insecurity issues brehs
I know my woman works a lot and is busy when she's off but if I don't hear from her; my mind thinks she's interested in another dude.
She's attractive so it makes the thought worse.
She doesn't give me reason to think she's messing with somebody else; she shows affection, she does what I say, she cried before thinking I didn't love her no more, she cried when she forgot my birthday, etc.
She has shown me she's down but I slightly feel in my mind that she likes other dudes.
Its like if I don't hear from her 24/7 then I starting being
My head is fukkedn up brehs
women are great actresses breh, is this your gut giving you this feeling, or is your mind just playing tricks on you like Scarface, Will, and Bill?
You don't want to be living everyday with worry man, takes years off of your life.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
Im telling you from Gut feeling.
She has given zero signs of fukkery but due to my mind..my emotions think it is without any reason to.
man sounds like you are getting an unhealthy attachment/developing an unhealthy mindset. You don't want to become so attached to mami that you flip out if she goes her own way. Obviously, it's not easy, but mentally you always have to be prepared for a woman either messing up or you having to dismiss her. The way to do this is to realize that you were fine before her and you'll be fine after her. I'm not saying to ditch her, but you have to eventually overcome that mindset of insecurity so you're not always wondering what she is doing. The only thing that will do is stress you beyond belief. Focus on building up your interests outside of her and putting yourself in a position that you have so much else to engage in if she busts bad. It's always important to minimize the effect a woman can have on your emotions or mental stability if she doesn't do the right thing.
so a chick I had on the block list text me from another phone saying "so you're just going to block me? I guess we are done talking than?"
yes bish, fukk you think?
Ain't it funny how as soon as they find out they don't 'have you in the bag' and can't 'fall back on you', all of a sudden they go above and beyond to get in contact with you?
What's funny is this chick made made me feel like she wanted nothing to do with me anyway. Guess she was bored and looking for entertainment when she called me and got hit with that straight to voicemail message.
Nah I just laughed and blocked that number too. I'm dealing with a good one right now.
Yo was up back with a new story.
Went to the macys today to buy a spring jacket.
Got the one i needed while i was there a ran into a chick that i used to work with.
Backstory
Used to work with her she flirted i flirted back got her number. When i txt her asking to chill no funny busins she told be no.
Cool throw her to the bushes tossed her number.
Today i see her say hi she looking attractive and i tell her. We make small talk ,then i call her out on being a bytch about the whole chilling thing.
Her: blah blha blha guys only want to chill to fukk ,im not into younger guy they don't know how to act or whatever......
Tell her im trying to get back into smoke since i got a full time job.Said that can be are activity when we chill. She gave me 20% of my jacket got a hug and left.
About two hours ago she calls me up.I was not near my phone to answer so idk should i call this chick back? She did play me before so do i give it another shot or just forget about it.
O yeah i told her a lil white lie about me having a truck(it my moms truck)
Went to the macys today to buy a spring jacket.
Got the one i needed while i was there a ran into a chick that i used to work with.
Backstory
Used to work with her she flirted i flirted back got her number. When i txt her asking to chill no funny busins she told be no.
Cool throw her to the bushes tossed her number.
Today i see her say hi she looking attractive and i tell her. We make small talk ,then i call her out on being a bytch about the whole chilling thing.
Her: blah blha blha guys only want to chill to fukk ,im not into younger guy they don't know how to act or whatever......
Tell her im trying to get back into smoke since i got a full time job.Said that can be are activity when we chill. She gave me 20% of my jacket got a hug and left.
About two hours ago she calls me up.I was not near my phone to answer so idk should i call this chick back? She did play me before so do i give it another shot or just forget about it.
O yeah i told her a lil white lie about me having a truck(it my moms truck)
I aint mad.I cant wait to share my stories when I get off "injured reserve" this summer. I promise I wont disappoint
Grams
Grams Grands Gucci G'd Up
Fam I beg you, tell me why I will get a girl's number and every-single-time these heauxs take HOURS to respond?
Am I the ugliest nikka on Earth?
Am I boring as fook?
What's the point of bytches giving me their number if they're just gonna fade man
Am I the ugliest nikka on Earth?
Am I boring as fook?
What's the point of bytches giving me their number if they're just gonna fade man
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
say fukk it and go holla at more chicksFam I beg you, tell me why I will get a girl's number and every-single-time these heauxs take HOURS to respond?
Am I the ugliest nikka on Earth?
Am I boring as fook?
What's the point of bytches giving me their number if they're just gonna fade man