Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Women tell every giy they've been with they are the best bf they ever had.

If its not working out cut the cord now or else you will get more emotionally invested fall for her mpre and then one day she will drop them thangs on you and you will be kicking yourself for all the time you wasted when a few months in you were ready to bounce.

I know this because I have been there.

Been with girls I didn't really feel that strongly for felt like cutting the cord but they were fine, had a career no kids but just something was off. Ended up liking em a lot etc
Then getting my heart carved out.

Its why now I don't sit around and ponder. If I feel that way I take it as a sign to get out. And I get out.

She will be fine trust me a weeka month a new guy will be on her arm


Y'all probably wondering where i've been...


In a boring ass relationship


While the girl is cool (or was), has her own place, whip, paralegal job, etc....


she's starting to become possessive and jelly all the time. And the sex is becoming really really ho-hum (i do all the work, she's a thicker girl
so you know how that is - but don't get it twisted, she's fit and active, runs marathons and does yoga/x-fit).


Any who, the past couple months, everything just feels like groundhog day. She's great as a person, even better as a friend (and with her maternal
qualities and faithfulness... the mother of my chul'rens).


But i'm not ready to tie the knot and have kids... and i still feel like i need excitement in relationships (or just dating someone else for the sake of it cuz
i'm bored of her).


*sighs*


I just don't know how to break it to her cuz she says i'm the best thing that's ever happened to her. I feel bad, breaghs.


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Fam I beg you, tell me why I will get a girl's number and every-single-time these heauxs take HOURS to respond?

Am I the ugliest nikka on Earth? :what:
Am I boring as fook? :what:
What's the point of bytches giving me their number if they're just gonna fade man :what:

This happened to me the last couple numbers I got. Here's the thing..

1) You need to approach older females, because they're more direct and play fewer games. The numbers I got were from chicks 20-21, but you'll have more success from broads 25+

2) Like Kevm3 said, young attractive females have a ton of options. Plenty of dudes hitting them up all the time, so they can sit back and :smugfavre:
 

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@BonitaChelz every time you date a new guy isn't he the best bf you ever had?
doesn't he treat you better than your last bf ?

and isn't this usually said in the "honeymoon" period first 3-5 months?

Not necessarily. He may be "better" in various areas and not on others. its all circumstantial. I don't tell any dude they are the best because realistically, there is always someone better :manny:. However, some chicks do tell each and every dude that shyt to gas em up when every bf is roughly the same. The majority of my ex's treated me very well and I had minimal issues with them, but immaturity,selfishness, possessiveness, insecurities, etc killed every single one of them.

But yes- most of that bullshyt is said in the honeymoon stage.:pachaha:
 

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The biggest problem in this day and age is that people on both sides aren't getting real information and they are ultimately dopamine addicts. People love that emotional rush and they confuse that with 'being in love', which is why they are always so quick to throw away what they have for something new. Something new almost always gives you an intense blast of pleasure, but you learn the new thing isn't necessarily better than the old thing when you become familiar with the new thing. Instead of just enjoying the ride with someone who you just enjoy being around, people will throw that away because they want that circus show 'love high' feeling... which isn't even love. it's more like the 'new feeling high.
 

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Not necessarily. He may be "better" in various areas and not on others. its all circumstantial. I don't tell any dude they are the best because realistically, there is always someone better :manny:. However, some chicks do tell each and every dude that shyt to gas em up when every bf is roughly the same. The majority of my ex's treated me very well and I had minimal issues with them, but immaturity,selfishness, possessiveness, insecurities, etc killed every single one of them.

But yes- most of that bullshyt is said in the honeymoon stage.:pachaha:

thats my female perspective :obama:
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The biggest problem in this day and age is that people on both sides aren't getting real information and they are ultimately dopamine addicts. People love that emotional rush and they confuse that with 'being in love', which is why they are always so quick to throw away what they have for something new. Something new almost always gives you an intense blast of pleasure, but you learn the new thing isn't necessarily better than the old thing when you become familiar with the new thing. Instead of just enjoying the ride with someone who you just enjoy being around, people will throw that away because they want that circus show 'love high' feeling... which isn't even love. it's more like the 'new feeling high.

yep as i always say i've only loved two women in my life and even after all they have done to this day I still love them (not in love with them), to me when I say that phrase I mean it till the death. However a vast array of women have told me they love me, some after even a month. People just toss around that word like it has zero meaning nowadays.
 

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thats my female perspective :obama:
:salute:

:hug:

I think this thread is probably one of the best on this forum. I know that it's mainly for ya'll but I commend you and the other gentlemen for helping these brehs out who have fallen prey to these aint worth shyt females. Brotherhood at its finest :salute:
 

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past simp stories vol 1.


when i started dating my ex fiance wow 10 years ago, like a few months in I was going to break up with her, the distance I didn't drive at that time was like a 2 hour bus ride each way, plus I'm the one who always had to make the trip :beli:, I remember when I was going to give the this isn't working message, and she started to cry like a baby , said she is going to kill herself :mjlol:, how im the best thing to ever happen to her and without me she would have just ran away and live on the street, anyone ever heard these jibberish manipulative talk before? well I didn't go with my gut and stayed with her for 3 gawt damn years, 3 years I scarified night and day, graduated/ dropped out of law school to start working right away, saved my money, missed out on family cruises/trips almost even missed my gawt damn sister wedding because she didnt want me walking down the aisle with another woman :wtf:, lost all my closest friends, up to my neck in debt, had to shell out like a arm and two legs to go some european backpacking trip :snoop:, used to leave my house like 6am for work and not return till like 1130 at night this was my life brehs :snoop: :wow:, breaks and lunch at work shed call me and id have to listen to emotional tales day after day.

it took me 3 years and a abortion behind my back to finally take my out and use it and even then she racked up our joint cc :snoop: as one last f you, now of course im not saying if you dont follow your gut you'll be led down the road i was, but when you don't feel 100% about it TRUST YOUR GUT BREHS!!!


i was the biggest simp doormat of all time, many times i wanted to cut my losses and run but i kept thinking how will she manage, what if she kills herself :russ:. Well she managed just fine, now im not saying it was all peaches and cream and i was tap dancing like gregory hines when it was over, but years later i look back and
Yes_yes_yes.gif
 

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past simp stories vol 1.


when i started dating my ex fiance wow 10 years ago, like a few months in I was going to break up with her, the distance I didn't drive at that time was like a 2 hour bus ride each way, plus I'm the one who always had to make the trip :beli:, I remember when I was going to give the this isn't working message, and she started to cry like a baby , said she is going to kill herself :mjlol:, how im the best thing to ever happen to her and without me she would have just ran away and live on the street, anyone ever heard these jibberish manipulative talk before? well I didn't go with my gut and stayed with her for 3 gawt damn years, 3 years I scarified night and day, graduated/ dropped out of law school to start working right away, saved my money, missed out on family cruises/trips almost even missed my gawt damn sister wedding because she didnt want me walking down the aisle with another woman :wtf:, lost all my closest friends, up to my neck in debt, had to shell out like a arm and two legs to go some european backpacking trip :snoop:, used to leave my house like 6am for work and not return till like 1130 at night this was my life brehs :snoop: :wow:, breaks and lunch at work shed call me and id have to listen to emotional tales day after day.

it took me 3 years and a abortion behind my back to finally take my out and use it and even then she racked up our joint cc :snoop: as one last f you, now of course im not saying if you dont follow your gut you'll be led down the road i was, but when you don't feel 100% about it TRUST YOUR GUT BREHS!!!


i was the biggest simp doormat of all time, many times i wanted to cut my losses and run but i kept thinking how will she manage, what if she kills herself :russ:. Well she managed just fine, now im not saying it was all peaches and cream and i was tap dancing like gregory hines when it was over, but years later i look back and
Yes_yes_yes.gif



Dear God, you must be tired.
 

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I feel like participating in this conversation with this avi by default is just asking for trouble but this is interesting, so what the hell.
 

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Fam I beg you, tell me why I will get a girl's number and every-single-time these heauxs take HOURS to respond?

Am I the ugliest nikka on Earth? :what:
Am I boring as fook? :what:
What's the point of bytches giving me their number if they're just gonna fade man :what:


Move down south. You'll be be up to your elbows in new poosay. They don't give a fawk what you look like as long as you meet other "rachet" criterias on top of your uggums. Trust me on this breh.
 
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