Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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thread is gold. has really helped me sharpen my game. whoever said if a female is really fukkin w/ you, it's easy (think it was kevm3), was dead on. i met this sexy latina through a mutual friend at work...always kept it chill when chatting w/ her on occasions when she was around, and could tell she was feelin me. we ended up making out after this happy hour and i invited her back to my place. said she had to make a flight in the AM, but "next time". fast forward to the next weekend, i invite her to my place again, and she's down...even though she lives an hour and a half away. she drove an hour and a half to come be with me. the beauty of being chased vs chasing. :blessed:

anyway, we grabbed some takeout, some wine, chatted it up some more, and smashed. the whole thing was just so smooooth it really hammered home the point of fukking with women who really fukk with you instead of trying to morph into some other personality.

also, whoever pointed out the importance of making your intentions known early in a date dropped a piece of gold. this is so crucial. i think ive lost a few opportunities by being physical in the first interaction (not necessarily on a date, but in a bar, at a party, etc), getting a date set, and then shrinking back too much into the whole gentleman, get to know you frame. the first thing i did w/ the woman above when she got in my car was get a little physical so she already knew what was up. don't hesitate to do this brehs.
 

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I'm using tinder for study purposes

I've got a ton on matches on Tinder, :wow:. Seriously, nice looking girls. I harrdly even go on there b/c I'm just not motivated to go thru thru the whole process of small talk and "getting to know them". It's always the same conversation.

Such a waste of time. :beli:
[DOUBLEPOST=1397576006][/DOUBLEPOST]And look how fast that was, if a girl is into you nothing pride, games. Etc. Will stop her from coming out when you invite her.

Many men waste so much time on women who give them the round around because they arent interested when their is a chick who won't

thread is gold. has really helped me sharpen my game. whoever said if a female is really fukkin w/ you, it's easy (think it was kevm3), was dead on. i met this sexy latina through a mutual friend at work...always kept it chill when chatting w/ her on occasions when she was around, and could tell she was feelin me. we ended up making out after this happy hour and i invited her back to my place. said she had to make a flight in the AM, but "next time". fast forward to the next weekend, i invite her to my place again, and she's down...even though she lives an hour and a half away. she drove an hour and a half to come be with me. the beauty of being chased vs chasing. :blessed:

anyway, we grabbed some takeout, some wine, chatted it up some more, and smashed. the whole thing was just so smooooth it really hammered home the point of fukking with women who really fukk with you instead of trying to morph into some other personality.

also, whoever pointed out the importance of making your intentions known early in a date dropped a piece of gold. this is so crucial. i think ive lost a few opportunities by being physical in the first interaction (not necessarily on a date, but in a bar, at a party, etc), getting a date set, and then shrinking back too much into the whole gentleman, get to know you frame. the first thing i did w/ the woman above when she got in my car was get a little physical so she already knew what was up. don't hesitate to do this brehs.
 

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thread is gold. has really helped me sharpen my game. whoever said if a female is really fukkin w/ you, it's easy (think it was kevm3), was dead on. i met this sexy latina through a mutual friend at work...always kept it chill when chatting w/ her on occasions when she was around, and could tell she was feelin me. we ended up making out after this happy hour and i invited her back to my place. said she had to make a flight in the AM, but "next time". fast forward to the next weekend, i invite her to my place again, and she's down...even though she lives an hour and a half away. she drove an hour and a half to come be with me. the beauty of being chased vs chasing. :blessed:

anyway, we grabbed some takeout, some wine, chatted it up some more, and smashed. the whole thing was just so smooooth it really hammered home the point of fukking with women who really fukk with you instead of trying to morph into some other personality.

also, whoever pointed out the importance of making your intentions known early in a date dropped a piece of gold. this is so crucial. i think ive lost a few opportunities by being physical in the first interaction (not necessarily on a date, but in a bar, at a party, etc), getting a date set, and then shrinking back too much into the whole gentleman, get to know you frame. the first thing i did w/ the woman above when she got in my car was get a little physical so she already knew what was up. don't hesitate to do this brehs.

Damn breh :damn:
I used to never get physical so soon cuz I dont want to run the woman off.
I had a chubby/thick Hispanic hoodrat charge me 2 years ago I think cuz we hugged and I didn't grab her ass. :Noah:

I be thanking they gone be like :whoa:[DOUBLEPOST=1397582280][/DOUBLEPOST]
thread is gold. has really helped me sharpen my game. whoever said if a female is really fukkin w/ you, it's easy (think it was kevm3), was dead on. i met this sexy latina through a mutual friend at work...always kept it chill when chatting w/ her on occasions when she was around, and could tell she was feelin me. we ended up making out after this happy hour and i invited her back to my place. said she had to make a flight in the AM, but "next time". fast forward to the next weekend, i invite her to my place again, and she's down...even though she lives an hour and a half away. she drove an hour and a half to come be with me. the beauty of being chased vs chasing. :blessed:

anyway, we grabbed some takeout, some wine, chatted it up some more, and smashed. the whole thing was just so smooooth it really hammered home the point of fukking with women who really fukk with you instead of trying to morph into some other personality.

also, whoever pointed out the importance of making your intentions known early in a date dropped a piece of gold. this is so crucial. i think ive lost a few opportunities by being physical in the first interaction (not necessarily on a date, but in a bar, at a party, etc), getting a date set, and then shrinking back too much into the whole gentleman, get to know you frame. the first thing i did w/ the woman above when she got in my car was get a little physical so she already knew what was up. don't hesitate to do this brehs.

What was u doing physical
 

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fukked up thing was I actually lightweight was feeling her..but after she sent them text messages :camby:
No simping but you need to end it on a good note. Take her to get something to eat and lightweight apologize so she drops it... ignoring her is too risky. I learned this game from a homie that would do the same when chicks let him go raw, then the next morning start complaining. He'd take them out to eat, but them the pill, apologize, etc. and never got caught up.

Always always always end every interaction on a good note.
 

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I've been a lurker on this thread for a while and there are A LOT of dimes being dropped on here. However I myself got a story about how some of these females got me fukkED up :pacspit:

So a few weeks ago I hollered at this chick on FB, we had some chit chat here and there but long story short we ended up swapping digits. After texting each other back and forth for a few weeks we decided to talk on the phone.

We had a pretty long covo and she seemed like a cool ass person because we shared a lot of the same interest that I do. I can tell she was really feeling a nikka because she was laughing at a lot of my jokes and loved my dry sarcasm. So then the next day I'm working on some shyt and so texts me that she was doing some "thinking" and I'm like, "About? :patrice:"

And she says "About kicking it together"....she then proceeds to tell me that she is off for the weekend and says that she gets off work late on Friday late. She also tells me that she is gonna pop some Molly and she doesn't want to be high by herself and that she needs a "cuddle buddy" :patrice:

I then ask her if can sleep over and she says "Duh!" and in my mind I just go
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To push it even further she tells me that when she is on that pill she becomes VERY "frisky, touchy, and horny" and she was on a "dikk diet"..so when I came over she told me no matter WHAT happens..do NOT make the moves on her because she is not that kind of girl...:leostare:

All I told her was "Well, whatever happens...happens :shaq:"

In my head I was thinking "This bytch better not be thinking that I am just gonna come over and just have a slumber party with her :wtb:"

But fukk it :bryan:

So that night I get to her house and by that time she already popped that pill so she is already feeling herself. I told her we should watch a movie or something but she goes and says "We not gonna watch the movie for more then 10 minutes c'mon now :mjpls:"

And in my mind I was thinking "SHE KNOWS! :bryan:"

So within a few minutes we eventually got it in like

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But through out the night she would tell me to stop and be like "you won't suppose to be doing this to me :usure:" while she was fingering her p*ssy and feeling up her titties like I'm not suppose to do nothing :beli:

So the next day after I roll out I text her that I had a good time and then she texts me back saying that she was "disappointed" in me :why:

She goes and says that I took advantage of her after I "promised" that I wouldn't and that I betrayed on her trust :leostare:

Now remember...this girl INVITED me over to HER house and said that she was going to pop HER molly. She also told me that when she is high she gets VERY horny and not only that she told me that I could SLEEP over in HER room in HER bed UNDER the covers.

WHAT THE fukk YOU THINK WAS GONNA HAPPEN?! :mindblown:

I didn't even respond to her texts cuz I was just so shocked that she had the NERVE to try and BLAME me for taking "advantage" of her when SHE put herself in that position.

The things these bytches do to convince themselves that they ain't no hoes man...it's crazy! :pachaha:
Like others have said, you might want to clean this up. She already has it in text of her saying you took advantage of her. You also have her saying explicitly not to try anything. If they pull this up on the court of law it might be an issue fam.
 

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Damn breh :damn:
I used to never get physical so soon cuz I dont want to run the woman off.
I had a chubby/thick Hispanic hoodrat charge me 2 years ago I think cuz we hugged and I didn't grab her ass. :Noah:

I be thanking they gone be like :whoa:[DOUBLEPOST=1397582280][/DOUBLEPOST]

What was u doing physical


From my experience, spanish and white chiks put it out there very blatant when they are interested in you. Very hard to miss those signals.
 

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Oh, I thought you were referring to the chik who gave hints and you didn't pick up on them.

Well evem on that.
If its the right circumstance then yeah go in for the kill.
But I wouldn't say go ahead and be likd YEAH SHE PROLY FEELING ME. IMA GRAB THAT ASS
 
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Brehs I stopped paying attention to this girl, now all of a sudden she's all over me. I can't even be :banderas: about it cuz it's so retarded. Why are bytches like this
 
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