Jesus Shuttlesworth
I Got Game
Thought I'd add a lil something to this thread. The point I wanna make is about communication. Men and women essentially speak different languages and understanding the language of a woman can help you get along better in your relationships.
Women are emotional beings. This is important to know and even more important to understand. Because she's an emotional creature it is important to comprehend the emotions behind her words, more so than the words themselves.
For example: your girl might say something like "You never help out around the house!" As men, we hear what's on the surface and will immediately begin to analyze what she said. That being the case, it's natural and understandable for you to try to defend yourself against her erroneous "fact." Your response might be "I do help out around the house! I did this and that yesterday" etc. Now you're in a debate, and you're missing her point. What she means is "I'm a little overwhelmed with the housework right now and would appreciate some help." But again, women are emotional. She feels very passionate about what she is trying to convey so she may exaggerate. But remember, it's not what she says that's important. It's the feelings and emotions behind what she says. You have to be able to decipher the true meaning.
So before you get into an argument (that you should already know you can't win anyway) over an inaccurate statement because you're using logic and reason, understand that whatever she said doesn't really matter to her or you. What matters is how she currently feels about a situation.
Now I understand why my moms would always say "It's past midnight" when it was clearly only 8:30. The point she was trying to get across was that it's late. You can't take a woman's words at the surface or you'll forever be frustrated or feeling attacked. Just chill out, listen to what she says and try to understand what she means.
Women are emotional beings. This is important to know and even more important to understand. Because she's an emotional creature it is important to comprehend the emotions behind her words, more so than the words themselves.
For example: your girl might say something like "You never help out around the house!" As men, we hear what's on the surface and will immediately begin to analyze what she said. That being the case, it's natural and understandable for you to try to defend yourself against her erroneous "fact." Your response might be "I do help out around the house! I did this and that yesterday" etc. Now you're in a debate, and you're missing her point. What she means is "I'm a little overwhelmed with the housework right now and would appreciate some help." But again, women are emotional. She feels very passionate about what she is trying to convey so she may exaggerate. But remember, it's not what she says that's important. It's the feelings and emotions behind what she says. You have to be able to decipher the true meaning.
So before you get into an argument (that you should already know you can't win anyway) over an inaccurate statement because you're using logic and reason, understand that whatever she said doesn't really matter to her or you. What matters is how she currently feels about a situation.
Now I understand why my moms would always say "It's past midnight" when it was clearly only 8:30. The point she was trying to get across was that it's late. You can't take a woman's words at the surface or you'll forever be frustrated or feeling attacked. Just chill out, listen to what she says and try to understand what she means.
....This could have been me because I rushed and ignored the signs...
. it wasn't a complete sausage fest but there could've been more chicks alot them were the type of chicks who wouldn't give up p*ssy but were dancing and twerking on each other(these were white hipster girls along with a few pawgs) but I definitely lowkey felt out of my element and just didn't know how to even make an approach to chicks who know my boys but didn't know me(I don't get out that much) but i'm glad i got the experience i just kind of need tips on what to do next time i go to another party 
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(i've only seen shyt like that on tv) as well as the typical smoking and drinking i just wish there could've been more chicks there.
shyt was embarrassing. All my party experiences have been like that. Knew this shyt wasn't for me when I showed up to this girl's party in middle school even though I wasn't invited. My boy back then convinced me that it was ok because she invited him and I lived down the street from him 
. I hid in the bathroom by the pool at the club house the party was held at 
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