Here's a recap of some major points:
Her behavior towards you is much more important than anything else she can offer you. If she isn't 'acting right', then there's nothing else that she should be able to offer you that will keep you around. A lot of 'coochie hounds' aka guys who put up with any and everything to get sex found out the hard way that once you have a psychopath in your life, that you wish you would have never met her.
I remember when I was young, when I was hanging with the older heads, if a pretty woman passed by, or comes on the screen one of them would say something about how bad she is, of course. how shes walking sexy and looking good or whatever. but then another goes "but can she cook?" and laughs. or talk about how you dont take her home to mom. or how "she better know how to hold it down in the kitchen."
it was something that always made me think they were being picky just to be picky. like, why you have to mention all that when we're just watching her. she looks good. Im thinking, Id be with her. but nowadays what I take from all of that is the point was, you need to always think beyond her looks. and I mean from the get go. there was a lot of game to be picked up from our older generation, if we listened to the right ones who had their life in order.
being strongly superficial is really our first mistake when trying to get at a woman. looks count, but get it in your head that you need more. you need a woman who treats you and herself right, not pretty girl with a lot of problems and insecurity. looks will be damning if thats all youre thinking about.
dudes today get so gassed off a big ass and a pretty face, that they think about all of this trying to juggle her emotions, learning how to deal with her problems, how to talk to her so shes not offended, and that being a
is the right way to be,
when
its ALWAYS been about picking the right woman to be with in the first place. its not about changing her to be right, its about leading a good, compatible woman onto a good path with you. a lot of things have to come in play, but overlooking the value of a womans attitude is why women get away with dumb shyt, to this day
its like this with me, if a woman wants to say "you dont deserve me at my best, if you cant handle me at my worst" then
, all I can say is that in that case, your best aint shyt. it aint worth it to go through unnecessary drama. all theyve got to go with that headache are a vagina and attention. and an abundance of women out there can give you those "prizes", so why deal with the headache when you can go somewhere else to get the same things without the drama. dealing with poor behavior in order to get to what is considered her "best," is not worth it.
in fact, her behavior is pretty much the main thing that should make you want to keep her around.
You can't save a simp. Once you put the information out there, that's that. If the guy argues with you or tries to fight/shame you over you trying to help them, don't argue with them. Let them experience first-hand what you are talking about on their own. You try to help a simp, and not only will he argue vehemently with you, he will also put you in bad situations.
not only that, but simps are sneaky as hell. with everyone. its about manipulation for them, so they try to nice guy or friendship their way into sex with women. but if you look at whos saying what, youll see that simps are usually the ones who love to talk down on other dudes, spread gossip, give out peoples secrets, and to get involved with other peoples relationships for their own gain.
theyre real vaginal. theyre like dangerous females, but even worse, because we dont see them all the time
one giveaway for me, is when a dude seems to be really into that girl talk shyt. take a look at that. one thing Ive really seen, is like he asks dumb questions which try to get you to say something wrong, or out of context. like, if you were to cheat on your girl .... who would it be wit? if you cheated on your girl with so and so ... she would have to understand because .... or whatever. ask you if you about this person who isnt there, or what you really think about so and so .... ask how would you feel if so and so came up to you and said ... they love to ask about personal, potentially damning things out the blue, and then act like youre wrong for not talking about it. they make it a game. dont deal with those guys, theyre really just henpeckers on the low. I dont fall for that bullshyt. guys dont do that. men, we talk about personal shyt if we need to, otherwise we mind our own. I say watch out for dudes who are straight and who have way too many girl "friends" that hes cool with, because really, thats not normal. and I know yall can see it. when it looks like hes one of the pack. I think at times they pick up some feminine habits, if you ask me.
shyt was embarrassing. All my party experiences have been like that. Knew this shyt wasn't for me when I showed up to this girl's party in middle school even though I wasn't invited. My boy back then convinced me that it was ok because she invited him and I lived down the street from him
. I hid in the bathroom by the pool at the club house the party was held at
jesus breh throw in the damn towel!
i can't imagine going through that shyt you just posted 
just went through 2 chicks like that. I'm done with school. Probably wont go back for my masters will apply to a job I wish to make a career out of before june of next year(mean while work out to get my body ready and work somewhere to pay back my 12k student loan I owe the government, and I guess do things I couldn't do during school i.e. go to my first NFL game)
...Which is ironic being that my job itself involves the public..
. we were just supposed to be FWB but i think she wants more. shyt, i might want more. 
