Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Shadow King]

It always helps to know your crowd.

I've been back in the game for a month and have had 2 new notches But I'm already learning who I attract and how to use it to my advantage.

In the A it can be confusing cause as a transplant theres a good amount of Black folks doing different things and everyone aint gonna be about what you're bout. I've noticed I've been wasting time at places that catered to crowds that dont respond to me as well.

For instance, I'm in my late 20's but look like a college student so I'm not on that type jazz lounge scene. I went last week and it was awkward as fukk. I felt young as hell. The fine women were tryin to get chose by these old ass damn near midgets cuz they was payin.

shyt I'd be more comfortable in a hood spot than a spot.

Know your crowd.

What if u don't fit nowhere?

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Brehs.......

I got out of a semi relationship about 5 months ago so I've been causally dating the past 3 or 4 months. Last week I had 3 different dates with 3 different women. 2 of the 3 were women I just met within the past few weeks. 1 of them wanted to go out and chill this past Thursday just so she could get to know me and see where my head was at before she went on a week long trip to the Bahamas...we went out, it was cool and we planned on seeing each other when she returns. 2nd chick we met a park chilled, we went to a diner and she paid. Went back to my place and I picked up some drink and a movie on my way back home. It was getting late and I wasn't putting too much effort into getting the puss. She wanted to stay the night but didn't because she said I was too tempting and it wasn't lady like

The next night we are texting and she hits me with the "I have something to tell you line" She was says do you want me to tell you over phone or by text? By this time I curious as fukk as what would be so important she had to tell me after 1 date So I call her and she takes a deep breath and says she has a std, she has herpes
She says she had it since she was 23, she's 32 now. She wanted to tell me before we got physical or anything. She's a nice girl but I can't risk my health like that. There's no cure for that shyt and I'm not about that yolo life. So you guys already know what it is, I didn't even hesitate

Jesus Christ......you got me wanting to slow down out here. Jesus

 

[Clark Wayne]

Yeah I work at the department of health in the STD section and trust me it's real out here with these STD's. It's one thing reading stats that get released but actually putting names with the disease adds a whole new element to it.

 

[MikelArteta]

please travel brehs!!!

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

What if u don't fit nowhere?

Then you keep moving until you find what scene caters to YOU.

Trust me, I wasn't tryin to do the "Black Hollywood" shyt down here but I realized a few things:
1. They play the music I like
2. The women are more cooperative
3. Even tho I'm a "professional" with a degree etc, I don't get along with square nikkas/bytches

But you don't know until you KNOW. That means you gotta explore. Like @Emperor_ReinScarf said, you gotta hit up places out of your comfort zone. At the very least for the experience. I'm still a lil pissed I wasted my time at those spots that were lame but I know now where not to waste my time so in a way it was a win.

Spoiler

Didnt hurt that once I found out it was wack I left to get some ass

 

[MikelArteta]

Then you keep moving until you find what scene caters to YOU.

Trust me, I wasn't tryin to do the "Black Hollywood" shyt down here but I realized a few things:
1. They play the music I like
2. The women are more cooperative
3. Even tho I'm a "professional" with a degree etc, I don't get along with square nikkas/bytches

But you don't know until you KNOW. That means you gotta explore. Like @Emperor_ReinScarf said, you gotta hit up places out of your comfort zone. At the very least for the experience. I'm still a lil pissed I wasted my time at those spots that were lame but I know now where not to waste my time so in a way it was a win.

Spoiler

Didnt hurt that once I found out it was wack I left to get some ass

yup

hell i cant evne tell the last time i met a chick offline in my own city and i travelled like 3000km (not to meet a chick) but it just so happaned i did

 

[TheArchitect]

brehs i literally had the best week of my life

thank you based tinder , i literally met and spent the week with the girl of my dreams, and you brehs know im the farthest thing ever from a simp, this was life alterating, i came home a new man.``

Nice....hope I can say the same some day....

 

[CanesMiamiLakers]

Brehs.......

I got out of a semi relationship about 5 months ago so I've been causally dating the past 3 or 4 months. Last week I had 3 different dates with 3 different women. 2 of the 3 were women I just met within the past few weeks. 1 of them wanted to go out and chill this past Thursday just so she could get to know me and see where my head was at before she went on a week long trip to the Bahamas...we went out, it was cool and we planned on seeing each other when she returns. 2nd chick we met a park chilled, we went to a diner and she paid. Went back to my place and I picked up some drink and a movie on my way back home. It was getting late and I wasn't putting too much effort into getting the puss. She wanted to stay the night but didn't because she said I was too tempting and it wasn't lady like

The next night we are texting and she hits me with the "I have something to tell you line" She was says do you want me to tell you over phone or by text? By this time I curious as fukk as what would be so important she had to tell me after 1 date So I call her and she takes a deep breath and says she has a std, she has herpes
She says she had it since she was 23, she's 32 now. She wanted to tell me before we got physical or anything. She's a nice girl but I can't risk my health like that. There's no cure for that shyt and I'm not about that yolo life. So you guys already know what it is, I didn't even hesitate

Do she got type 1 or 2 I think 1 is on the lips

 

[young3000]

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[young3000]

Do she got type 1 or 2 I think 1 is on the lips

I'm not sure but I know she takes medication for it everyday

 

[sixsixtwo]

New Wedding Photo Trend: Bridemaids Lift Dresses to Show Off Ass: http://elitedaily.com/envision/the-...esses-and-show-off-their-butts-photos/645024/

Spoiler: Stay Classy

 

[DaRealness]

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jan...tant-but-we-re-supposed-to-be-getting-married

Spoiler

MY girl has become bitter and distant.

We’re supposed to be getting married in September, but everything I do is wrong and we haven’t made love in weeks.

My sister says that all women go through that “Bridezilla” stage, where they become obsessed with the flowers, dress and catering etc, but this is more than that.
If I’m honest my girl actively seems to hate my guts.

The other night it was the anniversary of our first date, three years ago, so I booked a nice restaurant and organised for a bottle of champagne to be brought to the table.

She couldn’t have been more cheesed off if she tried.

She huffed that the restaurant was too noisy, she sent back her starter three times and was really rude to the waiters.

Then she spent nearly two hours slagging me off.

Apparently I don’t listen, I’m not attentive enough and don’t pull my weight.

Compared to all of her friends’ blokes I’m an embarrassment because I don’t earn enough and aren’t super successful.

So that told me...

Later I tried to cheer her up with a tickle and a joke and she pushed me away with such force that I bashed my head on the door.

I can’t help thinking that she’s gone off me. I have spoken to her mother about this.

She says that I shouldn’t worry, that’s its just pre-wedding nerves and that everything will be fine once we’re married.

She also feels that a baby will bring us closer together? Really? Do you think that too?

The fukk is there to think about? Cancel all wedding plans and tell that bytch to GTFO your life sap. Then in future never turn to your sister for relationship advice again.




http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/385540/Just-Jane-Bossy-girl-s-in-control

Spoiler

I DIDN'T have much choice about whether I wanted to go out with my girlfriend.

And now I have no choice to NOT go out with her.

She grabbed me at a party a year ago and drunkenly said she wanted me there and then.

I was flattered because she is gorgeous and sexy.

We went back to my flat and spent the next two days in bed.

But since then she’s taken over my life.

She chooses my clothes and she’s totally transformed my scruffy flat into a designer apartment.

She plans what we’ll do and when and she’s totally in charge in bed.

Even my friends have been discarded if she doesn’t like them.

My entire existence is completely different from the one I had before I met her and I hate it. I just want my old life back

 

[Mr.Plan B]

Brah I just turned down a three some I'm not even 21 yet ..... The chick are not dimes but they not ugly they like 6s or low 7s. Idk I kinda want to but all I keep thinking is it will be mad work for me too do and I'm have to see these ppl at work even tho we don't work together all the time. Should I be more happy do I have low T or something. What you older brothers think?

 

[Clark Wayne]

Fam I usually don't post too much in this thread and just read the gems dropped but I had to post this story.

So I'm in the car with my mom who is driving and she was listening to Keith Sweat's radio show. So this woman called in asking about where are the men who appreciate a good woman who will provide for them and cook and clean for them.

Keith is like, I'm sure there are plenty of men out there who would like that and also not all men are the same. Some are just not ready to commit yet.

So she then goes on a mini rant talking about how she is tired of dating losers and shyt. So then Keith ask her when was her last serious relationship. She says 3 years ago.

He ask, well what happened with that? Know what this bytch says?? She says the problem was dude wanted to marry her. Keith was like wait?? Da fukk. So a dude wanted to marry you and you ended it??

Then she adds on, well he wanted kids also. Keith says "well yeah, I would think any man who wants to marry a woman would also like to have kids with that woman" and I'm sitting here like. So all the shyt you complaining about what you wish you had now, you could have had 3 years ago?!?!?


Keith is like and is wondering why you bytching when you could have had everything you wanted 3 years ago. Then she ends it with, well it was just a gut feeling, I don't think he really wanted to get married or anything.

Keith ends the call by saying you can't always rely on a gut feeling and that a lot of the people who you think will have your back will leave you hanging and vice verse with the fact that the people who we think will let us down might be the ones who help us when me most need it.

I couldn't help but think of this thread when I heard that shyt. How a lot of women will have a man who would do anything for her, yet will still dump him only to complain years later about how she no longer has what dude provided for her.

 

[EnzoG]

what do you say to a female who says she's thinking about being celibate?