Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[EnzoG]

Had to let the teacher go, she was looking for a comeup . I'm dealing with 2 nurses, I got a feeling that one of the nurses might already have some other nikkaz she's dealing with, but she be talking that shyt i like to hear :. The church going nurse is definitely playing her position and doing all the right things to make it appear that she's altogether.

what signs did she give off that she was looking for a comeup

 

[Atlrocafella]

what signs did she give off that she was looking for a comeup

asking about my whip, how much I made, than telling me she's looking for a dude who has no problem taking care of her if she decides to stop working.

 

[EnzoG]

asking about my whip, how much I made, than telling me she's looking for a dude who has no problem taking care of her if she decides to stop working.

always figured when chicks bring up anything money related that's not a good sign

 

[The ADD]

asking about my whip, how much I made, than telling me she's looking for a dude who has no problem taking care of her if she decides to stop working.

 

[Nintendough]

these bytches are never grateful

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

asking about my whip, how much I made, than telling me she's looking for a dude who has no problem taking care of her if she decides to stop working.

we need a red flag smiley

 

[CanesMiamiLakers]

I been hitting this chick with the silent treatment she keeps texting me. It feels good to have the power. I'll prolly break and talk to her tomorrow or Wednesday tho. Just gotta let her know she's a option not a need

 

[kevm3]

What's so crazy about it is that although women will use 'provider-types', they actually end up resenting them. They'll say, "Thanks for the free resources, but I can't wait to get with a man that actually makes me 'feel' something. I've actually found the less you do for a female, the more they like you in general, which is completely contrary to what the average man was brought up to believe. The average man was brought up to believe that if he was responsible, provided for all the needs of the household, etc., that he would be rewarded with a faithful woman that loved him. The reality he received was he would get a woman who pilfered his resources right from under him as she snuck off with the bad-boy or player that knew how to hit her emotional buttons.

I am continually reminded of the point that it's not what you DO for a woman, but how you make her feel every single day. The moment a woman feels she has you on lock and has easy access to your resources, you are a disposable entity to be used at a whim and tossed away. This is why you should NEVER compensate for a woman's lack of liking you by trying to offer up dinners, taking her on trips, or buying her stuff. She may pay you attention after doing such suckerish moves, but it's the WRONG kind of attention. It's the kind of attention that will have you thrown in providerman category, which ultimately means that you will be used up for your resources while she is dealing with another man she is actually feeling on the side. You have to be disciplined as a man to know that although you might like how this particular woman looks or you may even like her personality, if she doesn't like YOU enough, then simply don't deal with her because that's a losing proposition. Women simply do not try to charge men they really like because they are afraid of losing them. The men women demand dinners and all sorts of things for are the men who they look at as willing to 'settle for', aka use as a provider of easy living, and many of them will still be on the hunt for the guy who really gets her emotions going.

 

[CanesMiamiLakers]

^^^ how u make them feel don't really mean shyt either. Women act off impulse that's why you can only talk your way out the p*ssy not into it. If she wants you nothing will change that but you

 

[kevm3]

Another point that came to my mind that has been repeated over and over is work on yourself in all aspects and stop focusing on women. The more together you are and the more you enjoy your life, the more women you have that will be attracted to what you are doing. This is called ORDER. That's not to say 'don't deal with women', but that's to say stop focusing all your energies on 'what women like' and all other such nonsense.

a very important point to realize is that women don't necessarily like YOU. They like the way your image makes them feel, which is why they often go way harder for strangers than that lifelong loyal man that has done any and everything for them, and is why they are on their best behavior when you first meet them, but then their attitudes start to shift when you become more common to them. The strange, mysterious man they just met makes them FEEL way more than their steady and dependable man. If you look at the archetype in those romance novels, these women are always 'swept off their feet' by some mysterious, buff or ripped dude they know little to nothing about. Women aren't reading novels about the dependable accountant who is paying all of her bills and always shows up on time, taking her to dinners and giving her roses. They are reading novels about that guy who they can never control, who pops up whenever he wants, etc.

This is to say that doing stuff like having long conversations where you're 'sharing common interests' and telling a woman any and everything about you is a failing strategy, contrary to what you've heard. You're making yourself more common, and thus, setting yourself up to be an object of resentment. This is also to tell you to come to a realization of women having categories for men they deal with. There are the guys women are letting drive their cars, paying the dudes bills, etc., and then there are the guys who are paying for the woman's bills while she comes up 'busy' for them and leaves him in the backburner. If you can't get a woman off of your charisma and presence and you start having to play the money game, or she starts fishing too hard about what you have rather than who you are, it's time to let her aloose. Women treat their providers the worst.

 

[kevm3]

^^^ how u make them feel don't really mean shyt either. Women act off impulse that's why you can only talk your way out the p*ssy not into it. If she wants you nothing will change that but you

which means she's 'feeling you' to an extreme level, and ultimately, that's what emotions are... impulse. If she's feeling you, then you don't have to do much other than show up. Women are creatures of emotion and if she sees you and knows nothing about you, but gets some special feeling when she's around you, she'll go hard for you. As soon as you start blabbing too much and becoming that regular guy by exposing everything you like to do, then her attitude can shift because you are removing that special 'feeling' from her.

 

[Two Stacks]

*listens, learns*

its amazing how pictures bring thirst and freakiness out of women. met a security guard chick off this fukking Skout app.

She saying all this shyt, and im just chilling with the fitness chick...like

Even though I met security guard first, fitness chick is the one who calls/facetimes/texts me and wants to hang out on a daily basis without me having to ask...which leads me to believe she likes me at least a little.

as said by Kev and Reincar I'm just out here working on myself, through school trying to get promotions at work/better jobs, and if these women are there, then that's all on them, im not finna break their doors down.

I think I've finally changed, as I approach my 28th birthday, it's about ME. fukk pandering to a female. I'm still the same guy, I just don't feed into BS, and stay focused on myself.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

*listens, learns*

its amazing how pictures bring thirst and freakiness out of women. met a security guard chick off this fukking Skout app.

She saying all this shyt, and im just chilling with the fitness chick...like

Even though I met security guard first, fitness chick is the one who calls/facetimes/texts me and wants to hang out on a daily basis without me having to ask...which leads me to believe she likes me at least a little.

as said by Kev and Reincar I'm just out here working on myself, through school trying to get promotions at work/better jobs, and if these women are there, then that's all on them, im not finna break there doors down.

I think I've finally changed, as I approach my 28th birthday, it's about ME. fukk pandering to a female. I'm still the same guy, I just don't feed into BS, and stay focused on myself.

What do u mean?

 

[Kenny West]

^^^ how u make them feel don't really mean shyt either. Women act off impulse that's why you can only talk your way out the p*ssy not into it. If she wants you nothing will change that but you

nah bruh

bytches love the feels

good feels, bad feels, surprised feels, angry feels . she goes to whichever nikka gives her the most dynamic changes in feels. this is why they love drama. its based in feels

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

Last Thursday, me and the boys decided to get together for a night out cuz my boy is getting married in a month and figured it would
be our last days of with him (his girl don't let him do shiit, so we're gonna get it out of his system).


The first venue was kinda bunk, so we skipped about a mile (yeah, it was that deep) and hit up this new spot.


After a couple drinks, i went up to the bar with my boy cuz he wanted help transporting the cups to the table. As he was ordering, right
next to him, i swear to y'al... there was a glowing, radiant aura - shiit was unlike anything i've ever seented.


This ultra fine specimen was jaw dropping...


I don't recall exactly what i did, i was probably like, "Damn, this woman so beautiful, i probably gotta take a different approach to getting her attention." (You can tell shewas mi


So i kinda made room for myself at the crowded bar (squeezed myself in between her and my boy, lol. No i wasn't blocking, he was telling me to come in
for the kill - mind you, this placed was PACKED like fudge. Wall to wall, shoulder to shoulder).


As soon as i did that, she turns around and proceeds to CHOKE ME!!! (and she had a deathly kung fu grip something skrong!).


My first reaction was like, "Bytch! What the fukk you doing?!"


Then i saw the expression in her face and the look in her eyes and i instantly told myself, "GOOD LAWD THIS WOMAN IS STUNNING.... CHOKE AWAY!!!"


But to reduce any further humiliation, i took her hand and said, "Naw naw naw... this ain't no octagon, ain't no stranglulation...ain't no hateration, holleration. This ain't no danseree!!!"


So i got her to giggle a little bit, we chatted up for a second (literally, about less than a minute cuz I had to grab the drinks). So i copped the digits and bounced.



Later in the night, i saw her talking to this SCRUB as dude so i tried to swoop in for the kill by saying, "Eh, me and crew gonna take a shot, come with..."


And she said, "I don't care WHAT your crew is doing..." And this is NO LIE! You know what she proceeded to do? The broad gave me a TITTY TWISTER!!! I kidd you the fukk not. I was, "Wtf?" Was singing in my own head, "Why you gotta be so rude?"

I wasn't standing for none of that... So got out of there.

Her and the dude proceeded to laugh and shiit. Har har har, jokes on me. But I was thinking, "whatever, this ain't shiit" and walked away with a lil strut like this my t-shirt (but deep down, i was embarassed and was really like, "damn bro, my swag -orlackthereof- just failed me." lol.



After the bar, me and my dudes went to chinatown to get some grub. The fellas were all making fun of me about what just happened, the scarring on my neck, the nipple twist incident (each time she did something to me, one of my dudes caught it - so you know i'm getting major shiit).


But check this out, it's about 2:45 a.m. and we're getting ready to pay for the food and BAM!!!



Part 2...


Cumming soon.



It's fixing to get interesting.



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