Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[T-K-G]

Patrice O'Neal spit so many gems brehs.

One of em' was hilarious:

He said if us men became as "dismissive" as women, women would go insane, lmaooo!

it's true breh im easily the most "i dont care " nikka i've ever encountered in life and i dont even try. i'll straight up walk away from females mid convo if they're trying too hard to impress me or being nonsensical, i completely ignore when they try to fish for compliments or have major self esteem issues(always on some "woe is me" shyt) trying to bait a convo out of me

what's crazy is they love it when they first meet cuz they think im on some mysterious shyt (when in reality i truly dont care about most of the shyt they talkin bout ) so they'll try to double down on flirty/foreplay shyt, thinkin i'll lose my wits and slip up

fast forward a few months of them trying to play games and me not falling into any of the traps, they be wantin to kill me i had a girl try to get MY OWN nikkaS to rob me at one point cuz she was tryna "come up" off of me (cuz of the status of some people i know) and i wasn't payin her try-hard ass any attention didn't put her down with the team and the bytch got salty

95% of these broads so predictable it's not even funny anymore, i be feelin bad for em brehs imagine if your entire existence was based around getting other people to pay attention to you, and then NOT getting that attention

most those games/tactics these hoes use only work on 2 types of nikkas:

A. nikkas that are and are REALLY desperate for a relationship/marriage
B. nikkas who are pressed for p*ssy either cuz they 1. dont got shyt else goin for em in life, or 2. they weren't fukkin bytches in highschool/college so that shyt is the holy grail for them

all you nikkas gettin caught up with these girls fall into one of those categories accept that you fukked up and dont do it again

 

[kevm3]

That's pretty much the name of the game. Stop trying to 'figure' females out. They operate on emotion, so you won't find any logical reason as to why they do what they do. Their answer will be pretty much, "I felt like it."

And really, why spend all this time 'figuring out' what they want. Are they spending time figuring out what you want? In fact, you'll see more discussions on what a woman WON'T do for a man than what she will do. When it comes down to it, handle your responsibilities, enjoy your life and invite a woman out if you feel like it. If she doesn't want to go, keep enjoying your life and kick it to another woman who might be more receptive. That simple. All these lame strategies and techniques and stressing and striving over women... what for?

 

[Acropolis]

^^This above post should be the last one; the thread locked and sorted.

 

[kevm3]

One of the most important lessons I've learned from the Bible was about the 'lusts of the flesh' which are always warring with the spirit. Lusts of the flesh essentially refer to us doing any and everything to satiate our fleshly or biological urges, even at the expense of the well-being of others. In this day and age, we are living in a time when people are giving in to the lusts of the flesh, and thus, love is simply not flourishing. Is anyone even being taught how to love anymore? I mean listen to the modern music. Love has essentially been eliminated from the vocabulary. The problem with this is that while this is satisfying in the short-term, it never brings deep inner satisfaction. There is always the feeling that something is missing... that some void is there.

1 Corinthians 13:1
If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.

I feel as if we're in a time when people look at others as merely utilities for one's own pleasure. To many women, men are just objects of entertainment and finance and to men, women are just conduits for a bit of sexual satisfaction. I wish more people would actually look at the person they are dealing with and actually be able to love them as opposed to essentially having them there as a lump of flesh whose utilitarian purpose is to bring a short burst of pleasure before they are discarded.

I feel sorry for our generation and the younger generation. They were never really able to go through a time when it was common that you and your woman lived your life together and actually BUILT that life together, as opposed to people wanting to step into ready-made situations. Honestly, I think most dudes would actually love to be able to take a woman on a date, have some conversations and kick it, but in reality, how can you when you will get looked down upon and punished for it. If you're just looking to 'hit and quit', you might be in the best age, but if you're looking for something that will be long-lasting, it's a completely different ball-game. It's like we're a nation of mercenaries, just biding our time with whoever we can currently get until a better opportunity comes along, and when it does, we're gone. How can you ever really develop trust or love given those circumstances? What eventually happens is that we start becoming more and more emotionally numb and not even caring if the person we are currently with comes and goes. We see them as an interchangeable part that can easily be replaced if need be. In essence, we've dehumanized each other.

 

[International Playa]

Finally broke it up with baby girl I was dating who was bringing nothing to the table. It hurt me to see her breakdown crying, didnt know she cared that much for me. In the long term she wasnt what I was looking for.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Finally broke it up with baby girl I was dating who was bringing nothing to the table. It hurt me to see her breakdown crying, didnt know she cared that much for me. In the long term she wasnt what I was looking for.

She proly was putting on a front to gain soms SIMPothy from you

 

[MikelArteta]

Finally broke it up with baby girl I was dating who was bringing nothing to the table. It hurt me to see her breakdown crying, didnt know she cared that much for me. In the long term she wasnt what I was looking for.

don't mean to be harsh but she probably didn't. Women like to control breakups, when you break up with them they lose the control and the emotions take over, its why when a chick dumps you its never just say after a fight, or after you cheat etc., she has to talk to the wolfpack her friends slowly withdrawal then drop them thangs on you

Crying and tears are stuff are just her emotions of her fav toy being taken away. In the past when I was a simp id break up with women and they would cry tell me how would they survive bla bla and like a sucker i went back to them, only for them to drop them thangs on me later on and

 

[MikelArteta]

One of the most important lessons I've learned from the Bible was about the 'lusts of the flesh' which are always warring with the spirit. Lusts of the flesh essentially refer to us doing any and everything to satiate our fleshly or biological urges, even at the expense of the well-being of others. In this day and age, we are living in a time when people are giving in to the lusts of the flesh, and thus, love is simply not flourishing. Is anyone even being taught how to love anymore? I mean listen to the modern music. Love has essentially been eliminated from the vocabulary. The problem with this is that while this is satisfying in the short-term, it never brings deep inner satisfaction. There is always the feeling that something is missing... that some void is there.

1 Corinthians 13:1
If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.

I feel as if we're in a time when people look at others as merely utilities for one's own pleasure. To many women, men are just objects of entertainment and finance and to men, women are just conduits for a bit of sexual satisfaction. I wish more people would actually look at the person they are dealing with and actually be able to love them as opposed to essentially having them there as a lump of flesh whose utilitarian purpose is to bring a short burst of pleasure before they are discarded.

I feel sorry for our generation and the younger generation. They were never really able to go through a time when it was common that you and your woman lived your life together and actually BUILT that life together, as opposed to people wanting to step into ready-made situations. Honestly, I think most dudes would actually love to be able to take a woman on a date, have some conversations and kick it, but in reality, how can you when you will get looked down upon and punished for it. If you're just looking to 'hit and quit', you might be in the best age, but if you're looking for something that will be long-lasting, it's a completely different ball-game. It's like we're a nation of mercenaries, just biding our time with whoever we can currently get until a better opportunity comes along, and when it does, we're gone. How can you ever really develop trust or love given those circumstances? What eventually happens is that we start becoming more and more emotionally numb and not even caring if the person we are currently with comes and goes. We see them as an interchangeable part that can easily be replaced if need be. In essence, we've dehumanized each other.

yep, its somewhat sad. The reality is nowadays the woman you are going out on a date with has a bunch of other guys plying for her, you're basically just getting a interview where you have to impress, be mysterious etc. etc., as she's there just checking off points in her head, maybe you will get a call back for another date that you have to pay for or maybe you won't hear from again as she chooses someone else.

All a woman has to be is pretty or even average and theres 50 simps around her, a guy has to be mysterious, funny, good job, height, in shape, have a good car etc.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

The whole purpose of a woman"s life is to be catered too. Women get the newer cars,court settlements,good jobs,free club nights,free drinks, list goes on.The only reason they get this is because of us men afraid to say no.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Take it from me there is not much difference between a 23 year old woman and 30 year old woman.

 

[GunRanger]

Patrice O'Neal spit so many gems brehs.

One of em' was hilarious:

He said if us men became as "dismissive" as women, women would go insane, lmaooo!

9:40





The GOAT. Put everything in proper perspective

 

[MikelArteta]

Put no trust in a neighbor; have no confidence in a friend; guard the doors of your mouth from her who lies in your arms

 

[mamba]

I feel sorry for our generation and the younger generation. They were never really able to go through a time when it was common that you and your woman lived your life together and actually BUILT that life together, as opposed to people wanting to step into ready-made situations. Honestly, I think most dudes would actually love to be able to take a woman on a date, have some conversations and kick it, but in reality, how can you when you will get looked down upon and punished for it. If you're just looking to 'hit and quit', you might be in the best age, but if you're looking for something that will be long-lasting, it's a completely different ball-game. It's like we're a nation of mercenaries, just biding our time with whoever we can currently get until a better opportunity comes along, and when it does, we're gone. How can you ever really develop trust or love given those circumstances? What eventually happens is that we start becoming more and more emotionally numb and not even caring if the person we are currently with comes and goes. We see them as an interchangeable part that can easily be replaced if need be. In essence, we've dehumanized each other.

Grade-A posting, @kevm3 . That's an excellent analogy.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Also brehs don't evaluate by a woman by her job/career.I met a woman who was a lawyer once,she was nice,cool over phone so when it was time for us to meet up at Starbucks on a weekend.She comes looking like a hood rat.The holes at the knee jeans these women wear.My face was in my mind I'm thinking "what happened to her".Her appearance took the meeting out of order.A woman may be Claire Huxtable at first but at end of day she is probably just another Love&Hip Hop chick.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Also brehs don't evaluate by a woman by her job/career.I met a woman who was a lawyer once,she was nice,cool over phone so when it was time for us to meet up at Starbucks on a weekend.She comes looking like a hood rat.The holes at the knee jeans these women wear.My face was in my mind I'm thinking "what happened to her".Her appearance took the meeting out of order.A woman may be Claire Huxtable at first but at end of day she is probably just another Love&Hip Hop chick.

How do you think these nurses look when they go out?