pretty much
the ones that have all those qualities are usually snatched up quick and never let go, there the 28 year olds on your facebook that been married for 5 years and dated a few years before that
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the ones that have all those qualities are usually snatched up quick and never let go, there the 28 year olds on your facebook that been married for 5 years and dated a few years before that
thats the thing that always makes me laugh, when women look their best, when they haven't been ran through, when they don't have years of emotional baggage or kids, they will open their legs for a dude they just met at a club, bar, a dude with nothing going for them etc. but when they reach 30 plus, when thier looks are decaying, when they have 1 or 2 kids, when they have years of broken relationships, sexual soul ties with a bunch of different dudes, years of emotional baggage that's when they want the decent failthful guy, that's when they want the guy who is husband/father material
That's the thing women don't understand yes at 30 and 30 plus they will find guys who still want tos leep with them, and string them along etc. but for the amjority they will not find a decent guy who wants to settle down with all their emotional baggage and declining looks. You can go to any dating site and enter women 30 plus and all want long term, all got the "looking for a nice guy", "sick of all the games", "had my fun want to settle down", why would any man want this? Why?
No man in his right mind wants that. In this culture, we don't have enough men checking me.
If we had the culture in place, when any man is tempted to wife up such a slore, the community would hit him with a combination of
and 
.But, in our culture, dudes actually think they're out here winning wifing up some of these poor excuses for women. Dudes wifing up chicks who've already shown half the globe their half naked bodies on Instagram, Myspace and other shyt.
Chicks who've had 10 starting fives worth of nikkas dikks in them. In another thread, a dude said he knew a chick who took 43 dikks in her freshman year of college. Freshman year, breh. That's not even counting the rest of her time there! Some nikka is going to wife her up one day.
On a tangent, one thing you must always do as a man is reward loyalty... whether it's your potnas, your family or your woman. If you got a solid woman that's been down for you and goes hard for you, reward her. Take her out, take her on a trip, etc. You can't sit back neglecting that person who has your back because you'll miss her when she's gone.
Urbanmiracle
Brooklyn the planet...
thats the thing that always makes me laugh, when women look their best, when they haven't been ran through, when they don't have years of emotional baggage or kids, they will open their legs for a dude they just met at a club, bar, a dude with nothing going for them etc. but when they reach 30 plus, when thier looks are decaying, when they have 1 or 2 kids, when they have years of broken relationships, sexual soul ties with a bunch of different dudes, years of emotional baggage that's when they want the decent failthful guy, that's when they want the guy who is husband/father material
That's the thing women don't understand yes at 30 and 30 plus they will find guys who still want tos leep with them, and string them along etc. but for the amjority they will not find a decent guy who wants to settle down with all their emotional baggage and declining looks. You can go to any dating site and enter women 30 plus and all want long term, all got the "looking for a nice guy", "sick of all the games", "had my fun want to settle down", why would any man want this? Why?
I think that what happen with this last girl who broke up with me. She is 27, still thinks "young" and wants to travel and be out and have a social life with no deep responsibilities besides paying for her lifestyle. She left me because the "thrill" is gone and as soon as she ended it with me, she went back to her wild lifestyle before I came into the picture without thought. She told all she knew was guys would fukk her and discard her. I bet in a few months when it's cold and she lonely she will either think about or call me back.
She on block and delete status.
These women today just wanna be pampered and spoiled with no deep connections or responisiblities to hold them back from doing whatever they feel at the time. Selfish selfish selfish. I was sad for a second but now I seen she was poison for me. Only good thing is she cooked and sometimes brought me stuff. But she longed for her wild life. God bless
As I said before it makes time.
The only way to speed up the process is to cut all contact. Every time you talk to her, see her you will be back at day 1 in terms of pain.
Who cares If in a few months she comes back she will carve out your chest again.
The mentality to take in life is nothing is permanent, joy, pain, love , people in you life. They come and go , one day you'll be dating someone new and thinking back and counting your blessings you and your ex broke up.
Its like losing a job when your making 20k a year you say it sucked it was garbage but your unemployed and have nothing. Then time goes on you find a job that pays you 50k, you look back and you realize although it sucked at the time If I never lost that 20k job I would have still been there when I deserved so much better than that.
The only way to speed up the process is to cut all contact. Every time you talk to her, see her you will be back at day 1 in terms of pain.
Who cares If in a few months she comes back she will carve out your chest again.
The mentality to take in life is nothing is permanent, joy, pain, love , people in you life. They come and go , one day you'll be dating someone new and thinking back and counting your blessings you and your ex broke up.
Its like losing a job when your making 20k a year you say it sucked it was garbage but your unemployed and have nothing. Then time goes on you find a job that pays you 50k, you look back and you realize although it sucked at the time If I never lost that 20k job I would have still been there when I deserved so much better than that.
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DaRealness
I think very deeply
That's precisely why I'm looking for a mature chick in her mid to late twenties with no children and homely nature which is looking very unlikely here in the UK and of course where you guys are.
These older women really have a nerve expecting some dude to clean up their mess and raise kids she had with some no good dude whom she KNEW was no good. In fact, I see women my age and older still going after bum ass dudes. America and the UK is in the same boat as far as I'm concerned. I'd be very surprised if I met the kind of woman I'm looking for from here.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Damn. I may have to cross the UK off my list of potential bases. I was hoping to get stationed there in the near future. May just have to be a place I visit instead.
I kid you not, breh. I was rapping with this one girl I know about various shyt one day and the topic shifted to relationships. This girl had the nerve to say that there are slim pickings among Black men these days.
Mind you, this chick has two kids! I could only hit her with the
She was fine as hell, too. She was in her late twenties at the time. Now, she's in her 30s, still single, looks fading, and with two kids.
She still thinks she deserves a top-notch guy. Her best bet would be a 40+ dude who already has kids and doesn't mind a Brady Bunch situation. The nerve of some of these chicks, brehs.
Yep they don't want a dude with kids because they know bow messed up it is first hand dating someone with children.
I kid you not, breh. I was rapping with this one girl I know about various shyt one day and the topic shifted to relationships. This girl had the nerve to say that there are slim pickings among Black men these days.
Mind you, this chick has two kids! I could only hit her with the
She was fine as hell, too. She was in her late twenties at the time. Now, she's in her 30s, still single, looks fading, and with two kids.
She still thinks she deserves a top-notch guy. Her best bet would be a 40+ dude who already has kids and doesn't mind a Brady Bunch situation. The nerve of some of these chicks, brehs.
Some of these women subconsciously know its a wrap
Yeah. They know their own baby daddy still has on-demand access to their guts. So, they know a dude with kids can still smash the mother of his children's kids on-demand, too.
No one want to talk about that part of the story! A woman's ego cannot handle that, which is why they are so averse to dealing with a man with kids.
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