Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ciggavelli]

sounds like you struggling with co dependency, lol at running out of time your 31 breh 31.


You're physical health is probably tied to your mental problems, work on those and you'll be set on solid ground.

Breh you just got out of a 5 year relationship, lol you won't be "alone" for ever, look there are some guys out there in their 30s, 40s who are still virgins, who have never had a relationship, and you had a 5 year relationship snap out of it breh

Luckily this thread has been helping me snap out of it. It's just been a terrible week for me. I haven't been thinking clearly. My life is in shambles right now.

It's just gonna be to the rest of the world for a bit. I gotta fix my problems.

The mental problems are permanent unfortunately (I've had them since I was a teenager) and aren't tied to my health. The health shyt is new. i dunno what is causing it, but stress can't be helping.

I just need to start over. I thought I was doing well in life and then life threw me a big curveball. It's basically putting me at ground 0 again.

Though I'm completely pessimistic, I'm gonna try to look at this like an opportunity. The future could hold anything

 

[Ohene]

This is gonna sound like a @yo moms post but it's serious.

My girl of 5 years just broke up with me, I got terrible student loan debt problems, my mental health is bad, I'm 136lbs at 6'2," and I may have to go live with my grandma in the near future cuz Sallie Mae is trying to bankrupt me.

Can I seriously get a girl in my state of affairs? When I was 165lbs I'd say I was an 8 (no brag). Now with these health problems and being 136lbs, I dunno what I'm at now. A 6 maybe?

How the fukk am I gonna get a girl with so much going against me? Suggestions brehs?

I've been out of the dating game for so long, I dunno even where to start. Also, I can't drink cuz of meds I'm on. So bars and clubs are kinda out of the question I guess

Damn breh, how come youre so skinny right now the meds?

 

[CanesMiamiLakers]

Y'all still going back and forth about these bytches. All of em are Trifling and have done things you couldn't imagine. When it comes to a woman dirt it's like the ocean you'll never know how deep it goes. Don't worry about it and don't degrade them when they tell you a small fraction of their dirt embrace it and try to get more info. And share it with us

Another thing is your wife/gf has done hoe things she's just wise enough not to share it but don't think she's a holy

 

[Ciggavelli]

Damn breh, how come youre so skinny right now the meds?

I have no idea why I'm so skinny. it could be the meds, but the meds were not causing this problem before. I dunno. I had a terrible stomach illness a year ago and ever since then, it's just been downhill. I think it's related to that, but they can't find anything. They did a colonoscopy, everything. CT scan. They don't know what's up.

 

[Ohene]

I have no idea why I'm so skinny. it could be the meds, but the meds were not causing this problem before. I dunno. I had a terrible stomach illness a year ago and ever since then, it's just been downhill. I think it's related to that, but they can't find anything. They did a colonoscopy, everything. CT scan. They don't know what's up.

i'm guessing what reincar said about the stress is probably true though. I'd add but reincar and 360 and the other brehs have given you enough. Just stay strong, take it day by day and think of the big picture fam. As bad as you have it there is always somebody who had it worse and managed to persevere.

 

[MikelArteta]

Y'all still going back and forth about these bytches. All of em are Trifling and have done things you couldn't imagine. When it comes to a woman dirt it's like the ocean you'll never know how deep it goes. Don't worry about it and don't degrade them when they tell you a small fraction of their dirt embrace it and try to get more info. And share it with us

Another thing is your wife/gf has done hoe things she's just wise enough not to share it but don't think she's a holy

agree but i would worry about it, i would not invest in a woman if i know her dirt, i take it as a sign from above to get out.

And most women will slip off, i remember a chick told me she had 5 partners, as the relationship went on, suddenly oh i messed with this and that guy, as the relationship goes on, oh that guy was my ex bf, so you didn't sleep with him

 

[MikelArteta]

i'm guessing what reincar said about the stress is probably true though. I'd add but reincar and 360 and the other brehs have given you enough. Just stay strong, take it day by day and think of the big picture fam. As bad as you have it there is always somebody who had it worse and managed to persevere.

just go down to your local childrens hospital, or cancer ward, or homeless shelter, hell half of the world lives on like 2 dollars a day, half the worl dwould kill to be in your shoes

 

[CanesMiamiLakers]

agree but i would worry about it, i would not invest in a woman if i know her dirt, i take it as a sign from above to get out.

And most women will slip off, i remember a chick told me she had 5 partners, as the relationship went on, suddenly oh i messed with this and that guy, as the relationship goes on, oh that guy was my ex bf, so you didn't sleep with him

I'm not taking a chick serious who tells me her dirt either unless she has some serious benefits. I can overlook a few hoeish ways if she got her shyt together and treating me like a king

 

[Youseenmywork]

Oh, I know about that. I don't even drink, so luckily there won't be any temptation there.

Last but not least get you some Patrice oneal in your life go to youtube and look for the black phillip show or donte nero show both will put back track on IMO.

 

[EQ.]

I have no idea why I'm so skinny. it could be the meds, but the meds were not causing this problem before. I dunno. I had a terrible stomach illness a year ago and ever since then, it's just been downhill. I think it's related to that, but they can't find anything. They did a colonoscopy, everything. CT scan. They don't know what's up.

Bruh, check your diet you could have severe allergies to food. Alot of that can be traced back to what we put in our bodies. I've been dealing with an auto immune disease (lupus) and what has helped me the most is my diet. I switched to the Paleo diet and my aura and overall health is i'm pretty much off meds and just focusing on working out , following the paleo diet and adding a few crucial supplements here and there. Best part is that is not expensive to do, i spend around 40-50 a week on food ( Frozen veggies/Fruits, omega 3 eggs, grass fed beef/ chicken, spinach/greens, fresh fruits, green tea, sweet potatoes). But when it comes to preventative health i'm willing to spend whatever it takes to stay healthy.

 

[Batz]

Bruh, check your diet you could have severe allergies to food. Alot of that can be traced back to what we put in our bodies. I've been dealing with an auto immune disease (lupus) and what has helped me the most is my diet. I switched to the Paleo diet and my aura and overall health is i'm pretty much off meds and just focusing on working out , following the paleo diet and adding a few crucial supplements here and there. Best part is that is not expensive to do, i spend around 40-50 a week on food ( Frozen veggies/Fruits, omega 3 eggs, grass fed beef/ chicken, spinach/greens, fresh fruits, green tea, sweet potatoes). But when it comes to preventative health i'm willing to spend whatever it takes to stay healthy.

Sorry to hear that about the lupus breh, but daps on that you're doing well

 

[EQ.]

Sorry to hear that about the lupus breh, but daps on that you're doing well

Yoo in a weird way, im kinda glad i have to deal with the Lupus. I am way healthier than i've ever been ( Im 26 and i played high level soccer in highschool and some of college) , i understand and appreciate how certain food acts in my body and i am more aware of internal cues in body. Once you control what you put in your body and start reaping the benefits , everything else kinda starts to fall into place. You'll have more energy to do the things you love, you'll re-ignite that God given mental clarity and your aura ( i'm a big believer in energy/aura ) will shine bright as ever. We only get one body on this journey, it's best we treat it like a Temple

 

[Batz]

Yoo in a weird way, im kinda glad i have to deal with the Lupus. I am way healthier than i've ever been ( Im 26 and i played high level soccer in highschool and some of college) , i understand and appreciate how certain food acts in my body and i am more aware of internal cues in body. Once you control what you put in your body and start reaping the benefits , everything else kinda starts to fall into place. You'll have more energy to do the things you love, you'll re-ignite that God given mental clarity and your aura ( i'm a big believer in energy/aura ) will shine bright as ever. We only get one body on this journey, it's best we treat it like a Temple

Not to get too off topic, but i know how you feel breh. Not to long ago i had a stroke, a minor one. I had to change my eating habits and evrything and it does make a difference. Still slipping up every now and then, but i'm pretty consistent on what i eat and stuff.

 

[lurkandmurk]

I'm starting to believe, the reason why girls/women like to try to "figure out/understand" men is to critique us. You ever remember a time when a woman was telling you something about a person behind their back, mocking them? Women naturally gossip all the time, being a critic to each individual. So for them to try and figure out a man is the ultimate challenge of their own diary/blog/story and be a critic to that man, critical of who he is, or prove he ain't shyt.

What y'all think this vodka sneakin up on me.

 

[Turbulent]

when your fukkbuddy/girlfriend/wife disrespects you, whether you choose to stay with her or leave her is up to you. but whatever you do, don't act like a bytch. what i mean by that is, don't become a passive aggressive bytch who tries to make her feel more sorry. say what you gotta say and let her feel how she feels. if you don't think she truly regrets, leave her and let her be. don't try to make her feel more. with that approach, you will gain peace of mind. stop investing so much in how a chick feels about you. cause then you're giving her control since your satisfaction depends on how much remorse she feels.