Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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digs in the crate for my classic dump before you get dumped post

Dump her before she Dumps You!


Woah, what kind of ludicrous, bitter, stupid information is this? I love my girl and we've been together
for years.


Hold up and hear me out. I do not mean just dump her right now, or dump her maybe even ever. What I mean is when the signs
are shown that she is getting ready to dump you, dump her first. Women emotionally detach, weeks, months, even years in advance
before they drop the hammer on their unsuspecting boyfriend. By reading the signs you can come out on top.

Here are a few signs that you should dump her before she dumps you


1. She seems Distant.
If your girl seems distant, drop the hammer and get out now. She always made time for you for the months, years you were dating, now she is always busy,
cancelling plans, short phone calls that used to be long, no longer communicating daily. This is where you sever the ties and come out on top. If your girl no longer contacts you like she
once did you are no longer a priority in her life.

2. She needs Space
Whenever a woman tells you to needs space, run for the hills. In a relationship your partner is either with you or not, if they need space they are basically telling you
they don't want to be with you.


3. The pet names she used to call you stop.


If she used to call you baby all the time, and is now calling you by your government DUMP HER!!. You are now basically a friend don't allow her to be comfortable emotionally detaching from you
DUMP HER NOW.


Many men are so oblivious to the fact, when their gf is distant, no longer loves them anymore they think it just happaned. How can you fall out of love with me so fast, look at all I did bla bla.

Men need to wake up and realize nothing happens that fast, it's why when a women dumps you more than likely it has been plotted for awhile she just finally got to the point where she no longer feels the need
to have you in her life.

Ever notice if you have ever been dumped, you may have texted or talked to your gf every day for years, but once you are dumped just like that you are nothing? Read the signs boys, it's like when soemone is being
phased out at work, they slowly take away responsibilities from you, they slowly treat you different, you think nothing is wrong with then boom the hammer drops. If your eyes were open you would have realized months in advance
what was happening.
 

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when you start thinking that way you might as well leave. this is what we were speaking in earlier about the passive agressive shyt. it's not worth it. either instruct her on what you want her to do and watch if she does it or not without giving her an ultimatum (and be ready for her to leave at anytime) OR leave right away.

I honestly think this is why women end 75% of relationship, in rpob 30% of those men feel something is wrong or different but instead of walking away they just chalk it up to she's busy, she loves me bla bla

the last girl i messed with (the texts i posted), i felt she was getting distant and emotioanlyl detaching so i said :manny:, and just removed myself and in the end a good 6 months later you saw how she came back

never be afraid to walk away from a woman regardless of your history with her if your not married or don't have kids, because they will not be afraid to walk from you or drop you whenever they feel like it.

And more times than not you blindside them, because women like to be in control, and get closure when you just say eff it they are left pondering
 

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digs in the crate for my classic dump before you get dumped post

Dump her before she Dumps You!


Woah, what kind of ludicrous, bitter, stupid information is this? I love my girl and we've been together
for years.


Hold up and hear me out. I do not mean just dump her right now, or dump her maybe even ever. What I mean is when the signs
are shown that she is getting ready to dump you, dump her first. Women emotionally detach, weeks, months, even years in advance
before they drop the hammer on their unsuspecting boyfriend. By reading the signs you can come out on top.

Here are a few signs that you should dump her before she dumps you


1. She seems Distant.
If your girl seems distant, drop the hammer and get out now. She always made time for you for the months, years you were dating, now she is always busy,
cancelling plans, short phone calls that used to be long, no longer communicating daily. This is where you sever the ties and come out on top. If your girl no longer contacts you like she
once did you are no longer a priority in her life.

2. She needs Space
Whenever a woman tells you to needs space, run for the hills. In a relationship your partner is either with you or not, if they need space they are basically telling you
they don't want to be with you.


3. The pet names she used to call you stop.


If she used to call you baby all the time, and is now calling you by your government DUMP HER!!. You are now basically a friend don't allow her to be comfortable emotionally detaching from you
DUMP HER NOW.


Many men are so oblivious to the fact, when their gf is distant, no longer loves them anymore they think it just happaned. How can you fall out of love with me so fast, look at all I did bla bla.

Men need to wake up and realize nothing happens that fast, it's why when a women dumps you more than likely it has been plotted for awhile she just finally got to the point where she no longer feels the need
to have you in her life.

Ever notice if you have ever been dumped, you may have texted or talked to your gf every day for years, but once you are dumped just like that you are nothing? Read the signs boys, it's like when soemone is being
phased out at work, they slowly take away responsibilities from you, they slowly treat you different, you think nothing is wrong with then boom the hammer drops. If your eyes were open you would have realized months in advance
what was happening.

Thing is she still does all the other shyt.... Wants to cuddle up with me, wants me at family gatherings, the pet names......

It's just that she in no way initiates sex... (I mean she'll give me head but then will be like ..."uhhhh I didn't shave"when I wanna fukk)

On top of that she's starting to hang with chicks I kinda think are shady.... Wed she went to AC with them and today she went to six flags ( she told me about both on some "oh hey I'm going such and such with such" like a day before)

Idk... Half of me is saying It's nothing, stop being a bytch, stay productive and don't even stress it but the other half is saying "she gone breh"

She says some of the sex issue is due to her not trusting me because yea I have fukked around with some bytches in the past and she's cught me several times. She swears she's not fukking or even entertaining anyone else ....
 

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I honestly think this is why women end 75% of relationship, in rpob 30% of those men feel something is wrong or different but instead of walking away they just chalk it up to she's busy, she loves me bla bla

the last girl i messed with (the texts i posted), i felt she was getting distant and emotioanlyl detaching so i said :manny:, and just removed myself and in the end a good 6 months later you saw how she came back

never be afraid to walk away from a woman regardless of your history with her if your not married or don't have kids, , because they will not be afraid to walk from you or drop you whenever they feel like it.
cause eventhough that's what she was moving towards, you took the control away from her.
 

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Thing is she still does all the other shyt.... Wants to cuddle up with me, wants me at family gatherings, the pet names......

It's just that she in no way initiates sex... (I mean she'll give me head but then will be like ..."uhhhh I didn't shave"when I wanna fukk)

On top of that she's starting to hang with chicks I kinda think are shady.... Wed she went to AC with them and today she went to six flags ( she told me about both on some "oh hey I'm going such and such with such" like a day before)

Idk... Half of me is saying It's nothing, stop being a bytch, stay productive and don't even stress it but the other half is saying "she gone breh"

She says some of the sex issue is due to her not trusting me because yea I have fukked around with some bytches in the past and she's cught me several times. She swears she's not fukking or even entertaining anyone else ....
this is a power play from her breh. if she don't trust you, why is she still with you?
 

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I kinda want to just block her number and have her thinking "what the fukk?" Lmao but I don't wanna do that if I'm tripping over nothing
this is a feminine move breh. any short term W you mightget from it will lead to an even bigger L in the future. again, like Reincar said, you need to either confront the issue or leave her. again, why are you staying with her besides "because i love her"?
 

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this is a power play from her breh. if she don't trust you, why is she still with you?

That's what I'm saying. I asked her this and she was like "because I love you but it's different because you've hurt me in the past" ....

Then I go "well u want space....you want me to fall back?" And she's like "no" ... And she still trips over chicks so she doesn't come across as if she doesn't care.
 

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this is a feminine move breh. any short term W you mightget from it will lead to an even bigger L in the future. again, like Reincar said, you need to either confront the issue or leave her. again, why are you staying with her besides "because i love her"?


I with her cuz she's a good girl. Doesn't go out to party much. Her last two Fridays she spent making homemade lemonade and cleaning the bathroom lol. She's good with my daughter. We been together on and off for 5/6 years. My mother adores her. Friends dig her.
 

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That's what I'm saying. I asked her this and she was like "because I love you but it's different because you've hurt me in the past" ....

Then I go "well u want space....you want me to fall back?" And she's like "no" ... And she still trips over chicks so she doesn't come across as if she doesn't care.
translation: i don't want to give it up but i still want you to chase after it and still want you to only desire me. trying to keep you under her thumb.
 

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translation: i don't want to give it up but i still want you to chase after it and still want you to only desire me. trying to keep you under her thumb.

Lol smh .... Man ...

Maybe I just need to stop worrying about it.

It could be nothing or it could be something. If I can't call it either way then it's really no need to stress it
 

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I with her cuz she's a good girl. Doesn't go out to party much. Her last two Fridays she spent making homemade lemonade and cleaning the bathroom lol. She's good with my daughter. We been together on and off for 5/6 years. My mother adores her. Friends dig her.
good girl who started hanging out with shady girls...careful breh

your main problem with her seems to be the sex. i got a few questions for you. Were you fukking different chicks all along or did she just find out about it? and if she knew before and still got with you, why is it all of a sudden something that's fukking with your sex life? what i'm saying is, did she know which type of animal you were from the getgo and was putting her head in the sand?

i don't know the whole situation but from the info you gave us, the whole trust thing seems like a pretext. if she didn't trust you, she would leave you.
Lol smh .... Man ...

Maybe I just need to stop worrying about it.

It could be nothing or it could be something. If I can't call it either way then it's really no need to stress it
do what you feel is best breh. only thing i can tell you is to keep your eyes open.
 

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The thing about confronting is the what's wrong gunny approach and she says nothing ans gives you a blowjob and opens her legs to calm your fears.

Its like when I saw a girl I was dating with took down our picture of the dresser I mentioned it and she's like oh I was just cleaning :usure: and she put it back

Calmed my fears but them thanks were still dropping
 

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Think back to all your past relationships that failed. I'm sure there wqa a moment you knew something was wrong but you didn't act on it.



Lol smh .... Man ...

Maybe I just need to stop worrying about it.

It could be nothing or it could be something. If I can't call it either way then it's really no need to stress it
 

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Think back to all your past relationships that failed. I'm sure there wqa a moment you knew something was wrong but you didn't act on it.

Honestly only been in 3 real relationships. I was with my daughter mom for 9 years and I was cheating on her like crazy. She wasn't having sex with me but I didn't even care because I was fukking another chick.

My present girl I've been with for 6 years. I basically raised this chick haha ... Real shyt.
 
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