I'm saying if someone comes out and apologies for it and asks to reschedule, they deserve another chance. So yes I would give him another chance. You can usually tell who considers you an afterthought from those. Based on what he wrote that is not enough for me cut contact...just like that. But I am speaking for myself.so if a dude asked you out on a date, you get there, wait for him, he never shows up, you call and he says "hey, sorry i forgot about our date and i fell asleep, want to do this some other time?"
you'd be cool with that?
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Thats fine but perceptions can be wrong. I don't agree wuth with first strike out especially not in this situation. But hey that's my opinion based on what he wrote there might bw more to it than that...I don't know.
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I wish more would i like to debate and just have dialogue.
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Today lesson is....
let the man follow his gut. stop trying to instill doubt in his mind especially when bringing no solid arguments. bytch told him straight up she forgot about him, she fell asleep. dude probably got a feeling the bytch didn't take him serious. now you want him to give her another shot on the off chance that MAYBE he could me missing out on a great girl? bytch didn't even offer anything as a token of her mistake. didn't offer to make it up to him. nada. again, stop trying to make the man doubt his decision based on nothing.
Didn't he say she apologized and then asked to reschedule but he refused. Fact of the matter if he was feeling that girl he would have given her another chance. He wasn't...stop trying to act like hes working on some ultimate principle. People choose who they value and who they don't. I simply said people are deserving of second chances your combative stance changes nothing to what I said.
Lol ok...Im glad to see a female here....
The female mind needs to be constantly picked...
As long as you don't come with no obvious bs, you will be welcomed here...even with difference of opinions
low key take a look at that so how many boyfriends did you dump thread and http://www.thecoli.com/threads/ladi...an-ever-courted-you-lupe.241530/#post-9690586
notice how all of these women had great previous guys they dated, guys who were sweet and considerate didn't cheat etc., but still they were dropped like a bad habit.
Just like what kevm3 always says that's why you focus on yourself, don't invest to much in most women, they change like the wind
notice how all of these women had great previous guys they dated, guys who were sweet and considerate didn't cheat etc., but still they were dropped like a bad habit.
Just like what kevm3 always says that's why you focus on yourself, don't invest to much in most women, they change like the wind
again, did she offer anything to correct that wrong beside an apology? fact is, he probably was feeling her since he asked her out on a date. fact is, he probably stopped feeling her because he felt like she disrespected him (this is a principled stance). fact is, you suggested he should have given her another chance because "he could be missing out on a great girl, maybe...". which is not based on principle at all. this is strictly based on the fear of loss. yet a wise man knows you can't lose something you never had so no need to fear. I consciously chose a "combative stance" because it's frustrating to see a dude going with his gut, not compromising himself, standing up for himself and here you come with nothing else but doubt and no solid arguments as to why he should continue to pursue besides "well hey, you might miss out". the bytch has brought nothing to the table and already took away from it yet you want him to invest even more?? this whole shyt is a con game.
this is why i laugh at womens advice, a broad will cheat on you and they will tell you, give her another chance, everyone makes mistakes.
Or if a woman messes up, sometimes women are like that, you should give her another chance.
The accountability in most women is not there
Years ago I read this quote and I always remember it and i hope every man does to
"why waste your time on giving a woman a second chance, when there is a woman out there dying for her first"
That quote has always stuck with me and whenever i feel like looking the other way etc., allowingsomeone back into my life etc. that always clicks in my mind.
Or if a woman messes up, sometimes women are like that, you should give her another chance.
The accountability in most women is not there
Years ago I read this quote and I always remember it and i hope every man does to
"why waste your time on giving a woman a second chance, when there is a woman out there dying for her first"
That quote has always stuck with me and whenever i feel like looking the other way etc., allowingsomeone back into my life etc. that always clicks in my mind.