You already know the answer to your question since you answered it in your post. You know she ain't loyal, so there ain't nothing to do but let her keep it pushing. You know what she's about, so there ain't nothing to do but to find a woman that's really about that loyalty.
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You already know the answer to your question since you answered it in your post. You know she ain't loyal, so there ain't nothing to do but let her keep it pushing. You know what she's about, so there ain't nothing to do but to find a woman that's really about that loyalty.
I guess men aren't attracted to manly 6'5" women brah. It blows my mind too man
She's actually 5'5 and pretty decent looking brehI guess men aren't attracted to manly 6'5" women brah. It blows my mind too man
I said it before when your young build immunity, ala get with the hottest girl you can get with, and dump her when she messes up.
Yes dump a hot girl once in a life then any other time in your life from.now on doesn't matter who you date how hot she is youll always remember the time you cut a hot chick out your life
Yes dump a hot girl once in a life then any other time in your life from.now on doesn't matter who you date how hot she is youll always remember the time you cut a hot chick out your life
Often the shyt that you're stressing about so much in the moment ends up being nothing a week or a month past. I've been here many a time stressing over a bytch and wanting her more because she's hard to get. The second I get another girl i forget about the first INSTANTLY.
All you gotta do is find a replacement and you're gonna forget about this bytch like uve already forgotten last mondays dinner.
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To the brehs of this thread
Before I was every member of the coli or began posting Ive always had interest in woman and how they function or even better understand mens biggest faliure in relation to woman .Ive had my fair share of heart breaks as which I think is what motivates most men along with the idea of just wanting to enjoy a womans company minus the bs. When I first started reading this thread specifically I was amazed by it so amazed I went threw every page mind you ive been reading since @Sharp was posting i dont no how long thats been . When I was reading some of you guys was funny , some very philosophical and yeah some of you brehs was just plain brianless and reckless in what you post.
I wanna help the brehs in this thread ive always been a fan of monolog or dialog. In the last few months thoe ive felt that the thread has been missing something. I say that cause its ALOT of great material in here but how man brehs is practicing this material(?) and not just for women , but for the improvement of ones selfand life . And then an idea came to me one day when I was sitting and just doing some personal writing .....
Starting late JANUARY I will start approaching woman but to make it intresting In instead of just posting in this thread im going to post the field reports. I havent put it all together but here is what it MAY look like.
Female Name or Nickname :
Age :
Profession:
Background/Ethnic:
what she look like: ( yes only cearting brehs will get pics ...some of you coli nikkas is wolves
)
What i learned from this experience :
This is just a sample but you it can change the more i get comfortable I get with the feild post.
Ive tossed this idea around for some weeks . Let me know yals opinion do you like it do you hate. My last posting will be friday. Im be pretty busy with my life and just trying to strive to make my life the best it can be . I dont think we born into this life to be average but to be great spiritually , career , family etc.
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Before I was every member of the coli or began posting Ive always had interest in woman and how they function or even better understand mens biggest faliure in relation to woman .Ive had my fair share of heart breaks as which I think is what motivates most men along with the idea of just wanting to enjoy a womans company minus the bs. When I first started reading this thread specifically I was amazed by it so amazed I went threw every page mind you ive been reading since @Sharp was posting i dont no how long thats been . When I was reading some of you guys was funny , some very philosophical and yeah some of you brehs was just plain brianless and reckless in what you post.
I wanna help the brehs in this thread ive always been a fan of monolog or dialog. In the last few months thoe ive felt that the thread has been missing something. I say that cause its ALOT of great material in here but how man brehs is practicing this material(?) and not just for women , but for the improvement of ones selfand life . And then an idea came to me one day when I was sitting and just doing some personal writing .....
Starting late JANUARY I will start approaching woman but to make it intresting In instead of just posting in this thread im going to post the field reports. I havent put it all together but here is what it MAY look like.
Female Name or Nickname :
Age :
Profession:
Background/Ethnic:
what she look like: ( yes only cearting brehs will get pics ...some of you coli nikkas is wolves
)What i learned from this experience :
This is just a sample but you it can change the more i get comfortable I get with the feild post.
Ive tossed this idea around for some weeks . Let me know yals opinion do you like it do you hate. My last posting will be friday. Im be pretty busy with my life and just trying to strive to make my life the best it can be . I dont think we born into this life to be average but to be great spiritually , career , family etc.
@Emperor_ReinScarf @kevm3 @Turbulent
EQ.
Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
They wouldn't accept tainted food so why accept tainted love?
I would like to add a quirky yet effective way to treat each relationship you are in..... i say you should metaphorically "kill" everyone you meet. Meaning accept the transitory and temporary nature of life and every relationship you are in. Appreciate that relationships for most part are all in your head. Your perception of other people's actions/inactions are what drive your decisions when dealing with them, when you understand that you can only be the master of your mind it'll save you time trying to manage or control other people. You'll begin to take a seat back and enjoy whatever situation you are in because you said to yourself " this relationship will eventually end " and you would have already imagined a world where this person is no longer in your life. It'll make you appreciate the time you do have with that person but more importantly it will you make you appreciate the bigger picture of each day you've been given to experience being alive.
@aaaaaaa
If this thread really about finding a wife, then we need to answer our shortcomings. (If this thread is just about gettin' sex, I'm in the wrong place) Or we're no different than the "airheads" we can't seem to stand. "Insecure" is a weapon many women use, but, that doesn't all of the sudden make the concept invalid.
Anyone comes off as insecure when they hate critique so much, they can't take it and truly examine themselves. And whether you agree with or not isn't the crux of insecurity, it's your response. I've never been one not to handle being wrong. But, that's gonna take you proving me wrong. That's why I asked you to elaborate.
When talk about "middle ground," I'm basically sayin'; the world isn't filled with either nuns or Supahead. There's a middle ground that's in between the two extremes. That's just being realistic. I don't think we're talking about the same thing.
But, back to "experience," we're obviously on two different roads. I was talking about life experience--not just sexual experience. But, as for your definition, I think it's too linear. Yes, women desire experience. I just think it's weird to judge a woman based on the guys who've tried to attract her. I feel like I'd go too long explaining, though.
But, a lot of posters suggest gettin' a young woman to "mold" her and that's corny to me. A lot of brehs think too highly of themselves if they believe they are qualified to "mold" another human being. And a lot of does have to do with the fact; the assumption is you have more experience (yes, intelligence is gained from experience and time).
I understand the concept of wanting a younger women. I just think it's sleezy to prey on someone younger than you because you can take advantage of their lack of experience and you can assumed power of them. But, if you want to build a relationship on vain pursues like looks and assumptions of fertility (c'mon, breh, the fertitly of a 20 and 30 y.o. ain't that drastic).
Don't insult me, because you don't understand/agree with me. That's the tactic of a "dumbass." An intelligent person will just reason with a better argument. I'm a grown man, I'm not here for all that. If you took anything personally, I apologize. But, don't play me like that.
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That's like a dentist salary.
If this thread really about finding a wife, then we need to answer our shortcomings. (If this thread is just about gettin' sex, I'm in the wrong place) Or we're no different than the "airheads" we can't seem to stand. "Insecure" is a weapon many women use, but, that doesn't all of the sudden make the concept invalid.
Anyone comes off as insecure when they hate critique so much, they can't take it and truly examine themselves. And whether you agree with or not isn't the crux of insecurity, it's your response. I've never been one not to handle being wrong. But, that's gonna take you proving me wrong. That's why I asked you to elaborate.
When talk about "middle ground," I'm basically sayin'; the world isn't filled with either nuns or Supahead. There's a middle ground that's in between the two extremes. That's just being realistic. I don't think we're talking about the same thing.
But, back to "experience," we're obviously on two different roads. I was talking about life experience--not just sexual experience. But, as for your definition, I think it's too linear. Yes, women desire experience. I just think it's weird to judge a woman based on the guys who've tried to attract her. I feel like I'd go too long explaining, though.
But, a lot of posters suggest gettin' a young woman to "mold" her and that's corny to me. A lot of brehs think too highly of themselves if they believe they are qualified to "mold" another human being. And a lot of does have to do with the fact; the assumption is you have more experience (yes, intelligence is gained from experience and time).
I understand the concept of wanting a younger women. I just think it's sleezy to prey on someone younger than you because you can take advantage of their lack of experience and you can assumed power of them. But, if you want to build a relationship on vain pursues like looks and assumptions of fertility (c'mon, breh, the fertitly of a 20 and 30 y.o. ain't that drastic).
Don't insult me, because you don't understand/agree with me. That's the tactic of a "dumbass." An intelligent person will just reason with a better argument. I'm a grown man, I'm not here for all that. If you took anything personally, I apologize. But, don't play me like that.
EDIT:
The max salary (according to Google) of a WNBA team is 100K.For the life of me I'mat the fact that there is a wnba player who lives in my area on pof looking for a man
That's like a dentist salary.
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/how-many-of-you-have-stopped-taking-women-out-on-dates.206093/Found out ol girl that works at my gym is notorious for mooching for free meals from guys. Her game is to see how much she can get away with a guy. Dodged a bullet...
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@Easy-E I think you're talking about a rhetoric that hasn't really existed in this thread, in my opinion. For as long as I've been in this thread, I've never seen anyone say that it's best to grab a girl whilst she's young(er) because she's going to be naive about certain things which then allows her to be moulded. If anything, I'm pretty sure most of the guys in here would prefer a woman that's experienced life and has a genuinely worldly view of things. I know for myself personally, I'd struggle to go out with a girl younger than me because I know I'd have a better chance of finding someone who's more intellectual if I look at older women.
From a sexual POV, obviously most good men aren't going to want to date a women with a promiscuous past but it's not like we want virgins either.
Myself for example, as a 21 y/o who's only been with one girl, I could be strict and say that I only want a woman who's had 1 guy at the most but I know I would be potentially ruling myself from a good woman out there so I'd be content with a girl having been with up to 4 guys.
I just think words like insecurity are thrown around too often in order to shame the men that don't wanna scoop up damaged goods.
From a sexual POV, obviously most good men aren't going to want to date a women with a promiscuous past but it's not like we want virgins either.
Myself for example, as a 21 y/o who's only been with one girl, I could be strict and say that I only want a woman who's had 1 guy at the most but I know I would be potentially ruling myself from a good woman out there so I'd be content with a girl having been with up to 4 guys.
I just think words like insecurity are thrown around too often in order to shame the men that don't wanna scoop up damaged goods.
Found out ol girl that works at my gym is notorious for mooching for free meals from guys. Her game is to see how much she can get away with a guy. Dodged a bullet...
lol that's just another confirmation of why you don't listen to females. You listened to your gut and came out ahead. Females are quick to make excuses for other womens' degenerate behavior.
bottom line is if a broad ain't trying to deal with you without you dropping any cash, she ain't worth dealing with.. and if she can't be cordial, she ain't worth dealing with.
Number 1 rule is women always find a way to be where they want to be. if they come up with excuses, are always 'busy', you just ain't where she wants to be. Some negroes are then ready to break out the clown shoes and juggling pins and try to technique her into wanting to mess with them, but nah... we ain't about that here. They better get with the program or get on.
you should have treated her like the side bytch she is and thrown her to the bushes the moment she started with her bullshyt. nothing hurts a bytch more than when you show her she's disposable.
take your L and move on.
do your thing breh! carfeul with the pics though.To the brehs of this thread
Before I was every member of the coli or began posting Ive always had interest in woman and how they function or even better understand mens biggest faliure in relation to woman .Ive had my fair share of heart breaks as which I think is what motivates most men along with the idea of just wanting to enjoy a womans company minus the bs. When I first started reading this thread specifically I was amazed by it so amazed I went threw every page mind you ive been reading since @Sharp was posting i dont no how long thats been . When I was reading some of you guys was funny , some very philosophical and yeah some of you brehs was just plain brianless and reckless in what you post.
I wanna help the brehs in this thread ive always been a fan of monolog or dialog. In the last few months thoe ive felt that the thread has been missing something. I say that cause its ALOT of great material in here but how man brehs is practicing this material(?) and not just for women , but for the improvement of ones selfand life . And then an idea came to me one day when I was sitting and just doing some personal writing .....
Starting late JANUARY I will start approaching woman but to make it intresting In instead of just posting in this thread im going to post the field reports. I havent put it all together but here is what it MAY look like.
Female Name or Nickname :
Age :
Profession:
Background/Ethnic:
what she look like: ( yes only cearting brehs will get pics ...some of you coli nikkas is wolves
What i learned from this experience :
This is just a sample but you it can change the more i get comfortable I get with the feild post.
Ive tossed this idea around for some weeks . Let me know yals opinion do you like it do you hate. My last posting will be friday. Im be pretty busy with my life and just trying to strive to make my life the best it can be . I dont think we born into this life to be average but to be great spiritually , career , family etc.
@Emperor_ReinScarf @kevm3 @Turbulent
Virtuous_Brotha
Superstar
is it worth pursing a chick that claims shes not looking for a relationship?
This might not even be the place for it but I read this Dear Abby-type advice column not too long ago where some woman wanted to hit up her ex for an engagement ring that he gave to her but got back after the relationship fell apart. She said she and the ex were still on good terms. So with her new man, they're thinking about the marriage thing and she wants to get the ring from the guy (buy it or whatever), calling the ring itself her "dream ring."
I couldn't do anything but
New dude might end up sharing that girl one day.
it's an engagement ring and one she really liked - you telling me she aint take a pic
. she could easily have that ring recreated, but instead wants to hit the ex about a ring that he likely dont even have anymore. that's a wild storyshe was never yours, so nothing to trip out about. this is the period where she's supposed to be showing her best face and this is what you're seeing so imagine what's coming down the road. bad as hell, but it aint work out with the last dude? she was entertaining you and your mans?
