Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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yep except most females don't use logic
i can seperate my emotions from logic. I know if a chick cheats on me that's it. I know if i'm say dumped that's it

Girls really confuse me, sometimes. My ex was calling me up a week after she dumped me crying and complaining that about the fact that I stopped talking to her. It literally had me like :mindblown:
 

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Girls really confuse me, sometimes. My ex was calling me up a week after she dumped me crying and complaining that about the fact that I stopped talking to her. It literally had me like :mindblown:

all guilt on their part, and women know when a men is good they would have to have them in her life even as a friend.

I don't do that friends with exes crap, i did it once and was strung along for nearly 5 years, ish was starting to affect my health till i finally said no more. My ex was banging dudes, dating and all that, and i was like :ehh:, but the moment i'd go on a date, or she'd hear through the grapevine or see something on my fb she'd become psycho.

Now any woman I mess with date etc. once its over its over. No fb friends, no friends, no texting, no hanging out.

And I let every girl i date or mess with know, when its over i wont talk to them again
 

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as a man you have to get to a point where you are not afraid to walk away at any moment of disrespect , cheating etc.

Your chick goes clubbing and you see pictures of her grinding on dudes :camby:
texting her ex :camby:
to many are to soft and let things slide over and over because she's hot breh, that ass breh and all that


1. never chase that doesn't want to stay
2. never take disrespect
 

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Never, you want to win an argument.

I remember my initial post. This all started with this:


@aaaaaaa

You turn this into me wanting men to get with "old sluts".

You want to know what I feel about "old" women who've been "around," then ask me.

But, stop with this deflecting and arguing against points (men need older women :dry:) I'm not even trying to make.


This right here:

"Because women are inhertedly stupid and emotionally, we need to get them at 18, 19 years old. That way, we are able to preserve any damage, to our ego, that a woman's past may cause us. And we are now able to shape her world view, in a way we deem fit. Oh, because, we as men are just that much better than women."

Is why i think ur a feminist.
 

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This right here:

"Because women are inhertedly stupid and emotionally, we need to get them at 18, 19 years old. That way, we are able to preserve any damage, to our ego, that a woman's past may cause us. And we are now able to shape her world view, in a way we deem fit. Oh, because, we as men are just that much better than women."

Is why i think ur a feminist.

So, out of our back and forth, you pick that out (even after I explained it) and disregard the rest?

That's how it comes off, I was asking for what's really the thinking behind.

:childplease: C'mon, I'm no troll. I understand why dudes want a younger woman. Read the post I responded to:

"by finding one who has limited experience and is thus less tainted or more impressionable. dont take advantage of it though"

The most troubling was "more impressionable" like she needs to be able to believe everything you say.

That's my issue, not age or sexual experience.
 

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as a man you have to get to a point where you are not afraid to walk away at any moment of disrespect , cheating etc.

Your chick goes clubbing and you see pictures of her grinding on dudes :camby:
texting her ex :camby:
to many are to soft and let things slide over and over because she's hot breh, that ass breh and all that


1. never chase that doesn't want to stay
2. never take disrespect

:salute: Yup, you gotta be strong to do that shyt though. If you have nothing else going on, it will be easy to fall back into chasing what you once had.
I just cut off the nurse I was dealing with, and luckily I got other options and other shyt going on that I have no desire to even see what she's up to.
 

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:salute: Yup, you gotta be strong to do that shyt though. If you have nothing else going on, it will be easy to fall back into chasing what you once had.
I just cut off the nurse I was dealing with, and luckily I got other options and other shyt going on that I have no desire to even see what she's up to.

yup it will be, one of the hardest thing a man can do is just cut the cord and not chase a hot woman

and its amazing i always see it when a man finally cuts the excess waste etc. someone new pops up
 
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as a man you have to get to a point where you are not afraid to walk away at any moment of disrespect , cheating etc.

Your chick goes clubbing and you see pictures of her grinding on dudes :camby:
texting her ex :camby:
to many are to soft and let things slide over and over becauhe's hot breh, that ass breh and all that


1. never chase that doesn't want to stay
2. never take disrespect


Its only so long you can say this it should be common sense know your limits. I can say I take the emotion out when deal with women until prove other wise. I guess im the only one that feel like a women has to grow on you or me. Women are only as powerful as a man allows them to be.Me losing a women is like me losing a pencil or pen ill get another one when im ready
 

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Its only so long you can say this it should be common sense know your limits. I can say I take the emotion out when deal with women until prove other wise. I guess im the only one that feel like a women has to grow on you or me. Women are only as powerful as a man allows them to be.Me losing a women is like me losing a pencil or pen ill get another one when im ready

i like this line
 

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It's a new season brehs start making your roster cuts.Evaluate what's around you.It's a new day if you don't be around women that don't meet your expectations then dont
 

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Seriously, your best bets are focusing on things other than women. Get your skills up. All of this effort and thought being put into women and yet they can nullify all value you thought you had in just a moment. "I'm bored and I'm leaving."

If you find you a great girl who wants to be around you just for you, get out the game and rock with that.
 

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Anyone ever get the sense that white chicks come off as desperate when you talk to them? This 26 year old (I'm 23 btw) white chick hit me up yesterday saying she hasn't dated in 2 years and after changing her ways she was ready to date it left me :ohhh: when she said that plus she a bit on the plus-size curvy type chick side i just found it :mindblown: that 26 year old hit me up because I've never had that happen before and plus I've never really fukked with a white chick before as well
 

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Seriously, your best bets are focusing on things other than women. Get your skills up. All of this effort and thought being put into women and yet they can nullify all value you thought you had in just a moment. "I'm bored and I'm leaving."

If you find you a great girl who wants to be around you just for you, get out the game and rock with that.

pretty much, dudes being stressed and all that putting their life onh old wasting so much money time etc. for what?: a kiss?: sex?: a relationship?

like i always say I don't have time for games and manipulation tactics, dating sites, saying yo ma to every chick i come across, i'd rather just save my mney travel, if a great woman comes along great, if not :manny:
 

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Anyone ever get the sense that white chicks come off as desperate when you talk to them? This 26 year old (I'm 23 btw) white chick hit me up yesterday saying she hasn't dated in 2 years and after changing her ways she was ready to date it left me :ohhh: when she said that plus she a bit on the plus-size curvy type chick side i just found it :mindblown: that 26 year old hit me up because I've never had that happen before and plus I've never really fukked with a white chick before as well

past slut who know realizes her time is running out
 

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So Ive cut off all communication with my ex and just started focusing on my album. Ive been recording an album for the past two years and I got video out as well. Anyways long story short, I kept seeing my ex retweeting my album links, links to my video in all i guess in a effort to get rid of her guilt of dumping me. But its annoying because I'm trying get her out my mind and just focus on Urban nah mean? But we've been too interconnected with friends, social media, I even ran into her brother who lives around the corner from me. Its hard sometimes cause flashes of good memories still come into my head ever so often.
 
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