Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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they think they can get away it, because they have in the past so many guys are simps especially if she's hot.


like i said i could have checked hr or got angry etc., she's just been deleted and in the bin now.


I love when red flags pop up just in the talking stage
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The thing is breh sometime their not even hot, not even close to it and they still carry in away that have you looking like :dahell:. them red flags early on is a blessing
 

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bruh you need to know your crowd when you do looks dont matter. I've seen some of the most bum ass nikkas with good girls around their arms at the end of the day you need to get yours. Women will NOT approach you so forget about that happening shyt is jungle i used to think like you but that shyt does not get you anywhere.
You should just go to bars clubs ect to steup for game and have some fun women can smell from a mile away that you are not getting any girls and clubs ect are a good start to talk to women.

At the end of the day to get women you need have women to get women, like i said women can feel it in you're not getting any women.

I can't do clubs/bars though, I get very agitated in that type of setting. I hate the idea of "game" since most women know what you're trying to pull and it sounds corny.
 

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I can't do clubs/bars though, I get very agitated in that type of setting. I hate the idea of "game" since most women know what you're trying to pull and it sounds corny.

breh i've been to 3 clubs in my whole life and all were in cuba
ive been to 1 bar in my life and that was in vancouver.

As I said do what you want , women are everywhere, the museum, the grocery store, the park, the mall, on your street. I really think you should focus on other stuff
 

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I can't do clubs/bars though, I get very agitated in that type of setting. I hate the idea of "game" since most women know what you're trying to pull and it sounds corny.

Man, I've been peeping your posts around the forum bruh. It's always about what you can't do or "woe is me" type shyt.

"Look at yaself" (c) Nas

Take a step back, and just reread most of your posts, that's not how a man or any human in general should be. Ya life ain't all negative, even though you may feel it may be. Look at the positives you have, whether it be intellectually, career, physical, etc. and let that be something you exude when it comes to conversing with women. If you don't have confidence in yourself shyt won't happen at all. It starts with YOU!
 
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they think they can get away it, because they have in the past so many guys are simps especially if she's hot.


like i said i could have checked hr or got angry etc., she's just been deleted and in the bin now.


I love when red flags pop up just in the talking stage
:blessed:
i was gonna say the same . its our fault for enabling it and gassing them up everywhere they go. itll never happen but if dudes created an undercover movement to be HOH and stop giving hoes attn Im honestly telling you these girls would probably cry themselves to sleep especially because they dont have the skill to go after the dudes they want. Gyms, plastic surgeons, sephora, nordstrom and chefs would be caking at an all time high off the insecurities.
 

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i was gonna say the same . its our fault for enabling it and gassing them up everywhere they go. itll never happen but if dudes created an undercover movement to be HOH and stop giving hoes attn Im honestly telling you these girls would probably cry themselves to sleep especially because they dont have the skill to go after the dudes they want. Gyms, plastic surgeons, sephora, nordstrom and chefs would be caking at an all time high off the insecurities.

yup, but to much simps though.

Many dudes don't realize it as well, i've talked to many beautiful women in my life and many are insecure and think they are "fat, ugly', worthless, going through depression, hate thier boobs, ass" etc. yet dudes continue to simp and just pump up their ego. Girls will tell you that they hate attention but without it they start questioning if they are still attractive. It's so easy to break down if you want most women, they get dolled up looking their best and don't give them a compliment it burns. Like that model I messed with in vancouver, she's tall like 5'9. I made fun of her height the whole time I was down there, till this day it's one thing that bothered her, it made her feel so insecure for the first time in life about her height :heh:
 

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yup, but to much simps though.

Many dudes don't realize it as well, i've talked to many beautiful women in my life and many are insecure and think they are "fat, ugly', worthless, going through depression, hate thier boobs, ass" etc. yet dudes continue to simp and just pump up their ego. Girls will tell you that they hate attention but without it they start questioning if they are still attractive. It's so easy to break down if you want most women, they get dolled up looking their best and don't give them a compliment it burns. Like that model I messed with in vancouver, she's tall like 5'9. I made fun of her height the whole time I was down there, till this day it's one thing that bothered her, it made her feel so insecure for the first time in life about her height :heh:
every single thing they do is for attn. they crave it whether they know it or not.

cleavage.
make up.
high heels.
tight clothes and booty shorts
selfies

etc etc

from a logical standpoint...and as a psych minor you realize it is subconsciously to get attn whether they know it or not. Men are guilty at times too...i even catch myself doing things subconsciously at times just cause i'm so into with my psyche now and have always been introspective.
 

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Quebec sucks for me Tinder wise >_>
Im trying it in NY with my jailbroken iPhone and im getting matches left and right and im tryna set sumthin up with a chick for next weekend since ill be going in NY this thursday.

Man I need to move out of here asap :pacspit:
 

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Quebec sucks for me Tinder wise >_>
Im trying it in NY with my jailbroken iPhone and im getting matches left and right and im tryna set sumthin up with a chick for next weekend since ill be going in NY this thursday.

Man I need to move out of here asap :pacspit:

its just like real estate, location location location


when i had my tinder set up in crummy ass toronto, id get like 2 a day and ish, id put myself in like hamilton, niagara falls and id get like 30 a day.

I went overseas :ohlawd:,

i went to vancouver, no lie i got like 300 matches in two days (i was swiping everything) - thats how i found the model in vancouver.
 

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Anybody ever felt like they were spending too much time with their gf/bf in a relationship? I've read a few articles suggesting that couples who spend time apart have better relationships than couples who spend every possible minute of free time together.

I had this issue in a previous relationship and when I suggested that we spend less time together, she lost her mind. I only suggested spending 2 or 3 days apart per week (at this point we were spending every day/night together outside of work) but she was too insecure to handle it so we broke up.
 

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Down here in Louisiana visiting my grandmother and other fam and decided to see how the women were here compared to the Texan chicks. Changed my okcupid location and tinder to here....:ohhh:

Met this cool chick and scheduled a coffee date within a couple of hours. We spent like 4hrs talking. :banderas:

No tatts, natural hair, slim, career oriented and solid relationship with father. Passport full of stamps and a gym junkie. She came and picked me up in the Audi coup...Let me drive it.

She told me up front she doesn't talk to exes and expects the same from her s/o. Literally passed all of the wife type standards. ONLY PROBLEM IS SHE IS IN THE MILITARY....seen too many promiscuous ones. Her father was a army chaplain and mom is a math professor.

Idk....:to:
 

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i dunno sometimes :snoop:

you think youve made good progress with a girl, had a good phone convo and the signs seem good. But then zipppp. Flatline and the girl is ignoring.u
I dont care how much you claim to be a bad texter. You cant be ignoring brehs :(.

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you were a guy she had lined up in case things didn't work out with the dude she really wanted. that's why i don't chase after woman, the ones who are feeling you will chase after you.
 

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women are everywhere just do what you want to do and they will be there, thers no set area where to find women.

I've mentioned before I found a chick at 530am in the morning at a bus stop
did you approach her?i have difficulty approaching women cold just the fear of being hit with the soul burning "do i know you?" :what: i've seen that shyt happen and it aint nice.
 
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