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Patrice was so ahead of his time. He is one of those uncredited geniuses that is not truly appreciated until he is passed. I have said this time and time again ....but brehs in this thread 
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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@Fatboi1 Your situation sounds similar to what I went through. Whenever you're nervous like that around an ex , it's time to let it go because any feeling of closeness is gone. Me and my ex started in 99 and broke up in 05, it took me until '11 to finally say we can't be friends anymore because it always gets me in my feelings.
Guess it was different with me and my ex. She called me in which has been 6 months...she hasn't really progressed since we split. Could hear the subtle clues of regret and after that convo brought back the things that i didn't like about her. Praise Allah I dodged a bullet. 
That minute longing for her ceased.
Three weeks later and I meet someone better and it's all good but I'm moving soon.
That minute longing for her ceased.Three weeks later and I meet someone better and it's all good but I'm moving soon.
Yeah man I was actually going to quote your post a couple pages back because of it.
After I cut ol girl off I had another ex I had to do it to, but we still tell each other Happy Birthday.
I meant to tell her that this morning but shorty is an emotional wreck right now. Yesterday was her b day and she's been sad all day and last night was sobbing and shyt. This morning I go see her to tell her stuff and she's still tearing up and shyt just laying in bed. She went out to eat with some dude and when they came back, a few hours later when the guy leaving she's just crying and crying. Dude stayed for like an extra hour or so just trying to console her and she just was on some
shyt the entire time. She told me she been sad and going out to eat and the movies did nothing as she was sad the entire time blah blah. I'm not gonna lie that shyt was draining a bit.
Don't tell her now, but don't be the shoulder to cry on, or later on you're going to be crying with no shoulder around.
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A Pound & A Prayer
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Lock your door tonight.
I wasn't mean or anything. I just told her in a pretty laid back manner that I feel like I still have feelings and that's pretty much why I'm still talking to her but that's just me telling her that to get a load off my chest but not for empathy or reciprocation. She didn't say nothing as she was in a slump sobbing and teary eyed and shyt so after a few minutes of me telling her to get better and just be well, I gave her a hug while she just held me crying and shyt.
I left cuz that shyt was too draining.
When she feeling herself again, she'll probably go back to being on that
"What was that shyt u was saying??".
EA
A Pound & A Prayer
I wasn't mean or anything. I just told her in a pretty laid back manner that I feel like I still have feelings and that's pretty much why I'm still talking to her but that's just me telling her that to get a load off my chest but not for empathy or reciprocation. She didn't say nothing as she was in a slump sobbing and teary eyed and shyt so after a few minutes of me telling her to get better and just be well, I gave her a hug while she just held me crying and shyt.
I left cuz that shyt was too draining.
When she feeling herself again, she'll probably go back to being on that
Oh, ok. At least you weren't disrespectful or cold towards her. Just from my experience with dealing with a girl who regularly got into slumps, I'd expect that she's gonna look towards you as a shoulder to lean on/emotional pillar whilst she's feeling down, especially now that she knows that you still feel a certain way about her. Just keep your guard up and don't let her drain you too much because it's gonna sting even more when she bounces back and doesn't want anything to do with you.
This is the first time I've ever seen her like this though. She's not going to call me or come to my room on some slump shyt crying. I pretty much will let her be from now on I just wanted to get that out there. That time giving her that arm support could be spent putting my bid in with other wimmin.
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Reincar said a great quote "women wanna be at end of the assembly line not beginning".This is true folks.If a man was struggling and had a roach infested apartment in 2014 he would be clowned and laughed at.A woman in 2014 would fail to understand that one day that apartment could be a mansion in which they can have a happy,healty long marriage as with the case with Reincar folks.I read a story about a man who took his bicycle to a restaurant to meet a woman,she threw him in the bushes (no pun) because he rode a bike.At end of story come to find out he was a successful CEO who loved cycling.What I'm trying to say is let women have their fun now because when we all get our success we will be one to be picky
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Never be friends with exes.I can see being cordial if it's your child's mom but NEVER be friends with exes.After all jobs don't stay in contact with employees they fire 