I understand the mind-fukk of it all. Keep in mind the minute you introduced weight training you are forcing your body into a different reaction then cardio based exercise. It's newbie gains and I would ride it until the wheels fall off.No bullshyt, I try and usually succeed in staying at around 2000 a day (I count most what I eat, and what I can't count, I add up the cals of ingredients). The only day that I kinda relax is Saturday. That's usually when I hang out with peeps or chill with my lady. And even on those days, I'm pretty vigilant about what I consume. Still no soda or sweets or anything.
And yeah, that's what my homie who has his PT certs says. I can't help but admit it fukks with my psyche though when the number goes up and I'm borderline obsessive over this stuff, ya know?