SPIN: How many sexless dates before you move on

[KidJSoul]

If I really like and am attracted to the guy I usually wait to build an emotional connection first. What do you mean by split or take initiative?

Split the dinner bill, ask out the guy/set up the date and restaurant

Some guys are fine with that

But personally, if I still have to pay the bill, set up the restaurant.... and it's been multiple dates with no sex... then how am I not being used?

It's easy to "build an emotional connection" when some dude is depending money and you're not. And if the connection isn't there? You just got at least 3 free dinner dates. You gained from the transaction, while I'm losing money being strung along. Plus, some chicks do this while fukking other dudes on the side on some "we're not official" time

Im not accusing you of doing this and hey if that'd what you want then do what you want, (because some dudes don't mind) but I ain't gonna play that game personally

 

[KingFreeman]

3 max. Thought that was the general consensus

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I'm too old to have sex as any kind of milestone in my dealings with a woman.

It happens if and when it happens.

 

[JQ Legend]

Depends on the girl
If she wifey material then the faster she sleeps with you the further from being wifey material she is....

It's a judgement call, varying with every girl

This makes absolutely no sense

Just because a woman made you wait a month don’t mean she ain’t ever give it up right away, she just wasn’t as attracted to u as the dude she gave it up right away to

Either that or she got a long history of giving it up right away and working on projecting a different image of herself to dudes who don’t know her that well

For me, 2 dates max and even that’s pushing it

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

This makes absolutely no sense

Just because a woman made you wait a month don’t mean she ain’t ever give it up right away, she just wasn’t as attracted to u as the dude she gave it up right away to

Either that or she got a long history of giving it up right away and working on projecting a different image of herself to dudes who don’t know her that well

For me, 2 dates max and even that’s pushing it

I can find all of that out on the same day just by conversation.
And i don't mean because she'll admit it all.
A smart man can tell everything about a woman in one sitting.

 

[Ahadi]

Split the dinner bill, ask out the guy/set up the date and restaurant

Some guys are fine with that

But personally, if I still have to pay the bill, set up the restaurant.... and it's been multiple dates with no sex... then how am I not being used?

It's easy to "build an emotional connection" when some dude is depending money and you're not. And if the connection isn't there? You just got at least 3 free dinner dates. You gained from the transaction, while I'm losing money being strung along. Plus, some chicks do this while fukking other dudes on the side on some "we're not official" time

Im not accusing you of doing this and hey if that'd what you want then do what you want, (because some dudes don't mind) but I ain't gonna play that game personally

Some women play stupid on purpose lol. They know exactly the issue.

“HoW iS hE bEiNg UsEd? TaKe InItiAtIvE?

But when it comes to work, or figuring out financials for girls trips their minds work perfectly

 

[JQ Legend]

I can find all of that out on the same day just by conversation.
And i don't mean because she'll admit it all.
A smart man can tell everything about a woman in one sitting.

Breh you need to change your stance

 

[Software]

3 or 4

 

[King Jove]

If sex isn't on the table after the 2nd date then it's a waste of time.

 

[JQ Legend]

lol no and I wouldn’t take a guy seriously if he wanted me to pay. I don’t mind spending money once I’m your woman.

How many times have you gone out with a man who spent money on you only to not ever see you again?

 

[Jerz]

If she don't fukk the first night- she can't be considered for a meaningful relationship. The 2nd date is still eligible to be a fukk buddy. Any later than that I'm turned off - and don't really want the p*ssy anymore. It's important to fukk me the 1st night - if u want me to have interests

 

[Crude]

When I was single, a potential prospect had about 2-3 dates/hangouts max before I started entertaining my other options for her position.

A lot of ladies play those games of wanting to make you wait while Tyrone and them were blowing their back out the first night.

Play them games with the lames, because I’m not the one.

 

[JQ Legend]

If she don't fukk the first night- she can't be considered for a meaningful relationship. The 2nd date is still eligible to be a fukk buddy. Any later than that I'm turned off - and don't really want the p*ssy anymore. It's important to fukk me the 1st night - if u want me to have interests

Lotta women don’t realize not giving it up right away can actually make a man not wanna wife her up.

Some dudes are gullible and think if she made him wait she make everyone wait but dudes with sense/self respect know she wouldn’t be making him wait if she feeling him like that. He gets offended by that so he either cut his losses early or stick around just long enough to get the p*ssy and

 

[mrfortune]

3

 

[DonRe]

4-5.


My longest was like 7. I told shorty she fukkin buggin and cut her off.

after i had kids and was in a committed relationship she was throwing the p*ssy at me.

she had me fukked up.