Winter is Coming

[thirdeye]

Stop it. Any man can be abusive, y'all just assume because a dude is unsuspecting and a so-called good guy he won't abuse his woman. Gtfo with that nonsense.

I don't think they realize how reckless and dangerous that is.

 

[Elle Driver]

I never said that they can't be.

I said that they are less likely to be abusive.

Itamlike you guys don't even read my a posts lol.

Least likely according to.......?

So a "thug" (which I'm disgusted y'all even use that word) is more capable of being abusive based on what? First of all, this pathology within our own communities that somehow there are good and black men is ridiculous and needs to stop. What makes a man a good guy, because he has a "good" job and was able to escape the system and go to college and didn't caught up with drugs? Why are black nerds better exactly, since you clearly advocate so strongly for them?

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

are you implying women should support men financially?

No way!
In the Quran Allah tells us about men spending on their wives.
Quran 3:34
Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allâh has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient (to Allâh and to their husbands), and guard in the husband's absence what Allâh orders them to guard (e.g. their chastity, their husband's property, etc.). As to those women on whose part you see illconduct, admonish them (first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly, if it is useful), but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allâh is Ever Most High, Most Great.

 

[Maddmike]

I wouldn't want to go back and forth either when I'm wrong as shyt don't have to lie about the reason nikka them smilies can't save you . Oh yeah no shyt I got it. I been had it

Ok

 

[Nemesis]

A nikka with money is no prize imo

Focus on earning and investing your own money brehettes financial freedom is priceless

Always insist to pay for your portion of all dates, activities or bills.

Always keep your finances seperate, never talk about how much you make, always have emergency money.

Don't plot on which nikka looks like he's balling....it's a set up go prepare for a meeting or get a cert or some shyt. His money not your money and your money the only money that counts

agree ...... although If you only offer to pay your portion for dates/activities your'e more or less a scrub...

 

[Blackout]

Least likely according to.......?

So a "thug" (which I'm disgusted y'all even use that word) is more capable of being abusive based on what? First of all, this pathology within our own communities that somehow there are good and black men is ridiculous and needs to stop. What makes a man a good guy, because he has a "good" job and was able to escape the system and go to college and didn't caught up with drugs? Why are black nerds better exactly, since you clearly advocate so strongly for them?

I didn't use the word thug. I said hood dude and street dude.

It's based on the common behaviors that surrounds being a hood dude. That type of lifestyle doesn't promote treating women like anything but just chicks you fukk and run. Then you have the chicks who like them and promote their behavior which makes them less likely to change and accept that behavior as the norm.

Nerdy dudes on the other hand have common behaviors that have other people calling them simps and has them getting used and abused by gold diggers and such.

I advocate strongly for them because out of all the type of men I saw go with women they provided the most benefits to women.

 

[thirdeye]

It's based on the common behaviors that surrounds being a hood dude. That type of lifestyle doesn't promote treating women like anything but just chicks you fukk and run. Then you have the chicks who like them and promote their behavior which makes them less likely to change and accept that behavior as the norm.

wow, i thought you were smarter than this breh.

 

[Elle Driver]

I didn't use the word thug. I said hood dude and street dude.

It's based on the common behaviors that surrounds being a hood dude. That type of lifestyle doesn't promote treating women like anything but just chicks you fukk and run. Then you have the chicks who like them and promote their behavior which makes them less likely to change and accept that behavior as the norm.

Nerdy dudes on the other hand have common behaviors that have other people calling them simps and has them getting used and abused by gold diggers and such.

I advocate strongly for them because out of all the type of men I saw go with women they provided the most benefits to women.

What does all of that have to do with them being less likely to be abusive?

 

[Blackout]

What does all of that have to do with them being less likely to be abusive?

Where do they call abusive men simps? Where are these abusive men that gold diggers and users are using?

 

[Blackout]

wow, i thought you were smarter than this breh.

We got hood rappers and hood dudes calling all women bytches and hos and you got young boys who look up to them calling all women bytches and hos too.

 

[MoonGoddess]

I don't think they realize how reckless and dangerous that is.

Whats funny is you never really hear them talk about the woman that got abused unless they are blaming her for what happened. These guy cry day in and day out about women taking accountability but will find every excuse in the book to take the blame off of theirselves. I think alot of them know deep down inside that its wrong but they are so ashamed that they find any reason to not feel bad. Like how hard is it to agree that men should keep their hands to theirselves unless they feel threatened? These men have firmly removed any feeling of empathy or compassion that they have for black women. They cannot fathom that this could easily be a close relative or a friend. Some of these guys actually take pride and show happiness when a female is harmed. They feel vindicated, that female didnt choose someone like them therefore she deserves every bad thing that happens to her.
Oh and when its a supposedly nice guy that does this shyt well you know black women are crazy and probably provoked him into beating her into a bloody pulp. It is a truly sad thing.
And im not saying that some women dont need to choose better but you better believe not all domestic violence cases happens to women that choose so called thugs.

A man will beat yo ass whether he has on a wife beater and durag, or loafers and dress pants. Its up to us to keep ourselves protected and to pay attention to warming signs that might give us a clue into the type of person we are with before it gets to late. But a man (or woman) can snap at anytime and not everyone has that second chance to run before it turns too serious.

 

[JBoy]

whine about white supremacy and than believe in stereotypes you learned from White Supremacy on fellow Blacks brehs

 

[Elle Driver]

Where do they call abusive men simps? Where are these abusive men that gold diggers and users are using?

I don't understand why you just can't answer my question. You said "black nerds" are less likely to be abusive, so how sway?

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Must be talking to the people who aren't married, so I'll just leave this thread and let y'all cook.

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[Supercoolmayo]

take this to the salon