If You Don't Want Me, Why Can't I Holla At Ya Friend?

[gogogubari]

lets say it's a week later

he tried with you. failed

a week later he tries with your friend, not even knowing you cool... she likes him


do you say something to her about that or let them live?

If my friend was with me when he tried to pursue me, then she wouldnt take the bait anyway. My team is pretty solid.

If neither of them knew, then I can't have a problem, and I would only mention it to my friend IF we actually dated, not just him trying get my number or some little flirting crap that doesn't go anywhere.

 

[Rawtid]

Ok say you're starving and broke and you really want chicken but all you have is tuna, so tuna is just going to have to be good enough. Ain't no chick trying to knowingly be tuna. There is no security in that.

 

[Reginald Noble]

Stop arguing with Women it's fruitless

Just say fukk it and on to the next

 

[Citi Trends]

Women can be just as possessive as men except women are possessive over nikkas they don't even want.

It's why they go out together and block each other from getting a man.


Most of the women in here aren't even answering the question and flipping it to some other shyt. I can understand if the 2nd girl feels some kind of way but you as the person who told dude to beat it have no right to feel like he and your friend shouldn't hit it off, let that be her decision.

 

[Action Mike]

Simple she's an idiot.

 yup

No logical conclusion in this

 

[BruhMayne]

If a guy overlooked me to holla at my friend and she turned him down so then he decided to try his luck with me? Yeah that's not happening, lol.

Yea you completely misinterpreted the OP but ima need you and @Geoffrey_Chaucer to drop the sources for these avis yall stay having

 

[Rozay Oro]

Yea you completely misinterpreted the OP but ima need you and @Geoffrey_Chaucer to drop the sources for these avis yall stay having

Lol this tho @Geoffrey_Chaucer

 

[Yo Mama]

Lol. It could work but then the friend would always wonder if you secretly want the friend who rejected you or not.

I you clicked with the friend go for it I guess. but its best to walk away.

 

[Jasmine20]

Because she knows you're full of shyt. She knows you're only hollering at her friend because she doesn't want you. It makes you look thirsty. And if she was to throw you a bone while you were with her friend then you will most likely take it.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

Why is it that when a woman rejects a man, and he turns around and tries to holla at her friend it's a problem? The woman doesn't want the man, and it's not like they have history, had sex, dated etc.

If I told a chick I wasn't interested and she tried to holla at my friend I'd tell him "Cool breh, do you".

Like real talk, if you said you had a man, then I turned to your single girl friend you'd probably not have a problem with it. This hasn't happened to me, but I'm just saying.

And why is it women want a man to do all the work and chase them even after they've curved him? Like you shoot your shot with a chick and for some reason she wasn't feeling you, but later on she changes her mind. But she waiting for you to make a move, and does some passive aggressive shyt like stare at you or add you on social media

And y'all say things like "If it was meant to be then we would be together" but you just curved dude, and he got tired of sitting around waiting on you.

cuz they think they special

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

if you got to speak to the friend too, sounds like you were going for broke to begin with. try again next time.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Because she knows you're full of shyt. She knows you're only hollering at her friend because she doesn't want you. It makes you look thirsty. And if she was to throw you a bone while you were with her friend then you will most likely take it.

So you're saying you are trying to be a good friend by cock blocking that dude after you don't want him?

We trying to get to the bottom logic cause this usually don't happen with men. At all

 

[Voice of Reason]

point im trying to make is if your approach was genuine, would you not have holla'd at her first? you settled for the friend and that's how issues start.


You wanted me first, got rejected then turned to my friend. Why not some other girl who has no clue that I rejected you? Situations like this never end peachy. You'll always have friend 2 thinking "he wanted her first".
I've been friend 1 and friend 2, it's just stupid to me

He just probably just wanted some p*ssy


Don't take it personally

 

[Reno89]

If she was really her friend, she wouldn't even have to say anything.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Yea you completely misinterpreted the OP but ima need you and @Geoffrey_Chaucer to drop the sources for these avis yall stay having

Lol this tho @Geoffrey_Chaucer

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