Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

Gotta stop thinking so hard with these women.9 times out of 10 they know what they are doing.If a woman doesnt respect you she doesnt Like your or in some cases love you.Beware of the cupcake season women,they will be obedient during Nov-March but once warm weather in April comes around they will ditch.

ya thats where lies the problem cuz they know what they are doing that they can appeal too ur needs for a few months then BAM SWITCH THAT shyt UP AND U BE LIKE and then be like then be like then be like some well i been with her for awhile i might as well deal with it or stay with her aka which i think is dumb ass shyt

 

[Rocket Scientist]

most women like to test you to see what they can get away with. its part them being out on a pedestal for most of their lives/part gut check on their man. they feel like, if they can walk over you, then anyone else can too. it just is what it is - and you have to not be surprised when a women does that, no matter where she comes from or what kind of background she has. I think its hardwired in them to see if who theyre with will put up with bullshyt or not

See maybe its me but that testing stuff is for the birds.Thats like going to the ZOO and testing a Lion. Makes no sense.Im sayin she got to be willin to follow.If I have to check her like a kid,its a waste of time

 

[Rocket Scientist]

ya thats where lies the problem cuz they know what they are doing that they can appeal too ur needs for a few months then BAM SWITCH THAT shyt UP AND U BE LIKE and then be like then be like then be like some well i been with her for awhile i might as well deal with it or stay with her aka which i think is dumb ass shyt

Always be ready to cut ties with your woman.Nothing lasts forever.Even in a marriage,you better have some guap in case stuff doesnt work out. People change like the weather these days.

 

[twan83]

Always be ready to cut ties with your woman.Nothing lasts forever.Even in a marriage,you better have some guap in case stuff doesnt work out. People change like the weather these days.

I stayed prepared for that shyt
now how fukked up it ends well u can't never prepare for that though

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I stayed prepared for that shyt
now how fukked up it ends well u can't never prepare for that though

Cant give anybody 100% of anything.Give her your hopes and all your dreams if you want and it will come back to haunt you Everybody wants love but Unconditional Love now thats the key.Your lady gotta stick it out thru the rough times.I always said alot of these women are there for what they can get from you (money,sex,attention).

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Marriage doesnt make it better either.Its good to love somebody tho and if you feel its right to get married do it.Dont think problems will go away. Its like winning a game,winning mask the weaknesses.Your woman will always have a flaw somewhere.Its just what you can deal with.Emotional baggage,insecurity,aggravation,annoyance,she may even be a bad spender nobody is perfect you just got to know what you can deal with.

 

[twan83]

Cant give anybody 100% of anything.Give her your hopes and all your dreams if you want and it will come back to haunt you Everybody wants love but Unconditional Love now thats the key.Your lady gotta stick it out thru the rough times.I always said alot of these women are there for what they can get from you (money,sex,attention).

c/s trust i know this and quick too make u quick rocks if u aint shyt too

 

[Medio]

haven't visited this thread to talk to a minute but,

i was dating this girl for a couple months then she broke it off with me cause 'it wasn't there anymore' and suggested to be friends. i learned enough to know that i wasn't going to be just friends with her but i would still go talk to her in school and shyt and linger until she was like 'okay i have things to do', that was last semester. and i also tried to ask her go out again and she said no. during this time i also met this other girl and was dating her.

fast forward to this semester, when I would run into her I would just say hey or w/e really quick and keep it moving, this time I did NOT linger, I had places to go. as a result from this she would text first, vying to get my attention I guess. one time I walked by her and she said something like wow you're talking fast. just shyt like this. so the other day I was talking to this other girl in the hallway and I know for a fact she saw me. she texted me like 30 minutes later asking some random shyt again.

point is, I'm gonna ask if she wants to go out, like ice skating or some shyt. and if she says no then i'm not even going to talk to her again. don't be talking to me and texting me shyt if you don't want to hang out with me (i will tell her this but not that rude since she is a genuine nice girl). does this sound like a good route to yall that I'm gonna take.

 

[Turbulent]

haven't visited this thread to talk to a minute but,

i was dating this girl for a couple months then she broke it off with me cause 'it wasn't there anymore' and suggested to be friends. i learned enough to know that i wasn't going to be just friends with her but i would still go talk to her in school and shyt and linger until she was like 'okay i have things to do', that was last semester. and i also tried to ask her go out again and she said no. during this time i also met this other girl and was dating her.

fast forward to this semester, when I would run into her I would just say hey or w/e really quick and keep it moving, this time I did NOT linger, I had places to go. as a result from this she would text first, vying to get my attention I guess. one time I walked by her and she said something like wow you're talking fast. just shyt like this. so the other day I was talking to this other girl in the hallway and I know for a fact she saw me. she texted me like 30 minutes later asking some random shyt again.

point is, I'm gonna ask if she wants to go out, like ice skating or some shyt. and if she says no then i'm not even going to talk to her again. don't be talking to me and texting me shyt if you don't want to hang out with me (i will tell her this but not that rude since she is a genuine nice girl). does this sound like a good route to yall that I'm gonna take.

some advice breh. don't ask her out again. let the seed grow in her mind. She's already starting to come your way. All she wants is to secure your attention. Once you give it to her, she'll be right back to being difficult. Stop seeking from her. Do your own thing and stop worrying about her. Not that it should even matter to you but you actually become more attractive to her when you stopped seeking so much from her. But don't start faking it.


EDIT: And i don't mean not giving her attention at all. But don't give it to her on a silver platter without her giving you what you want.

 

[Turbulent]

Double Post

 

[Medio]

some advice breh. don't ask her out again. let the seed grow in her mind. She's already starting to come your way. All she wants is to secure your attention. Once you give it to her, she'll be right back to being difficult. Stop seeking from her. Do your own thing and stop worrying about her. Not that it should even matter to you but you actually become more attractive to her when you stopped seeking so much from her. But don't start faking it.


EDIT: And i don't mean not giving her attention at all. But don't give it to her on a silver platter without her giving you what you want.

Yea, like I wasn't doing this as an act, it was really how I felt, I'm not going to linger and talk to you, text you because as far as im concerned we don't have shyt to talk about anymore

but, so you want me to keep doing this shyt until she caves in or some shyt because what's the whole point of this little riff raff? or is it okay if this keeps going on forever, which I'd rather it not. this part I don't get if you get what i'm saying.

 

[Medio]

some advice breh. don't ask her out again. let the seed grow in her mind.


EDIT: And i don't mean not giving her attention at all. But don't give it to her on a silver platter without her giving you what you want.

understood but this part sounds a little contradicting to what you first said .. what I want is to go out with her. and my silver platter is my attention to her. so if she agrees I can give some more of the platter?

 

[Turbulent]

Yea, like I wasn't doing this as an act, it was really how I felt, I'm not going to linger and talk to you, text you because as far as im concerned we don't have shyt to talk about anymore

but, so you want me to keep doing this shyt until she caves in or some shyt because what's the whole point of this little riff raff? or is it okay if this keeps going on forever, which I'd rather it not. this part I don't get if you get what i'm saying.

If you don't want her to keep pestering you, ask her why she's acting different. ask her what she wants from you exactly? Or tell her to stop pestering you.

understood but this part sounds a little contradicting to what you first said .. what I want is to go out with her. and my silver platter is my attention to her. so if she agrees I can give some more of the platter?

yeah. but you know what though, you should do it how you feel it. I have my own opinions on how to get the chick but two things: i don't know this particular woman. and second, I'm somewhat "passive" when it comes to getting chicks. It's just my style. Don't know if you listened to the black phillip show but if you did, remember the bear, deer, bunny analogy. I'm basically a fisherman, lol. you need to use what works for you.

 

[CASHAPP]

@Turbulent again at this Pathmark Cashier Job....

The female(and male but mostly female as always) customers just keep checking me....something has to change

Just tonight a lady and her daughter was my next customer in line but I was finishing up with the customer before and one of the coupons was not scanning...

Either the daughter or the mother who were next in line said "Can we get another cashier" just with a matter a fact tone with a smirk on their face and i didn't see which one said it....

Completed their order after they gave me the phone number

The father(or whatever relation he is to them) did a separate order but once again he pissed me off because you can tell that he is the type to condone this behavior and lets them disrespect people like that in public...

from getting an attitude when i asked them to repeat the phone number to put in the savings(they used the same number for the father's separate order) to not even saying Thank you after i gave the receipt,etc...

Whoever that man was is definitely an enabler of their behavior and I'm fed up with men like that, cannot even give a hint about how they are sorry for their daughter/wife's behavior....

But back to me for a second......Turbulent something has to change....maybe its my glasses but I get the feeling these women are subconsciously disrespecting me with "Glee" and enjoyment.

any advice on what to do? the whole "deal with customers" cannot go on with me ....its been going on with one of my female Pathmark bosses also....

 

[Turbulent]

@Turbulent again at this Pathmark Cashier Job....

The female(and male but mostly female as always) customers just keep checking me....something has to change

Just tonight a lady and her daughter was my next customer in line but I was finishing up with the customer before and one of the coupons was not scanning...

Either the daughter or the mother who were next in line said "Can we get another cashier" just with a matter a fact tone with a smirk on their face and i didn't see which one said it....

Completed their order after they gave me the phone number

The father(or whatever relation he is to them) did a separate order but once again he pissed me off because you can tell that he is the type to condone this behavior and lets them disrespect people like that in public...

from getting an attitude when i asked them to repeat the phone number to put in the savings(they used the same number for the father's separate order) to not even saying Thank you after i gave the receipt,etc...

Whoever that man was is definitely an enabler of their behavior and I'm fed up with men like that, cannot even give a hint about how they are sorry for their daughter/wife's behavior....

But back to me for a second......Turbulent something has to change....maybe its my glasses but I get the feeling these women are subconsciously disrespecting me with "Glee" and enjoyment.

any advice on what to do? the whole "deal with customers" cannot go on with me ....its been going on with one of my female Pathmark bosses also....

hard to say but one thing i know. Anything that deals with customer service, it kinda comes with the territory. Only thing you can control is your own actions. One questions though. Outside of your job, are you happy? The reason i ask is that you may be giving off a bad vibe. People like to have power over you. If they see you being miserable, people will react differently. Some will view it as an opportunity to bully someone who's already down. Some will look at you with disdain and try to finish with you as fast as possible. Some will use passive aggressiveness to see if they can get you even more miserable, etc. This is people in general but you may notice it even more in women because they are used to reading and communicating in "vibes". Women are taught all their lives to get approbation, to be a lady, etc. They are brought up to deal in the "indirect" and perceptions. That's why they are very sensitive to vibes.And yeah, some of them are a$$holes.

The solution is to figure out a way to be happy and to not give them the power to affect that happiness. As i always say, it's something you can't fake. And it has to be for you, not just so they can stop being bytches. Happiness is a choice. Be happy at your job and outside of it. Plan your happiness strategically. Don't leave it up to chance. Don't let it depend on if you get a cool customer or not. See there is no way to make sure you don't get any jerks at your station. All you can do is control the vibe you give off. This will in turn reduce the odds of people trying to mess with your mindstate. Don't focus on the bytch, her mother, the weak father, your boss, etc. Chances are they are passive aggressive with you because they are cowards and because they see it affects you. Makes them feel powerful.