Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[61 Corpses]

@C.Holla has been a valuable poster ever since the days...so i'm just going to agree with his opinion on this brehs

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Scary thing is that is true...back to my situation.....lets say if your new at a Cashier job(im cool now but lets say a month ago when i was new and they don't teach you anything) if your struggling and lets say your register line is full......lets say there is another register open right next to you with only 2 people on it...the women will still go on your line because they get a thrill out of it...even if they sound/seem angry ....its strange as hell....just like you said like sharks they love it man

their day could be going bad so they try to go into a chaotic situation to get entertained subconsciously while feigning that they are "angry"

Trust me I use to know about cash registers etc... Seriously,Your situation is confusin man (no disrespect).I cant figure it out.Maybe these women like you.Thats only logical thing I can think.Women just love drama.They want to be entertained in any and every situation.If they sense you have no confidence well they are going to exploit your weakness,but on the other hand you could be overthinking.I dont know go with your gut.

 

[T-K-G]

This guy^ you just coming into the convo and really overthinking.Re-read again. Im just saying in general bruh

nikka im just wondering why you're asking someone to talk about something you obviously already knew about based on the statements you said right after

 

[Rocket Scientist]

@C.Holla has been a valuable poster ever since the days...so i'm just going to agree with his opinion on this brehs

Thank you .Props.Everything I say comes from MY experiences,I dont epect everyone to agree,but I appreciate the love

 

[Rocket Scientist]

nikka im just wondering why you're asking someone to talk about something you obviously already knew about based on the statements you said right after

My last response to your ass Lets not de-reail this thread homeboy.I hope you re-read my post to Turbelent.Im asking Turbelent to explain because he was getting somewhere with that I had my reasons for asking man.Thats all im gonna say

 

[CASHAPP]

Trust me I use to know about cash registers etc... Seriously,Your situation is confusin man (no disrespect).I cant figure it out.Maybe these women like you.Thats only logical thing I can think.Women just love drama.They want to be entertained in any and every situation.If they sense you have no confidence well they are going to exploit your weakness,but on the other hand you could be overthinking.I dont know go with your gut.

no its the latter....i need to be more confident there and not show shyness

 

[Atlrocafella]

let a nice one slip away from me in the grocery store. I was in one line and she was in another, I was hoping that we would finish our transactions at the same time so I could bump Into her, but of course I would have the old lady in front me writing a check

Should of just said fukk it and came back for groceries later, "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take "

 

[LebronsHairline]

the words you use with your woman are very important. One thing i'd like to clarify when i speak of "checking your girl" when she's acting foul. I don't mean telling her what to do/not do. Matter of fact, you should never tell your chick "you're not allowed to _______." never directly try to restrain a chick from doing something. Respect her freedom at all times.

If you love your woman and want to keep her because of the love and support she provides, you must provide structure and consistency. how do you reconcile those two concepts (structure and freedom)?. By never telling her directly "you're not allowed to do this." but at the same time she should always know what to expect if she disrespects. She should be aware of the possibility that she may get thrown in the bushes if she doesn't respect your boundaries. Throwing her in the bushes for not respecting your boundaries is not disrespectful. Telling her she is not allowed to do XYZ is disrespectful. As long as she knows where you stand and as long as you are consistent with the consequences she is expecting, you should be ok. You should only give her orders if she hands over the control to you willingly. Only then should you allow or forbid her of doing stuff. the minute you feel resistance you need to fall back and let her step out of your cypher. We don't hold prisoners.

If you truly love your woman, have the decency to make it clear to her what is disrespect and what are the consequences for it without telling her what she is not allowed to do. All that allowing/forbidding shyt is all ego when you think about it. Check yourself and your language when you speak to your woman because if she loves you and submits to you, it will contribute to setting the guidlines on how she will lead her life as long as she is with you. Re-read the last sentence and realize how heavy this responsibility is. Again, if you love your woman, don't take this lightly. Your word is your bond. She's submitting to you because she believes it's in her best interest. If you want to build something solid with her, do not abuse the power but do not be scared of it either. You must use it when necessary or give it back...

my nikka

we should just post all the black phillip clips in this bytch just for good measure

most women like to test you to see what they can get away with. its part them being out on a pedestal for most of their lives/part gut check on their man. they feel like, if they can walk over you, then anyone else can too. it just is what it is - and you have to not be surprised when a women does that, no matter where she comes from or what kind of background she has. I think its hardwired in them to see if who theyre with will put up with bullshyt or not

your correct its hardwired in them to do that shyt. Only real way for them to tell if you the real nikka you say you are or if you just some fake mothafukka, i don't blame them cause its just something girls do, but i always make sure i check that shyt so she know what the deal is

 

[LebronsHairline]

let a nice one slip away from me in the grocery store. I was in one line and she was in another, I was hoping that we would finish our transactions at the same time so I could bump Into her, but of course I would have the old lady in front me writing a check

Should of just said fukk it and came back for groceries later, "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take "

Not saying you fukked up but honestly if that was the case i would have just eyed the shyt out of her until she turned to look at me and just wave her over

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

let a nice one slip away from me in the grocery store. I was in one line and she was in another, I was hoping that we would finish our transactions at the same time so I could bump Into her, but of course I would have the old lady in front me writing a check

Should of just said fukk it and came back for groceries later, "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take "

Hey it happens

 

[Rocket Scientist]

no its the latter....i need to be more confident there and not show shyness

No reason to ever be shy.Think of it as a win-win.If she says Yes Great if NO "Forget her" and keep it moving.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

let a nice one slip away from me in the grocery store. I was in one line and she was in another, I was hoping that we would finish our transactions at the same time so I could bump Into her, but of course I would have the old lady in front me writing a check

Should of just said fukk it and came back for groceries later, "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take "

Think of it lke this.True greats always have a regret or "wsh I would" it just wasnt meant to be,think of it lke this.You were saved from her potential craziness.Every opportunity isnt golden

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Let me just say if it wasnt for this thread,alot of us would be in trouble or in dangerous situations. Although none of us are EXPERTS,alot of us help each other in different ways.So yes a Turbelent,Reincar,Kevm3,Sharp bring valuable knowledge. Think about it we all need help when it comes to women.Alot of brothas are afraid of askng for help,but we all need it,because women will put you thru alot if you let them and certain posters can help.People see your flaws before you ever do.Turbelent breaking down women's vibes&intuitions helps because reason why we struggle with women because they arent like us or think like us (just being real).A woman's mind seems like a chessboard in terms of relationships,being direct.It is what it is

 

[MikelArteta]

Think of it lke this.True greats always have a regret or "wsh I would" it just wasnt meant to be,think of it lke this.You were saved from her potential craziness.Every opportunity isnt golden

this is what i always say, just because a girl is beautiful doesn't mean you missed out on a opportunity.

I may have mentioned this before I went on two dates with this broad who had $$, looked decent no kids etc. but she never contacted me againa fter that second date, i googled and found her blog and she was battling depression and was on medication.

so while i was lamenting like oh crap I lost a good one , in reality she was battling depression had emotional problems and im lucky i got out of it

 

[Rocket Scientist]

this is what i always say, just because a girl is beautiful doesn't mean you missed out on a opportunity.

I may have mentioned this before I went on two dates with this broad who had $$, looked decent no kids etc. but she never contacted me againa fter that second date, i googled and found her blog and she was battling depression and was on medication.

so while i was lamenting like oh crap I lost a good one , in reality she was battling depression had emotional problems and im lucky i got out of it

This is why always said whats meant to be will be.I've had women literally ask me out but for some reason I cant explain I said "No" and these women looked great.Something in me just said "No" and come to find out,down road those women had issues,had boyfriends etc.. Its just lke in sports every basketball player thinks he can make every shot when in reality he can make about 50% (a good shooting season) of them.If a woman lose my # great,maybe she would have been annoying or cost me problems.Women come and women go.The most beautiful and smart even nerdy girls have most baggage.A pretty face is lke a Corvette.Beautiful to look at,alot of maintenance,up keeping and everybody wanting to touch it if you know what i mean.