Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Huellz Santana]

brehs... im a little sad. The honeymoon period is over with my new chick. I'm already planning an exit strategy

I've realized that I don't really feel like dealing with the emotions of a female, even though I like to have them in my life. I'm starting to really ponder a future without a wife and kids. The saddest part is that the new girl had so much potential.. and don't get me wrong, she's a great girl but not the one for me. Im starting to get worn out from finding out a chick's flaws months into the process. Even the finest girls with no visible red flags eventually make me lose interest. now i gotta deal with another heartbroken girl

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[Rocket Scientist]

Losing interest is normal.One thing you never wanna do is hurt feelings.Always be up front and honest.Lyin will get you in trouble.People grow apart and interests change.A young person under 30 shouldnt even be thinking relationship honestly I keep tellin you cats to adopt the Derek Jeter mentality.Dont feel lock down with anyone,be free

 

[DaRealness]

 

[OfTheCross]

brehs... im a little sad. The honeymoon period is over with my new chick. I'm already planning an exit strategy

I've realized that I don't really feel like dealing with the emotions of a female, even though I like to have them in my life. I'm starting to really ponder a future without a wife and kids. The saddest part is that the new girl had so much potential.. and don't get me wrong, she's a great girl but not the one for me. Im starting to get worn out from finding out a chick's flaws months into the process. Even the finest girls with no visible red flags eventually make me lose interest. now i gotta deal with another heartbroken girl

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Interesting...

What flaws have you discovered in this young lady that are deal-breakers for you?

 

[Turbulent]

 

[Turbulent]

my nikka

we should just post all the black phillip clips in this bytch just for good measure

Spoiler

feast brehs!

 

[BreezyH]

Brehs, we gotta talk about how a woman manages to be upset with you for being legitimately upset with them so demonic

 

[Turbulent]

Brehs, we gotta talk about how a woman manages to be upset with you for being legitimately upset with them so demonic

she's trying to flip the script on you, change the issue to take the focus away from her wrong doing. Don't even entertain her BS. don't fall for the trap. You need to keep control of the convo. If you see her try to use her emotions to destabalize you because her shifting the convo is not working, dismiss her. Do not give her any attention until she wants to talk about the real issue. No compromising, no buying the peace. No "quick make up to get some puss". No "let's just forget about this so that things stop being awkward between us". Let it stay awkward. You need to make her realize that awkwardness doesn't bother you at all and if it's start bothering you, you may want to think about replacing her. If your chick sees you buckle under awkwardness, you're giving her a new tool of manipulation to use against you.

See a chick will do whatever she thinks will work on you to get things in her favor. And that's normal. We all do it. What you need to do is set things up so that the only options she has that are in her advantage is to act right or fukk with someone else.

 

[BreezyH]

she's trying to flip the script on you, change the issue to take the focus away from her wrong doing. Don't even entertain her BS. don't fall for the trap. You need to keep control of the convo. If you see her try to use her emotions to destabalize you because her shifting the convo is not working, dismiss her. Do not give her any attention until she wants to talk about the real issue. No compromising, no buying the peace. No "quick make up to get some puss". No "let's just forget about this so that things stop being awkward between us". Let it stay awkward. You need to make her realize that awkwardness doesn't bother you at all and if it's start bothering you, you may want to think about replacing her. If your chick sees you buckle under awkwardness, you're giving her a new tool of manipulation to use against you.

See a chick will do whatever she thinks will work on you to get things in her favor. And that's normal. We all do it. What you need to do is set things up so that the only options she has that are in her advantage is to act right or fukk with someone else.

and that's why i don't get mad no more. acting in self-interest is in all of us, but women try to frame it like any other way isn't right. i'm just hitting these broads with the

 

[Flay Mayweather]

Brehs, we gotta talk about how a woman manages to be upset with you for being legitimately upset with them so demonic

That's one of the most aggravating things to go through.

I dislike women who are upset because you're upset, like damn bytch let me be mad in peace.

 

[kevm3]

Yep, that's pretty much standard procedure. She 'flipped the script. You point out something wrong and then she tries to flip it back around on you.

 

[Huellz Santana]

Interesting...

What flaws have you discovered in this young lady that are deal-breakers for you?

nothing too major but she's very complacent, semi-clingy, and like I have to tell her everything to do. i can't explain it but she has no initiative and it irks me at times. these aren't the biggest deals in the world but when im evaluating marriage i have to ask myself if I can deal with it for eternity​

 

[George Gooney]

Got a date tonight brehs ... 35 yr old caramel sistah with big curly hair(No kids ). Dinner, a drink(Maybe). Some physical contact and a kiss-close are the objectives. After that number deleted.

 

[Wild self]

but that is more real than you think.

 

[kevm3]

Life is so much more relaxing when you deal with women from the perspective of 'invitation-only' as compared to 'by any means necessary.' The former philosophy goes, "I'd love for you to be here, but if I'm not for you or you aren't adding to the peace in my life, then I wish you well in getting to where you need to be." The latter philosophy is along the lines of, "I need to have a woman in my life by any means necessary and I am willing to do anything to have her here, even if she adds drama to my life."