Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Your lucky my ex fiancé racked up my cc to almost 11k as one last f u when I broke up with her.

And lucky guess, I've messed with a few women from broken homes and always the same song and dance

You got it right. Her mom was in the same situation as her. Divorced with 2 kids and after a carousel of guys finally got someone to marry her. And the simp doesn't even have kids of his own.

Her mom HATED the fact she married young and especially HATED the fact that she couped at her basement after the divorce. So they always fought and i had to hear about that no one cares about her blah blah blah and how her life is so fukked up. Her mom treated her like shyt, so finally she had enough and moved out. I gave her my credit card so she buys some furniture for her kids.

She owes me a G. At first she told me the furniture would only cost $500 and she would pay me in 2 months, then this bytch uses me card as her own and buys herself clothes and perfume :wtf: and she didn't even ask me. She would be like oh i thought you would know cause you can see the history. I was like bytch why would i check history if you telling me you only need $500.

The thing is though, she didn't break it off with me, i broke up with over some stupid argument, but then i wanted her back. Which is the big mistake right there. I should have just kept it moving. Cause before when we broke up she would be the one crawling back to me.
 
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:camby:cancel what i said breh. that chick is using you.

like i said i'm gonna wait till after christmas. Give her the two weeks. If i don't see the payment on my card or on the phone bill she's :camby: for good. I'm still in the hopes that she will pay me back cause she said she would.
 
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@World War Z you need to stop being stubborn...

Just drop her COMPLETELY...that simple..no "gems" or specific advice is needed...just drop her...cut off all contact

i've cut contact. I just want to get my money back. I don't wanna pay an extra G for no reason. I'll threaten her with legal action if i have to. She's dumb as shyt so it might work.

Your lucky my ex fiancé racked up my cc to almost 11k as one last f u when I broke up with her.

And lucky guess, I've messed with a few women from broken homes and always the same song and dance

damn 11K that's harsh. But that was a fiance so i guess it's a little bit different cause there's that extra pressure of being together.

With this girl, i never wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. At first she was there for a quick fukk and she would buy me shyt ALL THE TIME. She would always make time for me, do things for me, cook, always give head at my command. Basically, stuff that you can't find these days. Or at least i don't know if can cause i've been with her for the past 2 years. I always thought that this would eventually end. Which is why i got attached and fell in love even though it wasn't my intention to. I just don't know why i'm so hung up on it. Like before we would break up, i wouldn't even care and bat an eye, which is why she would come crawling back. This time when i broke up, i felt it was my mistake so i wanted to make amends which is why i hit simp status.
 

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like i said i'm gonna wait till after christmas. Give her the two weeks. If i don't see the payment on my card or on the phone bill she's :camby: for good. I'm still in the hopes that she will pay me back cause she said she would.
give her a specifc date where the line has to be already transfered or be ready for her to give you the "well when you said two weeks i thought you meant i have two weeks to call you back and give you an answer on what we're gonna do..."
 

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lol she might be man. She is Portuguese so shes not really ratchet or American but she might be hiding messages .. or she could just be weird. Idk man she seems legit like she wouldnt hide messages from dudes..

cool, she ocd. you ever been to her crib? is it spotless. is she detail oriented? always on time? don't let her "ocd" only apply to her phone breh
 

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like i said i'm gonna wait till after christmas. Give her the two weeks. If i don't see the payment on my card or on the phone bill she's :camby: for good. I'm still in the hopes that she will pay me back cause she said she would.

You sure? :usure: Because I'm getting the feeling you're still looking for any excuse to have some form of contact with this chick. It's a bitter pill to swallow, but sometimes in order to move on you have to totally cut losses and let go. I know we're living in harsh times, but to me a thou is a small price to pay for my overall health and sanity.
 
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You sure? :usure: Because I'm getting the feeling you're still looking for any excuse to have some form of contact with this chick. It's a bitter pill to swallow, but sometimes in order to move on you have to totally cut losses and let go. I know we're living in harsh times, but to me a thou is a small price to pay for my overall health and sanity.

breh i've already deleted off of my phone .. i've deleted her on my social media, i've gotten rid of her pics on my computer, i've gotten rid of the stuff she gave me..only thing left are the obligations she owes me.

inside i do wish she gets in touch with me .. but i'm not gonna be the one making contact. i've already calculated my moves.. so that's how i'm gonna proceed. I do think she will get in touch with me sometime in the future. She's the type that if she got something in her mind, she'll express it.
 

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You sure? :usure: Because I'm getting the feeling you're still looking for any excuse to have some form of contact with this chick. It's a bitter pill to swallow, but sometimes in order to move on you have to totally cut losses and let go. I know we're living in harsh times, but to me a thou is a small price to pay for my overall health and sanity.

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Having issues in a small town, I really need to move. I can't do all that "random conversation" shyt in a small town. Plus the pickings are beyond slim. Just venting brehs, ignore this post.
 

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like i said i'm gonna wait till after christmas. Give her the two weeks. If i don't see the payment on my card or on the phone bill she's :camby: for good. I'm still in the hopes that she will pay me back cause she said she would.
She is NOT going to pay you back. She was just using you just to get some shyt for the house and herself. Just take the "L", pay off the bill so it doesn't affect your credit and move on. She may call you back in a couple months, saying that she fukked up or had to clear her head but it just bullshyt. She is fukking with another dude and when he kicks her to the curb, that is when she will contact you. Don't fall for the games. We all have been victims to it and we just want to let you know that she got what she need from you and is now moving on. Dating out here sucks but if you are self-reliant and strong mentally, you will be alright and one day you will find a chic that like you for you and that's it.
 

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Exactly. He will be wasting time trying to get that G back. She will come up with excuse after excuse and you'll have to go through all these hassles. Sometimes you just got to consider that as part of your losses and keep it pushing. If she needed to borrow a G, she likely won't pay it back.

Here's a tip. Avoid becoming too cool with most females because they will ask for favor after favor. There are only a few women that you can have a convo with that don't try to favor buddy you or turn into an emotional vampire on you. Most will try to favor stack on you, aka ask for something small and then build into something more and more.
 
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