Here's something corny... "If you go looking for it, you will find it." That's some trash. If there's nothing there, there won't be anything to find. These playettes aka hoes say that in order to justify their cheating and in an attempt to try to 'flip the script on you'. In other words they want to make you feel bad for busting them out.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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very interesting...my dude said some real shyt
the defense mechanisms
the tricks people try to use to get laid when really you just have to be likable
not being vindictive and realizing that you cant force em to be with you
etc
Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't. Doesn't mean I can't try. Besides sending a text is no hassel.
No way she'll have the audacity to contact me without paying me .. She knows me better than that. I would rip her a new one.. The fact that she's still dependent on me means I still have power over her. I'm gonna play it smooth and I'm gonna use the phone thing to my advantage. All I gotta do is call the phone company and get them to stop the line. She'll hit me up with the quickness
No way she'll have the audacity to contact me without paying me .. She knows me better than that. I would rip her a new one.. The fact that she's still dependent on me means I still have power over her. I'm gonna play it smooth and I'm gonna use the phone thing to my advantage. All I gotta do is call the phone company and get them to stop the line. She'll hit me up with the quickness
just cut the phone off stop worrying about her
i'll be patient .. i can't pay my card right now anyway so i'm fukked whether i wait or don't wait. At this point, i don't give a fukk. I've stopped worrying about her. I'm worrying myself and for the future. What's another 2 weeks gonna do? That's the time limit i've given myself about the phone. She might go
why is my phone still working .. and be 
it's not like she hadn't made any payments before on the card before. She made one a month ago.
The funniest thing would be her without a phone during new years week...she'll be
every night. I can have some fun with it man. It's no fun if i can't fukk around with her mind.@World War Z
U still want relations wit this broad at some level..
Breh we all takes losses in life...Some have lost more than that...
Cut your losses and move on...
Playing with her mind at this point validates the point that is being stated
U still want relations wit this broad at some level..
Breh we all takes losses in life...Some have lost more than that...
Cut your losses and move on...
Playing with her mind at this point validates the point that is being stated
breh i don't want her back..i wanted her back at first cause the thought of alone was a complete shock...now i have anger and resentment towards her. i just want my money back. She was the one that wanted me to be part of her life still. I told her hell fukking no. Like i said i got no problems waiting. I can't pay off the credit card right now. So i can't do nothing about it. And think about it, if she's still dependent on me..whose fault is that?
How you getting your money back when she can't even support herself?
Do you tho...
The gem that was dropped in this thread about setting the direction of what YOU want to do on a date was golden. Don't leave the decision making up to the female, you choose the activity and she's either with it or she can get going.to whoever made that statement.
For the dating part, always make sure you never let her choose where to go and never take her out to eat till you smash.
If you can't pay the card off, then you need to call the credit card company and make arrangements as soon as possible. YOU ARE NOT GETTING YOUR MONEY BACK!!!!!!! Just get that idea out of your head. It's gone and that's it. You know what she is doing right now....finding another guy to support her, not paying off World War Z credit card bill. She is winning right now because you on here posting about that you don't want her but you want to cash and you hope that she contact you about making arrangements. If she was serious, she would have already contacted you about how to pay the bill. But she hasn't and you know why, she doesn't give a fukk about the bill because it is in your name and not hers. Actions speak louder than words and she got what she wanted from you and is moving on. Focus on paying the bill, cut off the cell phone and just move on. That all you can do right now man.
gotta agree with the fellas. it's a hard L to swallow but realistically, i don't think you're getting that G back either. There is only ONE way you're getting it back but it's gonna take some game and coldness...
Ya the L is extremely hard to take. I just thought she would do decent thing which is to pay the bill. I just can hope. She's made payments before. I know she's hurting for money so well see.
And women are so predictable. I woke up to texts from her. The usual hope you're doing well (it hasn't even been a week of no contact) and how long till she has for the phone.
I quickly deleted the text.
And women are so predictable. I woke up to texts from her. The usual hope you're doing well (it hasn't even been a week of no contact) and how long till she has for the phone.
I quickly deleted the text.
Hell if you want should change your number . I know those msgs can set back sometimes
"she deserves so much more, she's a great girl, i should take my time with her and give her what she wants because she's shy and delicate' she..."
realize 9.5 times out of 10 this is your mind filling the blanks. Most of the time you will say this about a chick because that's how you feel about it. this is what she evokes. but it's all a trick. we are all magicians without realizing it. we do it by accident most of the times (both men and women). it's all misdirection, smoke and mirrors, the power of suggestion and all that. when you start feeling these things about a chick (she's the coolest, greatest, sweetest, etc) take a step back and think about why she is all that and be cold and real with yourself. what concrete things that you have seen (not extrapolated or imagined) make her great compared to other girls? you'll find that a lot of times you don't know much and your mind just filled in the blanks with a bias in her favor. it's to the point where even if she does something you don't like or respect, your mind will race to find a possible excuse for her so that the portrait your created in your mind can remain intact. and the longer you keep painting that portray the more protective you will be of it because it's your baby and masterpiece. always try to remain as objective as possible.
we're all magicians performing for eachother. most of us aren't aware of it but the ones that are and that try to create the best magic tricks is what we call "players".
realize 9.5 times out of 10 this is your mind filling the blanks. Most of the time you will say this about a chick because that's how you feel about it. this is what she evokes. but it's all a trick. we are all magicians without realizing it. we do it by accident most of the times (both men and women). it's all misdirection, smoke and mirrors, the power of suggestion and all that. when you start feeling these things about a chick (she's the coolest, greatest, sweetest, etc) take a step back and think about why she is all that and be cold and real with yourself. what concrete things that you have seen (not extrapolated or imagined) make her great compared to other girls? you'll find that a lot of times you don't know much and your mind just filled in the blanks with a bias in her favor. it's to the point where even if she does something you don't like or respect, your mind will race to find a possible excuse for her so that the portrait your created in your mind can remain intact. and the longer you keep painting that portray the more protective you will be of it because it's your baby and masterpiece. always try to remain as objective as possible.
we're all magicians performing for eachother. most of us aren't aware of it but the ones that are and that try to create the best magic tricks is what we call "players".
Some real talk breh,
It very much ties into what some of the earlier discussions about keeping a girl in check in the early days and not tolerating any disrespect weather it be covert or overt. It's very easy to make them excuses in the early days when it's all going well but it really does come back and bite you on the ass later down the line.
I advise all the brehs out there to tell the girl from the jump that you won't tolerate any bs or games and make sure she knows that you will leave her at the drop of a hat. I know to some this will sound counter-productive but in reality your placing a high value upon yourself which will make you appear more desirable and also display to the girl a level of maturity, your not willing to put up with any bs.