Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[My neck and my back]

i been dealing with this girl for a while and i just had a epiphany based off one of kevm3 posts about the "don't chase em, replace em" mentality. the only reason i care about this woman is because the benefits she have to offer (p*ssy, cooking, cleaning, running my errands, and etc) and if she threatened to leave me then i wouldn't even really trip off it. she coo ass hell too so i was starting to feel wrong about feeling this way, but i thought about when i was bum status a few years back and was thinking how she probably wouldn't want shyt to do with me. it's been times where we had convos and she brought up about how she can't fukk with broke nikkas. i realized if i was back in that position again she would bounce on me in a hot second. she only with a nikka now cuz some of the benefits i have to offer. so i'm finna just enjoy this lil ride and if it ever come down to her wanting to leave, i'm a just let her go.

 

[He Who Posts Well]

 

[T-K-G]

Got a question

This happened to me like in 2002 just was thinking bout this situation and wanted to hear you guys opinion on it.


I was out one day with my boy headed to the club in tokyo and i saw this female from a distance she was beautiful to me but i had been with better. i say bout a 8 on a scale of 10

anyways i was like i need to holler at her but couldn't she went a different direction

later that night at the club she comes in and i see her and she see's me and we stare at each other

Ask me why the fukk when that happen it was literally like this

babe! shweeeen! - YouTube


its like i needed her in my life and i couldn't help myself it felt like LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT kinda shyt no joke. I fell so hard on that damn look and stare

wondering
Felt like some damn movie


So somebody explain to me why in the hell did i felt that way. It wasn't looks cuz ive had better, it wasn't cuz i wanted sex either.

IMO not saying im right but i think it was one of the times where i let my guard down completely. it was just a night for me and my boy to have some drinks and chill not to meet females and bang em out.

your brain created some false reality where she was the perfect match, you aint know a damn thing about her and yo mind filled in the blanks with all the right things...you woulda ended up dating her and she wouldn't live up to that shyt at all, woulda left you hearbroken wantin to commit that



i hope one of yo nikkas hit you with the "getcho ass in the car nikka we leavin"

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

Got a question

This happened to me like in 2002 just was thinking bout this situation and wanted to hear you guys opinion on it.


I was out one day with my boy headed to the club in tokyo and i saw this female from a distance she was beautiful to me but i had been with better. i say bout a 8 on a scale of 10

anyways i was like i need to holler at her but couldn't she went a different direction

later that night at the club she comes in and i see her and she see's me and we stare at each other

Ask me why the fukk when that happen it was literally like this

babe! shweeeen! - YouTube


its like i needed her in my life and i couldn't help myself it felt like LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT kinda shyt no joke. I fell so hard on that damn look and stare

wondering
Felt like some damn movie


So somebody explain to me why in the hell did i felt that way. It wasn't looks cuz ive had better, it wasn't cuz i wanted sex either.

IMO not saying im right but i think it was one of the times where i let my guard down completely. it was just a night for me and my boy to have some drinks and chill not to meet females and bang em out.

Doggie... Ima be straight w u cuz I'm tipsy, but.... You're leaving a bevy out of this encounter sitchayshun u had.

First... You found somebody attractive who was probably equally if not MORESO attracted to u becuz of THE BOLDED.

I'm sorry daddeh, but that's a load of crapstein.

Tell us why u didn't holla... Even w that instant spark of utter metaphysical and chemical attraction?

You ultimately fukked up cuz u got discouraged/scurried because your game was out of whack.

I love u bro, so I ain't gon beat around the bush. Garden masturbator.


If I was ur boy, I woulda been like,

"dogberg... U need to atleast introdeauce yaself and ask her to join u for green eggs and spam masubee. Or else ima ack like u ain't knew me. Geaux!!!!"

A broths in Tokyo and u got the jitters? I'm upset. Sonics in 95.


.

 

[T-K-G]

Doggie... Ima be straight w u cuz I'm tipsy, but.... You're leaving a bevy out of this encounter sitchayshun u had.

First... You found somebody attractive who was probably equally if not MORESO attracted to u becuz of THE BOLDED.

I'm sorry daddeh, but that's a load of crapstein.

Tell us why u didn't holla... Even w that instant spark of utter metaphysical and chemical attraction?

You ultimately fukked up cuz u got discouraged/scurried because your game was out of whack.

I love u bro, so I ain't gon beat around the bush.Garden masturbator.


If I was ur boy, I woulda been like,

"dogberg... U need to atleast introdeauce yaself and ask her to join u for green eggs and spam masubee. Or else ima ack like u ain't knew me. Geaux!!!!"

A broths in Tokyo and u got the jitters? I'm upset. Sonics in 95.


.

+pos rep


edit: garden line just clicked


this nikka is definitely based

 

[Rich Spirit]

lol what?

 

[kevm3]

I hear you cause the bytches Ive had are always when I wasnt even tryna get it. I'ma keep doing what I do. Just focusing on my work, and stacking loot to pay off next years tuition and save for a whip.

Believe me though brehs...When I say drought I mean drought

The only reason I feel I can cope with this shyt is that since I started fukking I've never had a steady dosage of p*ssy. It's always been sporadic with months in between so I never really fiend.

Probably why I stay so level headed.

Not being defensive though but I wouldnt say I'm thirsty.

One of the realest sayings I've heard is 'they come in bunches.'

You'll be chilling and you get one woman, and then it's like a flood of women all wanting to mess with you during that small time span... and then you'll just go through these periods where it's like what's going on? Where in the world are all the women at?

Realistically, its' been a blessing that you've known how to be alone because it will save you a lot of bad decision-making in the future. Just being able to sit back and love life, handling your business, watching football, and just engaging in whatever hobbies you are into... that's what it's all about... and a woman has to just fit herself into that. Them cats that be having all those problems are the ones who act like fiends, who, when without women, are willing to do anything to get one.

 

[kevm3]

i been dealing with this girl for a while and i just had a epiphany based off one of kevm3 posts about the "don't chase em, replace em" mentality. the only reason i care about this woman is because the benefits she have to offer (p*ssy, cooking, cleaning, running my errands, and etc) and if she threatened to leave me then i wouldn't even really trip off it. she coo ass hell too so i was starting to feel wrong about feeling this way, but i thought about when i was bum status a few years back and was thinking how she probably wouldn't want shyt to do with me. it's been times where we had convos and she brought up about how she can't fukk with broke nikkas. i realized if i was back in that position again she would bounce on me in a hot second. she only with a nikka now cuz some of the benefits i have to offer. so i'm finna just enjoy this lil ride and if it ever come down to her wanting to leave, i'm a just let her go.

That's real. Women will always make sure they are where they want to be. When you have to chase them, you're trying to articially create an environment that they find desirable at the sacrifice of your own worth... It's basically saying that what a woman wants and likes is more important than YOU. That ain't fly at all.

A man that chases a woman, he may be WITH her, but he won't HAVE her. They might end up boyfriend or girlfriend, but that's in name only. She won't respect him, and it'll go bad eventually. Now there's a huge difference between pursuing and chasing women. Getting at a woman but always remaining yourself is one thing, but jumping through hoops and trying to prove you are worthy to a woman and rearranging yourself to please her is where a man will really start taking losses... Begging and trying t keep around a woman who loses interest is another form of chasing and another situation where a man will take a loss. A woman will really be where she wants to be... and who wants to be with a woman that doesn't really like them for them?

A lot of women will claim contrary, but they are constantly staying in contact with other dudes, and if all of a sudden she loses interest and starts getting busy, it's over the fact she found another man... aka she's really where she wants to be. We sure ain't going to be fighting over these women, especially those jumpship traitors.

The only women worth dealing with are the ones that actually like being where they are. if she wants to go, she doesn't want to be around, so it's time to find another woman who is down.

 

[MikelArteta]

One of the realest sayings I've heard is 'they come in bunches.'

You'll be chilling and you get one woman, and then it's like a flood of women all wanting to mess with you during that small time span... and then you'll just go through these periods where it's like what's going on? Where in the world are all the women at?

Realistically, its' been a blessing that you've known how to be alone because it will save you a lot of bad decision-making in the future. Just being able to sit back and love life, handling your business, watching football, and just engaging in whatever hobbies you are into... that's what it's all about... and a woman has to just fit herself into that. Them cats that be having all those problems are the ones who act like fiends, who, when without women, are willing to do anything to get one.

Yup it's like a Job you apply can't find one suddenly you have a interview then you get a Job they everyone is calling offering a job or a interview

 

[Sharp]

Little tip for those in a serious relationship thinking about getting married.

Ask your woman if you get married if she's going to take your last name? It may sound like a simplistic question, but it speaks volumes about how your marriage will be.

If a woman tells you that she's going to take your last name, no hyphenation, this is a good sign that she is willing to become one, be submissive and follow your lead. She wants to become your wife and everything else is second to that.

A woman who hyphenates her name still wants to keep her independence somewhat, so be careful. She will be down for you as long as things are going good. These women are quicker to ask for divorce, and are more focused on their own personal goals than the goals of the marriage. And it will be a fight to make her submissive.

A woman who wants to keep her own last name, you should avoid at all costs. Do not marry her, in fact break up with her immediately. She is a feminist, and she will challenge the traditional roles of marriage at all costs. It will be a nightmare.

Although there are exceptions, 95% of women will follow this.

I'm talking from experience and paying attention to other people that I know marriages.

When I got married, even though my wife officially took my last name on paper, she never changed her last name or hyphenated it. Need I say more on why I eventually got divorced.

 

[MikelArteta]

You know what's funny brehs? Is that most women won't date a dude without a good job
Or a car when most men don't even consider making that a requirement when dating.

I remember goin out with this chick everything was going fine till she went in my car, this chick didn't even have a car and had to nerve to judge me because I just drive a basic corolla as I live a frugal lifestyle enjoy the bus

 

[Captain Crunch]

You know what's funny brehs? Is that most women won't date a dude without a good job
Or a car when most men don't even consider making that a requirement when dating.

I remember goin out with this chick everything was going fine till she went in my car, this chick didn't even have a car and had to nerve to judge me because I just drive a basic corolla as I live a frugal lifestyle enjoy the bus

She was hating on that gas mileage breh

 

[Sharp]

Would you guys be okay with me using some of your writings in my blogs?

I will give you all full and proper credit.

 

[kevm3]

Sure go ahead.

 

[twan83]

Doggie... Ima be straight w u cuz I'm tipsy, but.... You're leaving a bevy out of this encounter sitchayshun u had.

First... You found somebody attractive who was probably equally if not MORESO attracted to u becuz of THE BOLDED.

I'm sorry daddeh, but that's a load of crapstein.

Tell us why u didn't holla... Even w that instant spark of utter metaphysical and chemical attraction?

You ultimately fukked up cuz u got discouraged/scurried because your game was out of whack.

I love u bro, so I ain't gon beat around the bush. Garden masturbator.


If I was ur boy, I woulda been like,

"dogberg... U need to atleast introdeauce yaself and ask her to join u for green eggs and spam masubee. Or else ima ack like u ain't knew me. Geaux!!!!"

A broths in Tokyo and u got the jitters? I'm upset. Sonics in 95.


.

lmfao

sorry didnt tell you the whole story though

i did holler by the way the same night got the digits and we ended up dating later on and getting engaged months later before i left tokyo

When i was back at the states i called it off though cuz she cheated on me