Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'd like to hear you brehs opinion on a story i'm getting ready to talk about this isn't happening to me by the way. I have a cousin who's parents have separated and her mother kicked her father out the house(a house he had built for her father who is sick) and moved in her boyfriend she had been messing with prior to the separation. Since then my cousins father has been cooking dinner for his ex-wife and the boyfriend and last week for Christmas went to his ex-wife's mothers house dinner mind you the boyfriend is there as well eating right along with him...I personally don't know what's going on in my cousins father's head but this guy really doesn't have family(he was adopted) i honestly do feel like he is a victim of circumstance thoughts??:lupe:
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women rarely talk in black and white its mostly grey, they want you to be confused because in confusion you give them the benefit of the doubt.

She's busy = she doesn't want to see you
instead of just saying it

she'll speak in grey using business now your confused if she really is busy or doesn't want to see you

instead of saying sh echeated or fd up which would be speaking in black/white

you deserve better than me =speaking in grey now your confused you dump her your overreacting but it relieves her of the guilt, you stay well she told you that you deserved better right

most things a woman says is to absolve them of looking bad
 

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We need to do some more what women say, what women mean

look at her actions
actions never lie

i'm not even saying this about women but in thsi generation people will tell you whatever you want to hear.

You want to be the "no guy has ever treated me this great before" you got it

you want to hear "I love you" you got it
I miss you, I'm only talking to you

breh i had a woman totally get distant on me not a word spoken for 6 months yet when they came back and messaged me I'm the one to blame for it :heh:

just like when they cheat they blame someone else

Rarely in my life have I met a women who is accountable for her actions
 

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The funny thing with women is this, i changed my whatsapp photo to an old family photo that had my ex in it because it had a caption of happy new year, right away a chick I haven't talked to in so long don't even have her number she's like whose that in the photo and im like its my ex :dahell:

suddenly this chick is talking to me left and right trying to catch up and ish, the only thing that changed is before she thought I was a undesirable, I don't have facebook, instagram, I stay to myself mostly so I don't have "status" but once she saw my ex its ohhh

thats why I don't even stress over these birds, its all about status and perception
 
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