I do nothing but respond.I know you're feeling good with this right now, buton getting too attached to her until y'all meet.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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@Emperor_ReinScarf So my girlfriend has been very suspect with her phone? I want to put into practice trust but verify, do I straight up say let me see your phone? or...
Does she have a password or pin?
I've learned in the past to never confront anyone unless you have evidence. Don't even let them know you suspect anything as they go further underground.
You confront she will flip it back on you, so let me see your phone then. You don't trust me? Your insecure . or shed delete the convo box before you even touch it
Sadly as a man your gut is most likely right.
I'd just do this next time im out just be like damn my phone died can I use yours for a minute and you can tell BT her reaction if you can or if she's deleting anything quickly.
If you live with her and there's no pin I'd go through it
If you share a PC pit a key logger on it.
Like I said I only knew my ex was cheating when I was pissinf razor blades and then I got ahold of her phone one day when she left it in the washroom and that led to me installing a keylogger.
I've learned in the past to never confront anyone unless you have evidence. Don't even let them know you suspect anything as they go further underground.
You confront she will flip it back on you, so let me see your phone then. You don't trust me? Your insecure . or shed delete the convo box before you even touch it
Sadly as a man your gut is most likely right.
I'd just do this next time im out just be like damn my phone died can I use yours for a minute and you can tell BT her reaction if you can or if she's deleting anything quickly.
If you live with her and there's no pin I'd go through it
If you share a PC pit a key logger on it.
Like I said I only knew my ex was cheating when I was pissinf razor blades and then I got ahold of her phone one day when she left it in the washroom and that led to me installing a keylogger.
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The blissful honeymoon/probationary stage is coming to an end and this is a point where many decide whether to continue on or pull away. If you are a man from the moment you met this woman she has been dispensing a cycle of tests and if you pass you may continue, if you fail well……”you’re a great guy and will make someone happy but….”
Once the realization of this may be serious sets in both genders can get hit with the “we need to talk/ you’re a great guy/girl but its better we remain friends or the patented slow fade out. However if that doesn’t occur and things are still going smoothly and passionate – Congrats you have made it to the second stage.
You may now be wearing a label of exclusivity / Facebook official and those photos together can now be plastered all over social media. This may be one of the most vital moments in the relationship so far, because this is when people become comfortable and take off their mask and reveal their true character. Have you ever caught yourself saying they changed……He/She was so great in the beginning I mean texting all the time, the phone calls, the gifts, the surprises, the time spent together, the kindness, the constant displays of affection, the respect they had for the relationship. However the person you fell in lust/love/limerance with is an illusion that only exists in your mind, reality is in stage two you are seeing their true form.
As I’ve stated previously everyone is on their best behavior in stage one, everyone appears to be normal and a great catch. Exes and emotional baggage lay dormant, confrontations and fights don’t exist, all those guys/girls they are talking to are hidden beneath the surface. While there are great genuine people out there, there are many individuals that lack the emotional maturity to maintain a serious relationship and are carrying a heft load amount of baggage. This is why stage two is a danger zone so to speak if you are dating the wrong person because more than likely you’ve gotten so caught up in stage one that you’re in such a fog that you start to give leeway, benefit of the doubt, may compromise your dignity and tend not to look at the issues/red flags right in front of you. You may discuss with your friends, post on relationship forums try to rationalize thinking they will change, you may even love them and feel strongly for them and know deep inside they are not right for you – you may take the steps to sever the relationship or continue on holding out hope the choice is yours (EJECT EJECT).
Back on the happy scale – however, if you do happen to come across a genuine person, the issues are small, the dedication and the love is there built on a stable foundation and you both feel this is “right” – Congratulations as stage three now awaits!
Once the realization of this may be serious sets in both genders can get hit with the “we need to talk/ you’re a great guy/girl but its better we remain friends or the patented slow fade out. However if that doesn’t occur and things are still going smoothly and passionate – Congrats you have made it to the second stage.
You may now be wearing a label of exclusivity / Facebook official and those photos together can now be plastered all over social media. This may be one of the most vital moments in the relationship so far, because this is when people become comfortable and take off their mask and reveal their true character. Have you ever caught yourself saying they changed……He/She was so great in the beginning I mean texting all the time, the phone calls, the gifts, the surprises, the time spent together, the kindness, the constant displays of affection, the respect they had for the relationship. However the person you fell in lust/love/limerance with is an illusion that only exists in your mind, reality is in stage two you are seeing their true form.
As I’ve stated previously everyone is on their best behavior in stage one, everyone appears to be normal and a great catch. Exes and emotional baggage lay dormant, confrontations and fights don’t exist, all those guys/girls they are talking to are hidden beneath the surface. While there are great genuine people out there, there are many individuals that lack the emotional maturity to maintain a serious relationship and are carrying a heft load amount of baggage. This is why stage two is a danger zone so to speak if you are dating the wrong person because more than likely you’ve gotten so caught up in stage one that you’re in such a fog that you start to give leeway, benefit of the doubt, may compromise your dignity and tend not to look at the issues/red flags right in front of you. You may discuss with your friends, post on relationship forums try to rationalize thinking they will change, you may even love them and feel strongly for them and know deep inside they are not right for you – you may take the steps to sever the relationship or continue on holding out hope the choice is yours (EJECT EJECT).
Back on the happy scale – however, if you do happen to come across a genuine person, the issues are small, the dedication and the love is there built on a stable foundation and you both feel this is “right” – Congratulations as stage three now awaits!
BlackAchilles
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I have next to no ability to tell if a chick's feelin me/receptive to me
if shes looking at you and smiling thats a good sign
The 10th Letter
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Been a while since I've been in here. Lemme just reiterate. Be yourself, and enjoy being yourself. Also, submerge yourself in a hobby or passion that doesnt involve women. If youre trying to be anyone but yourself and youre overcompensating. And ppl pick up on that.
Just do what you love, go get your money so you can fund doing what you love. The women will come.
Just do what you love, go get your money so you can fund doing what you love. The women will come.
BlackAchilles
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Essentially what Im doin now
EQ.
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EQ.
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might be just friendly.
I had a woman doing that, laughing when I walk near and constantly trying to touch my arm to get my attention when she passes by. I got shot down months ago
Accept that a woman might not be into you and move on. It shouldn't be a huge deal and shouldn't be a reflection of your self-worth. You weren't her flavor, but you might be some other woman's flavor. Wasting all of this time looking for the perfect signal and you're going to be waiting forever. Trying to bat 100% with a woman is fruitless. If she's not fairly simply to deal with, as in she responds promptly, then move on.
Breh....
How does one respond to this text Brehs? So much wrong in it...
simple delete and get on with your life
if a woman is really interested in you, she would make time, there are 48 hours in a weekend she can't take a few out to meet you?
when a woman tells you she is busy, you are not a priority but a option, but of course next week you can take her out for dinner and a movie.
So you have no life, that you sit by and wait?
if that was me I'd be like I have plans next weekend and take the power right back from her.
Women don't speak black/white but in the grey area
meh...even if she isnt completely busy she has a right to want alone time.
it looks like the two of em dont really know eachother like that yet.
No need to put thought into a reply. Either suggest something for next weekend or just say cool...keep it moving...and then when next weekend rolls around suggest something