Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Im just catching up on this story but i think you made the right choice brehpretty much the reason i said eff it and still put her on. I cant help if I'm a nice dude who looks out for black ppl. fukk putting so much thought into uncessary shyt.
Exactly. Do what you feel. If they can't appreciate it or sync with you, let them go. I simply don't view women valuable enough to go around making a whole new pretend me in order to get with them. I'm not going to sit around racking my brain looking for secret, super alpha text responses to say back or I'm not going to get some tribal tattoos because it makes me look like a warrior alpha thug that secretly unlocks the desire in women.
It takes a lot of mental strength to 'remain you' even when it seems you're often getting punished for it. The key is to not change, but to keep on sifting through the nonsensical women until you find one who syncs up with what you're doing.
We shouldn't turn selfish because 'that's what the hoes like'. If these broads start acting funny because you are doing a decent thing for them, give that particular woman the boot and keep it pushing. No woman is worth stressing out and having you worry which alpha technique you need to use today or when is the precise time to text her. Peace of mind comes from strength of mind.
pretty much
there are so many women out there to stress over one like she's special?
In the bible Jesus did miracles even when he never got a thanks it didn't stop him. Not everyone will be appreciated of the things you do, but you shouldn't change your core for them.
We were having a discussion in another thread... why indians make so much money or whatever, and the issue of women will clown you if you live at home came up. basically, there's times where you got to simply not care what broads think. Those same women will be all over you when see you have no debt, tens of thousands saved up, etc. Basically, as a man, you got to be out here doing whatever you do and simply not care what a woman thinks. A woman has to fit in with what you're doing. That's why I disagree with that PUA stuff. Their whole persona is morphing themselves to fit in with what they think what women want. I don't really care what women want. I care about handling my business, being right with God, and finding a woman who can understand what I'm doing with my life and take part in that. The Bible pretty much tells us as men that we need to lead, but men these days are essentially worshiping and following after women, constantly molding and morphing themselves into what they believe women want.
Dreamzeedream
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You get in what you put out
I live at home and I could care less, I've never had a problem dating. my parents are only here half of the year, I'd rather contribute to the mortgage than to rent some basement apartment or condo and be seen as "cool" by some chick I could care less what she thinks of me.
If someone isn't paying my bills or living my life and doesn't have my last name I could care less what they think about me.
I have a friend who lives like 2 minutes away from me in a basement apartment paying 1,100 a month, thats like 12k a year just gone no equity nothing, but to some birdbrain he would be more "independent and going places" than me who lives at home 2 minutes away
I remember back in teh day I used to care so much what women thought of me, spending so much money on hats I no longer wear, clothes that look ridiculous now, just got a car to show off and all that im so happy those days are done. Can't even tell the last time I bought clothes. I'd rather just save my money and travel or buy a new lens for my camera.
Women will always and always be around until you die, hell dating in your 30s and 40s as a man is literally the easiest thing out there.
I'm actually finally after 29 long years shout out to a coli breh whose my personal trainer I'm getting in shape. Bout to get the body I always wanted, bout to travel the world.
Bout to still drive my 8 year old car and live at home and not giving a damn
Bout to still drive my 8 year old car and live at home and not giving a damn
DeeezNuts
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I live at home and I could care less, I've never had a problem dating. my parents are only here half of the year, I'd rather contribute to the mortgage than to rent some basement apartment or condo and be seen as "cool" by some chick I could care less what she thinks of me.
If someone isn't paying my bills or living my life and doesn't have my last name I could care less what they think about me.
I have a friend who lives like 2 minutes away from me in a basement apartment paying 1,100 a month, thats like 12k a year just gone no equity nothing, but to some birdbrain he would be more "independent and going places" than me who lives at home 2 minutes away
I remember back in teh day I used to care so much what women thought of me, spending so much money on hats I no longer wear, clothes that look ridiculous now, just got a car to show off and all that im so happy those days are done. Can't even tell the last time I bought clothes. I'd rather just save my money and travel or buy a new lens for my camera.
Women will always and always be around until you die, hell dating in your 30s and 40s as a man is literally the easiest thing out there.
PREACCCCCCCCHHHHHHHHHHHHHH....
Walking around with all this confidence and not giving a flyin fukk what anyone thinks, let alone a bytch.... such a great feeling
The thing is most women are seasonal, I don't even have one chick in my life that I talked to even two years ago. I just wish I had this mentality and wisdom I do at 29 when I was like 22/23.
i can even just look around my room, a tv i spent thousands on goes unwatched, old videogame systems I spent hundred on goes unused. Half of my closet filled with clothes ill probably never wear again,
(Realizes its been a minute since I posted in here) 
I was actually talking to a coli breh today whose my personal trainer shout out breh
dude is like 6 years younger than me but has his head on straight, told me hes not even concentrating on women, but instead stacking his bread and accomplishing his goals. That women his age can't even be trusted and they all think they can acquire the famed 6 certs 6 figure coli nikka
I was like
, smart I wish I had that wisdom as a youth instead of wasting so many years on fruitless ish.
I told him women will always be there when your 30, when your 40, when your 50
dude is like 6 years younger than me but has his head on straight, told me hes not even concentrating on women, but instead stacking his bread and accomplishing his goals. That women his age can't even be trusted and they all think they can acquire the famed 6 certs 6 figure coli nikka
I was like
, smart I wish I had that wisdom as a youth instead of wasting so many years on fruitless ish.I told him women will always be there when your 30, when your 40, when your 50
kasino416 isnt it!?I was actually talking to a coli breh today whose my personal trainer shout out breh
dude is like 6 years younger than me but has his head on straight, told me hes not even concentrating on women, but instead stacking his bread and accomplishing his goals. That women his age can't even be trusted and they all think they can acquire the famed 6 certs 6 figure coli nikka
I was like
I told him women will always be there when your 30, when your 40, when your 50
DeeezNuts
All Star
I'm with you my G... all these birds are good for dikkin down and nothing more...so stick and move thats all they get out of me... no second dates, no extra isshh... whatever ill will they feel about that...that their problems not mine... i have my plans for my future and Ill be damn if i let any woman slow me down... most of these women just see money when see a man and they just think of ways of how to use this man to get it....thats it...i wish brothers will see that....but usually by the time they do...its too late...