Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

I think it's both but I will tell you that I haven't been this happy in a longtime though. The first couple weeks were tough after confirming everything that was going on and I sat around gloomy and shyt but I'm out there talkin to different females, taking things slow, I've been approached by females in public, I'm just living life and I feel like a lot of pressure was lifted off my shoulders. I feel like I'm walking on air.

This whole situation has been a blessing in some fukked up way

When you rid yourself of a woman that is constantly putting stress on your mind, that has you thinking she's cheating, etc. it is VERY emotionally taxing when you're sitting there wondering what she's doing, etc. Now that you've gotten away from her and realized that she wasn't the special one and only, ms. perfect, a huge burden just lifts off of you. That's why I tell men to be especially careful of the women they allow in their lives. The wrong one will put burden after burden on your shoulder. it's better to be alone than with a problematic female.

 

[MikelArteta]

came across this

Lift weights (if allergic to exercise, just do dumbell bicepts and tricepts), jog, eat well, meditate, get your education, advance your career, plan your exit from the matrix, do your hobbies, and FORGET ABOUT WOMEN. Dress in what you want. Drive what you want. Say what you want. Do what you want. "What about what women want?" Who really cares what women want; that's their problem.

Eventually some chick will want to tag along. Because the devil always finds us. Don't make a move on her. You can tell when a chick has handed you the keys to her heart. Let her make the push. Because that's the kind of chick that will be there more than a thousand girls you'd have to chase.

 

[MikelArteta]

I think it's both but I will tell you that I haven't been this happy in a longtime though. The first couple weeks were tough after confirming everything that was going on and I sat around gloomy and shyt but I'm out there talkin to different females, taking things slow, I've been approached by females in public, I'm just living life and I feel like a lot of pressure was lifted off my shoulders. I feel like I'm walking on air.

This whole situation has been a blessing in some fukked up way

it takes time, but once the emotions have dwindled you look back and are thankful. It's like breaking a arm it hurts at first and continues to hurt but every day away it hurts less and less until one day your healed again and you look back and are thankful you got out of that poisonous situation.

 

[Kenny West]

I asked if she had any plans this weekend and he response is "I'm all booked this weekend". Like @Emperor_ReinScarf and @kevm3 said in a span of 48 hours she can't find a just few (1.5-2) hours to sit and chat she's either not digging you or someone else is digging her.
Secondly she said she's a bit of an "a$$hole" and generally speaking in terms of the American lexicon, the term a$$hole is a negative connotation. Nobody likes a$$holes. That's a character flaw to me.

IDK what your conversations were like before that...if she off a website tho then it aint like you know her.

As far as the a$$hole thing....were you trying to cuff her or something?

 

[¯\_(ツ)_/¯]

IDK what your conversations were like before that...if she off a website tho then it aint like you know her.

As far as the a$$hole thing....were you trying to cuff her or something?

Before it was just questions of getting to know each other like what we do, where we work, etc. I know some people are leery about meeting people off the Internet for the first time but with online dating, I believe, its pretty obvious what you are there for and at some point you should expect to meet the person to hang-out, chat, and get to know them better. I hate doing all that through texting though. Defeats the purpose of having things to talk about while on a date.

I was trying to get to know who she was first and foremost with the intention of possibly taking things further, slowly of course. So when a girl says to me what kind of person she is (like an a$$hole)....I feel I should take her for her word. Now with that being said if I do try to make advances to "cuff" this particular person I'm assuming the risk that I'm chasing someone who sees themselves as an a$$hole. So if she does something that an "a$$hole" would typically do, I can't be mad at her for it.

So I spare wasting time of trying to get involved with someone that I will likely have personality clash with.

 

[Mr210]

So powerful

 

[Kenny West]

Before it was just questions of getting to know each other like what we do, where we work, etc. I know some people are leery about meeting people off the Internet for the first time but with online dating, I believe, its pretty obvious what you are there for and at some point you should expect to meet the person to hang-out, chat, and get to know them better. I hate doing all that through texting though. Defeats the purpose of having things to talk about while on a date.

I was trying to get to know who she was first and foremost with the intention of possibly taking things further, slowly of course. So when a girl says to me what kind of person she is (like an a$$hole)....I feel I should take her for her word. Now with that being said if I do try to make advances to "cuff" this particular person I'm assuming the risk that I'm chasing someone who sees themselves as an a$$hole. So if she does something that an "a$$hole" would typically do, I can't be mad at her for it.

So I spare wasting time of trying to get involved with someone that I will likely have personality clash with.

Alright you're actually looking for a gf then. You should probably focus on in person approaching if thats the case cause online is more of the same, it works well if you're just tryna get ya dikk wet but otherwise....

respect for screening to find the girl you want but you lookin in the wrong place man

 

[MikelArteta]

Alright you're actually looking for a gf then. You should probably focus on in person approaching if thats the case cause online is more of the same, it works well if you're just tryna get ya dikk wet but otherwise....

respect for screening to find the girl you want but you lookin in the wrong place man

online works if you can get a "new user" i mean a chick that just signed up

if shes been on there awhile well good luck shes to far gone

I think thats how @Bless't found his brehette

 

[George Gooney]

i don't know brews I'm not really feeling my shorty anymore. We been together for about a year and a half. She made some mistakes in the past that I'm not really feeling for a woman I'd consider marrying. My breh @Emperor_ReinScarf knows the story. That shyt still bothers me a little breh. Only thing is she treats me better than any chick I've ever had and I know there ain't nothing but thots out there. So it's either stick it out with my girl or be lonely because I know these chicks ain't up to my standards...

 

[MikelArteta]

i don't know brews I'm not really feeling my shorty anymore. We been together for about a year and a half. She made some mistakes in the past that I'm not really feeling for a woman I'd consider marrying. My breh @Emperor_ReinScarf knows the story. That shyt still bothers me a little breh. Only thing is she treats me better than any chick I've ever had and I know there ain't nothing but thots out there. So it's either stick it out with my girl or be lonely because I know these chicks ain't up to my standards...

the conundrum
there is no such thing as the perfect girl or the perfect man, everyone has faults. But it's up to you

@PrnzHakeem was saying the other day in here how he was with a chick and just felt it wasnt right broke up and found his wife

but every situation is different this issue maybe you beak up and find a btte chick, or maybe you break up and then regret it

 

[Soundbwoy]

this chick I use to holla until I found out she had herpes is trying to tell me she's good now

 

[MikelArteta]

this chick I use to holla until I found out she had herpes is trying to tell me she's good now

aka its dormant but will rise again

 

[Soundbwoy]

aka its dormant but will rise again

that's I hit her with the cold shoulder I ain't even giver her 2 kiss on the cheeks and a hug :Rudy:

 

[Atlrocafella]

Like my breh @Emperor_ReinScarf always says, learn when to eject yourself from a situation..sucks cause I thought she was dope and high hopes, but she bullshytting and it's not feeling right

 

[Urbanmiracle]

Women really do have short memories:

This chick I've been dating is a supervisor at my boys job. They aren't getting along at work and she takes it out on me. So in one hour it goes from hey I miss you to fukk off I don't wanna see you.

So I go through these motions








So I leave it alone. She calls: I ignore. She text I ignore. It got to the point where she forgot she said fukk off to me and got mad I was ignoring her text

Next thing I know she is at my door and she refuses to leave until I threaten to call the police. She spends the next day trying to convince me she was there to apologize but then tried to flip the blame saying when I do something wrong she quick to forgive but I can't do the same. These bytches b. I never tell her to fukk off or anything. But now she wanna see me before my two week business trip. I'm good though