that backup plan (if its another chick) is bad karma. i try to set up multiple dates in the same day. i dont cancel because i believe its a very evil thing to do to someone.
u coulda hit that. see, i've noticed, when chicks invite me over to their house, chances are they wanna fukk. 99% of these chicks will give in the minute u give the illusion u about to bounce.
case in point. met up with some chick several months ago. went over to her house at night. whenever i try to feel up on her, she kept brushing me off. so after about 20 minutes of this, in my head, im like fucck it. looked at my watch and i let her see i was looking at my watch. then i just got up and started to walk out the house. she stopped me quickly and said why are u so impatient. long story short, i came back. sat on the couch and this time, whenever i touched her she didnt brush my hand off. we went in her bedroom a lil bit after that and i handled business.
another chick pulled the same thing. i tried grabbing her ass many times and she wasn't having it. i got up and was dead serious on walking out. she pulled me back. and this time, i more than grabbed her ass. i was fingering her and lil after that, we was fuccking.
now, with this situation u just described. i woulda did everything else u did, and if she still wasn't having it, i woulda had her give me a blow job. these days, a lot of girls consider a blowjob as nothing. they will tell u they never fucck on the first date but will end up succking u off, and yet they thinnk that make sense.
the point is, next time u are over a chicks house and shes acting standaoffish. get up and bounce. but dont do it in a angry, im pouting cause i aint got no ass, type of way. do it casually on some "aah fuccck this, i got another place i gotto be." it's an attitude women know how to read well.