Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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lol i'll be good once i make the conscious decision to cut her off completely. Once I do that, then I typically dont talk to a chick period.

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Me and my girl been having sex everyday for the past year. I think I need to take a month or so off. Before I met her I was celibate for years. Don't like the p*ssy hound I've become. She doesn't even initiate sex and never did. I'ma just chill for a month. I wonder if she'll initiate or assume I'm sleeping with another woman...
 

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Me and my girl been having sex everyday for the past year. I think I need to take a month or so off. Before I met her I was celibate for years. Don't like the p*ssy hound I've become. She doesn't even initiate sex and never did. I'ma just chill for a month. I wonder if she'll initiate or assume I'm sleeping with another woman...

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the three things a woman can hold over you, beauty, sex, emotional conection :banderas:
 

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Asked for this chicks number on Tinder, she was like "give me urs and Imma call you"...

Now usually I never do this... but I did and she called me. We talked for about 5 min, I told her to meet me in city for drinks on wednesday. Before I hung up I told her to give me her number since she was calling from "Unknown", she said Ill text u...

4 hours later still no text, this bytch playin games or nah?
 

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Asked for this chicks number on Tinder, she was like "give me urs and Imma call you"...

Now usually I never do this... but I did and she called me. We talked for about 5 min, I told her to meet me in city for drinks on wednesday. Before I hung up I told her to give me her number since she was calling from "Unknown", she said Ill text u...

4 hours later still no text, this bytch playin games or nah?
i dont know how yall do this tinder shyt. yall better than me
 

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The problem is that I don't want to be a "bad boy". I hate the idea of putting on an image just to impress some broad. If she doesn't like me for me then fukk her and on to the next. I'd admit that I don't talk that much but it's because I don't feel like talking or don't have much to say.

yup its like i mentioned before, always be yourself

if your quiet to one woman she may take it as if your shy, to another woman she may take it as your mysterious

if your confident to one woman she may take it as confidence to another she may take it as arrogant

if your aggressive to one woman it may be your coming on to strong to another it may be you know what you want

this is why im always myself, take it or leave it :camby:

Rein I agree 100%, but I don't know if Brandeezy is in that "space" based on his story. Maybe he can further explain. If he is quiet but totally at ease with himself when he speaks, he will give off a congruent aura that will be "attractive". However, if he is quiet because he doesn't know what to say or really nervous on the inside the girl is going to pick up on that in a heartbeat.

Brandeezy this isn't about being a "bad boy" it's simply the masculine and feminine roles at play. The masculine that has not embraced the feminine aspect of his own self will always be trying to defend itself. Masculine energy always like things in order, a certain way, or something that can be labeled with the words of the human language. The feminine aspect is creative, spontaneous, and forever seeking. If you're attempting to attract a female, it helps a great deal to know how they think. Just like in sales it helps to know how different customers think.

A woman's mind can be all over the place. Like Rein says one chick could think you're shy and another will think you're mysterious. Hell the same chick could think both of those things about you if she comes in contact with you at different times of the same day based on how she is feeling.

While it's not important to worry how a girl reacts to your advances, it's important for the guy to be self aware of what kind of energy he is giving off when he makes the attempt. The energy is a direct connection to where you are mentally with yourself. Girls might not exactly know what it is, but they sure as hell can pick up on it quick.
 

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I think this bytch is playin me breh, I might not even get anywhere
thats what im saying...i'd be annoyed way too early from tinder.

anyways...shes being an idiot regardless. dont think nothing of it and keep it moving.
 
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