Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Blasian chick spent the night last night. Was with me and my daughter all day today until she had to go to work (3-11pm).

She has no car so I dropped her off and she said she'd catch the bus to a spot about a minute from my crib so it wouldnt be so bad to take my already sleep (1 year old) in the car seat to get her once shes done.

This broad called me nine times within that work shift. 1) I dont like talkin/cakin on the phone all like that 2) I had my daughter that needed my attention and this broad is blowing me up talkin about relationship bullshyt

This broad finally gets off work and says "Guess what...the bus stopped running at 11 so I'm stuck downtown (Atlanta)". No apology for her fukkin up her schedule and inconveniencing me and my lil girl.

So this broad wants me to wake my daughter up, get her dressed for this cold ass rainy weather, and drive to get her from downtown ATL after midnight

I wasnt gonna leave her stranded, but nikka once I got her in the car the only words I said was "You got all your stuff?"

Drove right past my crib and dropped her ass off at HER place. I was already annoyed with her and that was the icing on the cake. Idk or care where it goes from here but this is a moment where most other nikkas would've brought her back to their crib.

I dont have tolerance for bullshyt like that.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

dr phil has said it
The best predictor of future behavior is relevant past behavior

the way a woman treated her ex or left her last relationship , infidelity, already searching for someone knew while in a relationship you can guarantee if things go hard what shes going to do.

yes no girl has a clean slate but some are dirtier than others, none of us are that special

chicks will have you so caught up with sex and raising that dopamine level and then drop how they cheated in the past but its because their bf was a *insert whatever*, but dont worry she wont do it again bla bla


actually eff it i have a story my ex fiance when I met her and just started talking etc. she told me that she didnt even tell her bf in russia she was moving to canada until gasp she was living in canada. of course she told me oh he was psycho and this and that and bla bla , but she knew for like more than a year and never told the dude.

years later she screwed me over by keeping something a secret from me

I think females are just as much or even more egotistical than men are

 

[360dagod]

Blasian chick spent the night last night. Was with me and my daughter all day today until she had to go to work (3-11pm).

She has no car so I dropped her off and she said she'd catch the bus to a spot about a minute from my crib so it wouldnt be so bad to take my already sleep (1 year old) in the car seat to get her once shes done.

This broad called me nine times within that work shift. 1) I dont like talkin/cakin on the phone all like that 2) I had my daughter that needed my attention and this broad is blowing me up talkin about relationship bullshyt

This broad finally gets off work and says "Guess what...the bus stopped running at 11 so I'm stuck downtown (Atlanta)". No apology for her fukkin up her schedule and inconveniencing me and my lil girl.

So this broad wants me to wake my daughter up, get her dressed for this cold ass rainy weather, and drive to get her from downtown ATL after midnight

I wasnt gonna leave her stranded, but nikka once I got her in the car the only words I said was "You got all your stuff?"

Drove right past my crib and dropped her ass off at HER place. I was already annoyed with her and that was the icing on the cake. Idk or care where it goes from here but this is a moment where most other nikkas would've brought her back to their crib.

I dont have tolerance for bullshyt like that.

What are you gonna do with this broad?

 

[The ADD]

What are you gonna do with this broad?

Indeed

 

[casioboy]

One of the best threads on the Internet, period. Some great gems in here.

 

[MikelArteta]

She testing you

How did she get home before she knew you?

Blasian chick spent the night last night. Was with me and my daughter all day today until she had to go to work (3-11pm).

She has no car so I dropped her off and she said she'd catch the bus to a spot about a minute from my crib so it wouldnt be so bad to take my already sleep (1 year old) in the car seat to get her once shes done.

This broad called me nine times within that work shift. 1) I dont like talkin/cakin on the phone all like that 2) I had my daughter that needed my attention and this broad is blowing me up talkin about relationship bullshyt

This broad finally gets off work and says "Guess what...the bus stopped running at 11 so I'm stuck downtown (Atlanta)". No apology for her fukkin up her schedule and inconveniencing me and my lil girl.

So this broad wants me to wake my daughter up, get her dressed for this cold ass rainy weather, and drive to get her from downtown ATL after midnight

I wasnt gonna leave her stranded, but nikka once I got her in the car the only words I said was "You got all your stuff?"

Drove right past my crib and dropped her ass off at HER place. I was already annoyed with her and that was the icing on the cake. Idk or care where it goes from here but this is a moment where most other nikkas would've brought her back to their crib.

I dont have tolerance for bullshyt like that.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Exactly. She texted, "If you didnt wanna come get me you could've said no."

Yet you called me first, making me responsible for yo stranded ass. Nothin I love better than waking my lil one out of her sleep to clothe her, put her in the car seat and then drive after midnight on these ATL highways towards the city

She's too clingy but she's cool with including other women into the fold plus she's got some fine ass friends so she'll stay on the team. Expect some follow up here on how to deal with the "What are we?" question when it comes.


The good thing about the A is that its so spread out. I was supposed to see the Dominican chick w/ 4 kids (found out she's separated, not divorced) but she understood I was busy since shes all the way in Acworth.
*Red flag* On the phone she said, "I had a dream you were gonna ask me to be your girlfriend. I feel it real soon." *Red flag*

 

[MikelArteta]

Exactly. She texted, "If you didnt wanna come get me you could've said no."

Yet you called me first, making me responsible for yo stranded ass. Nothin I love better than waking my lil one out of her sleep to clothe her, put her in the car seat and then drive after midnight on these ATL highways towards the city

She's too clingy but she's cool with including other women into the fold plus she's got some fine ass friends so she'll stay on the team. Expect some follow up here on how to deal with the "What are we?" question when it comes.


The good thing about the A is that its so spread out. I was supposed to see the Dominican chick w/ 4 kids (found out she's separated, not divorced) but she understood I was busy since shes all the way in Acworth.
*Red flag* On the phone she said, "I had a dream you were gonna ask me to be your girlfriend. I feel it real soon." *Red flag*

you got the juice now breh

 

[JackM]

Blasian chick spent the night last night. Was with me and my daughter all day today until she had to go to work (3-11pm).

She has no car so I dropped her off and she said she'd catch the bus to a spot about a minute from my crib so it wouldnt be so bad to take my already sleep (1 year old) in the car seat to get her once shes done.

This broad called me nine times within that work shift. 1) I dont like talkin/cakin on the phone all like that 2) I had my daughter that needed my attention and this broad is blowing me up talkin about relationship bullshyt

This broad finally gets off work and says "Guess what...the bus stopped running at 11 so I'm stuck downtown (Atlanta)". No apology for her fukkin up her schedule and inconveniencing me and my lil girl.

So this broad wants me to wake my daughter up, get her dressed for this cold ass rainy weather, and drive to get her from downtown ATL after midnight

I wasnt gonna leave her stranded, but nikka once I got her in the car the only words I said was "You got all your stuff?"

Drove right past my crib and dropped her ass off at HER place. I was already annoyed with her and that was the icing on the cake. Idk or care where it goes from here but this is a moment where most other nikkas would've brought her back to their crib.

I dont have tolerance for bullshyt like that.

Lose her number.

She seem like a head ache.

 

[Ohene]

@Emperor_ReinScarf and @kevm3 just wanted to tell you guys that you give great insights and opinions on women and its always great to read this thread I feel like I lurked too much on here lol but I learn so much everytime I read this thread just wanted to say thanks for your insights because its been a struggle for me dealing with women in this day in age im 21 i feel like its so hard for men out here especially young black men

no disrespect to the bulls kevm3 and reincar but damn yall need to stop singling them out. It's a ton of guys in here like turbulent, atlrocafella and essentially everyone sharing stories and chiming in yet yall dont wanna give em credit. theres no need to single ppl out...just big up the thread at large and keep it moving

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

*Red flag* On the phone she said, "I had a dream you were gonna ask me to be your girlfriend. I feel it real soon." *Red flag*

The horrible memories this bring back

 

[Nephilim_BC]

Blasian chick spent the night last night. Was with me and my daughter all day today until she had to go to work (3-11pm).

She has no car so I dropped her off and she said she'd catch the bus to a spot about a minute from my crib so it wouldnt be so bad to take my already sleep (1 year old) in the car seat to get her once shes done.

This broad called me nine times within that work shift. 1) I dont like talkin/cakin on the phone all like that 2) I had my daughter that needed my attention and this broad is blowing me up talkin about relationship bullshyt

This broad finally gets off work and says "Guess what...the bus stopped running at 11 so I'm stuck downtown (Atlanta)". No apology for her fukkin up her schedule and inconveniencing me and my lil girl.

So this broad wants me to wake my daughter up, get her dressed for this cold ass rainy weather, and drive to get her from downtown ATL after midnight

I wasnt gonna leave her stranded, but nikka once I got her in the car the only words I said was "You got all your stuff?"

Drove right past my crib and dropped her ass off at HER place. I was already annoyed with her and that was the icing on the cake. Idk or care where it goes from here but this is a moment where most other nikkas would've brought her back to their crib.

I dont have tolerance for bullshyt like that.

I feel you on that no tolerance stuff. I can take a chick out to eat and she can say or do something to make me mad soon as we take a seat and ill quickly get back up and take her home. Left this girl at a walmart nearby once to wait for a taxi after her ride apparently canceled after we were done at the movies. She lived far and I wasnt about to drive all the way back on the other side of town. She did that on purpose. As grimey as that was I did simp a bit and leave her some cash for that trip

 

[Nephilim_BC]

no disrespect to the bulls kevm3 and reincar but damn yall need to stop singling them out. It's a ton of guys in here like turbulent, atlrocafella and essentially everyone sharing stories and chiming in yet yall dont wanna give em credit. theres no need to single ppl out...just big up the thread at large and keep it moving

Emp do be preaching that ether tho

 

[MikelArteta]

Pretty much everyone drops stuff

no disrespect to the bulls kevm3 and reincar but damn yall need to stop singling them out. It's a ton of guys in here like turbulent, atlrocafella and essentially everyone sharing stories and chiming in yet yall dont wanna give em credit. theres no need to single ppl out...just big up the thread at large and keep it moving

 

[Captsmackabeat]

Don't test those waters, your girl gonna end up leaving you for that new girlfriend.

I didn't want to test those waters yet but last night was a crazy night.. I got to give y'all a quick review of the last three months of my relationship.

Dec 2014

I always knew my girlfriend was bi sexual from day one but she decides to come out the closet to me about 3 weeks before Christmas ( we been together 3.years so far), So she goes on to explain that she always wanted to have a polygamous relationship with myself and another woman but she had to make sure I was the right to start this relationship with. So I am already thinking to myself these hoes ain't loyal type shyt in back of my head, but by the end of the conversation we have agreed that we can go find this woman you seek.

Two weeks later we end up pulling a bad as chick that seem to be down for the cause, We met decided to met up at this open Mic night in the middle of the hood.


As a few hours pass by my gf comes to the conclusion we been stood by this bytch in the hood.. this part of night was funny to me because the did was spinning that Kevin Gate's song " I am in my feelings

I was like let's chill for the rest of tonight because the birch ain't worth it . Let's focus on having a good time . We decided to hit up the waffle house and afterwards we will get a telly . No need to get a d.u.i ,

While waiting on this slow Ass cook to get my food
The Bad birch call my girl and came up with some bullshyt game she couldn't make it but still wants to met up at 1 in the am at the telly we got.

After we made our way to telly , We forgot about the bytch and she call during as I smashing, so I gave her the address to the telly , while gf took backshoots

Bish was knocking on the door of telly room in 30 or less minutes talking about her back hurts and hops in the shower with a night bag. 10 minutes later said bytch in the bed with my girl talking about she needs somebody to rub her feet

I pass the blunt to that hoe and hop my ass in bed

I was blind before brehs but know I see. I have a new profound respect for the song by Future Da God at At The Same Damn Time