Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

I see. I just dont want us brehs getting caught up in this sunk cost fallacy.....no matter what. In this case, she went thru his phone and invaded his privacy. That shows a lack of
Respect
Trust
so we stick around(not all ) cause we feel we "messed" up and she found something she had no business of finding. So, its our phone. So now we keep trying to earn her trust back,.......when in reality she is supposed to be earning your trust back. SUNK COST FALLACY lot of em there are masters at making you feel guilty bout stuff, or making us feel guilty for endijg the relationship.....so we hold on, thinking it's gone get better. Thinking its gone pay off in tge future, because of all this " work and money and time and resources" you invested in the relationship. Sunk cost fallacy. That's why I CLAIM to say in any ship......Relation, Partner, Friend. Keep it tight brehs....and take care

Believe me dog. I never snoop through girls stuff and they shouldnt with me. I'm get why people might find it hard to trust one another but I'm the most loyal cat in relationships. shyt is insulting

 

[jeh]

Believe me dog. I never snoop through girls stuff and they shouldnt with me. I'm get why people might find it hard to trust one another but I'm the most loyal cat in relationships. shyt is insulting

No doubt fam. Loyalty is good, loyalty is worth more than wealth.

 

[MikelArteta]

I keylogged one chick ever when I was pissing razor blades

But do I check up on my investments ala Facebook Instagram?

Yeah I'll go through it

You be keylogging though. Hypocritical fam

 

[bullygohard1]

Alright brehs fukk it I don't usually.do this but a nikka is trippin right now

Backstory mixed with cliffs

Been with bytch for two years before let's just say I was away for 5 almost 6 months

Back now but bytch went through phone while I was gone and found some bullshyt

Now bytch questioning me and thinks I was doing shyt before I got.into my lil situation(did only once tho)

bytch stayed with me but now.we ain't living together at the moment like used to , she been living apart and doing things seperate ( we far away right now)and shyt n it's something I'm not used to anyways , had to tell her look I'm sorry for what I did and I'm.trying to.be a way better dude and make shyt work

Now she expects me to.Chase and told me I hurt her and it's gonna take a while to trust me again , calls.me and texts me tho

Well yesterday we was talking small talk and I hit her with a message which ain't need to really be responded to.and she didn't ... So I say fukk it I already called her when she was mad and not.talk tome and I never do that but it seem like she wants me to chase her and appear desperate.. fukk that , so we ain't talk.last night and I.ain't say shyt today , and just got.a text talmbout some "hey baby what u doin" now this bytch ain't respond or.call yesterday but want to.text me night time with this shyt. Question is what do I do , say fukk it and hit her back or just wait it out and get back at her when I'm ready I'm not tryna seem to available cuz that shyt kill attraction , but I brought this shyt upon myself what do I do my nikkas ??

Edit : fukked on vday she came seen me then wanted me to chase so we didn't talk until she ended up.calling me even tho I told her hit me somehow it was me who was supposed to.call

She had no business going thru your phone. Cut her loose. Relationships, partnerships, friendships so on and so forth. One of the key ingre is trust. And get rid of any and every thing that reminds you of her.

Good looking bro it's been hard but I ain't text back to that shyt she sent last night ..since we been talkin I feel she been tryna play too cool now henced why she taking a while to.respond at times , prolly got.nikkas gassing her up and I ain't bout to fight for a broad had nerve to tell me she wants me to stalk her to show I care WTF.. even though I fukked up it's either we try it or I roll and it seems like she wants to text me when she get ready make me feel like she's moving on so ima do the same , good look coli brehtold me it was gonna be a while before she can feel the same cuz of what she found but I feel like that prolly what fukked me.up and I'm.waistin time tryna patch shyt up.anyway

 

[jeh]

Good looking bro it's been hard but I ain't text back to that shyt she sent last night ..since we been talkin I feel she been tryna play too cool now henced why she taking a while to.respond at times , prolly got.nikkas gassing her up and I ain't bout to fight for a broad had nerve to tell me she wants me to stalk her to show I care WTF.. even though I fukked up it's either we try it or I roll and it seems like she wants to text me when she get ready make me feel like she's moving on so ima do the same , good look coli brehtold me it was gonna be a while before she can feel the same cuz of what she found but I feel like that prolly what fukked me.up and I'm.waistin time tryna patch shyt up.anyway

It's all good. Different reasons for different seasons, its women out here that will be there for all four you dig.

 

[bullygohard1]

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[jeh]

Jeh need your help bra . So I'm sitting here watching the game try a keep it pushing like a real nikka and now I get a text talmbout some hey wtf!!... cuz I ain't respond to her message since she likes to take her time ... How do I go about telling her to just fukk it without fuking up because she has a lot of my stuff too and I need her to drop it off before I cut it off .. talmbout clothes shoes , ps4 , hundreds of dollars worth of.cologne ... and can u give me an idea Wat she even wants with me bro I literally can't do shyt for her right now and I know she been chilling and living her own life why can't I just be left alone fam??? Seem like it ain't phase her to not talk to me the rest of previous said day now she trippin I ain't tryna respond...smh

Breaking up is hard enough. The hardest part of breaking up is getting back your stuff. If you really absolutely want and your belongings, go get it. If its not that big of a deal. Fukk it. I would tell her do what you want it as my final text, then tell her to leave me alone(add her number to spam so you wont check it)
Cause right now somebody wearing your clothes, walking around with your cologne on, and playing your ps4. Best believe that. Dignity doesn't come with a price tag. She is using YOUR STUFF AS A BARGAINING CHIP to text you when she wants, calls you when she wants. Eliminate the chip, your stuff, tell her to do what you want with it I don't care. And move on.

If you do want your stuff......then can you get it? Like right now or have someone you trust to pick it up. Ask her to mail it too you? And be less threatening verbally about it, cause she wants you to lose your cool. Be cool breh. Now that you see what she's about, don't play her game. And don't play games with her. she invaded your privacy, remember.

 

[bullygohard1]

Breaking up is hard enough. The hardest part of breaking up is getting back your stuff. If you really absolutely want and your belongings, go get it. If its not that big of a deal. Fukk it. I would tell her do what you want it as my final text, then tell her to leave me alone(add her number to spam so you wont check it)
Cause right now somebody wearing your clothes, walking around with your cologne on, and playing your ps4. Best believe that. Dignity doesn't come with a price tag. She is using YOUR STUFF AS A BARGAINING CHIP to text you when she wants, calls you when she wants. Eliminate the chip, your stuff, tell her to do what you want with it I don't care. And move on.

If you do want your stuff......then can you get it? Like right now or have someone you trust to pick it up. Ask her to mail it too you? And be less threatening verbally about it, cause she wants you to lose your cool. Be cool breh. Now that you see what she's about, don't play her game. And don't play games with her. she invaded your privacy, remember.

True right now none of my shyt is even with her it's at her grandmother's house ... She staying with her mom right now so she don't even have it on hand , maybe I can just have them drop it off as she don't even have my shyt to drop.off so nobody betta have my shyt lbs... U rite tho bro I ain't with those games and I was really.tryna right myself until she keep.playing games with me she is semi slow anyway so I'm pretty sure she just wants me to.blow her up and ask her wtf is taking so long but it seems like she's the one tripping once she sees I'm not bout to rush to hit her if we on takin our time I'm not bout that life .. never have been it takes two to try and two can play

 

[jeh]

True right now none of my shyt is even with her it's at her grandmother's house ... She staying with her mom right now so she don't even have it on hand , maybe I can just have them drop it off as she don't even have my shyt to drop.off so nobody betta have my shyt lbs... U rite tho bro I ain't with those games and I was really.tryna right myself until she keep.playing games with me she is semi slow anyway so I'm pretty sure she just wants me to.blow her up and ask her wtf is taking so long but it seems like she's the one tripping once she sees I'm not bout to rush to hit her if we on takin our time I'm not bout that life .. never have been it takes two to try and two can play

I see where you coming from now. She just wants attention man. Stop giving it to her. Add her text to the blacklist/ and or spam folder and chill. Aint nothing to talk about Breh. Sunk cost fallacy. Thats all.

 

[MikelArteta]

Breaking up is hard enough. The hardest part of breaking up is getting back your stuff. If you really absolutely want and your belongings, go get it. If its not that big of a deal. Fukk it. I would tell her do what you want it as my final text, then tell her to leave me alone(add her number to spam so you wont check it)
Cause right now somebody wearing your clothes, walking around with your cologne on, and playing your ps4. Best believe that. Dignity doesn't come with a price tag. She is using YOUR STUFF AS A BARGAINING CHIP to text you when she wants, calls you when she wants. Eliminate the chip, your stuff, tell her to do what you want with it I don't care. And move on.

If you do want your stuff......then can you get it? Like right now or have someone you trust to pick it up. Ask her to mail it too you? And be less threatening verbally about it, cause she wants you to lose your cool. Be cool breh. Now that you see what she's about, don't play her game. And don't play games with her. she invaded your privacy, remember.

this is the truth, my ex owed me money and that was the reason she had to talk to me, she knew I would keep asking for it and she would keep bsing about next month, so for my peace of mind I just said screw it. Peace of mind>>>>>>>>

in regards ot clothes and ps4 id get a friend to go tell her to leave them outside in a box and get the friend to pick it up

 

[The ADD]

My ex was pregnant with another nikka's baby while we were dating...bytch had the nerve to fake taking the Plan B pill when I went raw on New Year's. Think she was pregnant by the cac who hit her ass in the last relationship (reason for breakup). I'm over the broad...just hearing the news from a reliable source. shyt adds up....the signs were there. bytch talked about desping cheaters, but does it herself. To be continued if she tries to flip the child on me.

 

[The ADD]

True right now none of my shyt is even with her it's at her grandmother's house ... She staying with her mom right now so she don't even have it on hand , maybe I can just have them drop it off as she don't even have my shyt to drop.off so nobody betta have my shyt lbs... U rite tho bro I ain't with those games and I was really.tryna right myself until she keep.playing games with me she is semi slow anyway so I'm pretty sure she just wants me to.blow her up and ask her wtf is taking so long but it seems like she's the one tripping once she sees I'm not bout to rush to hit her if we on takin our time I'm not bout that life .. never have been it takes two to try and two can play

Sounds like you are over it. Your stuff might be collateral damage.

Get as clean of a break as you can.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Dropped the Dominican and Chick #3. Too far away from the city.

Gonna keep the Blasian around. I only have enough time for 2-3 women at a time so they must have a vehicle and live close.

 

[TRUEST]

Believe me dog. I never snoop through girls stuff and they shouldnt with me. I'm get why people might find it hard to trust one another but I'm the most loyal cat in relationships. shyt is insulting

this isn't something to be proud of, especially in this day in age. u better do ur research on the women u date lest u be faced with unappealing scenarios.

 

[Ohene]

this isn't something to be proud of, especially in this day in age. u better do ur research on the women u date lest u be faced with unappealing scenarios.

Not a matter of pride. Ill creep a broad facebook, twitter feed and all that using google...but I aint going through the effort to crack her passwords and check all that private phone/inbox stuff.

if I have an uneasy feeling I'll dead it and If I'm getting jerked I just hope I catch it before its too late. Any smart cheater knows to delete all their private messages and stuff regardless. Cant be bothered