Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Virtuous_Brotha]

for one of the first times ever im on the receiving end of a chick always initiating contact and texting multiple times a day shyt is kinda make sure the effort and feelings are mutual brehs cause damn having someone you aint feeling like that constantly hitting you up is annoying as hell i can see why these bytches take so long with there replies

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm shooting a wedding on Saturday my first gig

Get married brehs, just a couple at my church who don't have the funds to o hire a photographer. So just going to help em out

 

[jeh]

for one of the first times ever im on the receiving end of a chick always initiating contact and texting multiple times a day shyt is kinda make sure the effort and feelings are mutual brehs cause damn having someone you aint feeling like that constantly hitting you up is annoying as hell i can see why these bytches take so long with there replies

Story of my life....my lady friend is 23 and she texts me asap. Calls me back when she say she is. Its a breath of fresh air, to me. She knows when im busy, to chill on the hounding and stuff. plus shes busy with school, papers and whatnot trying to maintain those good grades. But yeah, some guys wonder why it takes a chick to respond when your texting back and forth one minute, then the next she disappear. Lol until you interact with a woman who respond to your text and calls expeditiously. but some enjoy the taste of something sweet since they're used to bitter taste of fruit. And vice versa. I have a system I use regarding text so it doesn't go stale

 

[Swing]

I'm shooting a wedding on Saturday my first gig

Get married brehs, just a couple at my church who don't have the funds to o hire a photographer. So just going to help em out

"Say 'Get Married Brehs' "

 

[Jahmal]

Like when a chick told me she doesn't talk to her ex she hates him bla bla and his name was jamal then im at her house watching a movie and its late and her phone rings and it says @Jamal on the call display

Those damn Jamal/Jahmal's are slimey muthfruckkaz

 

[Music Fiend]

Not a matter of pride. Ill creep a broad facebook, twitter feed and all that using google...but I aint going through the effort to crack her passwords and check all that private phone/inbox stuff.

if I have an uneasy feeling I'll dead it and If I'm getting jerked I just hope I catch it before its too late. Any smart cheater knows to delete all their private messages and stuff regardless. Cant be bothered

Preach. I was just talking about loggin into my old girls IG. Almost snooped but couldn't do it.

I'm beginning to believe its best not to know what they do or who they're talking to or smashing, hell or even how they think.

But that feeling of knowing you lost or losing is <<<< . You don't wanna go to crazy lengths like snooping, and you don't wanna believe every hunch, but that confusion is ether.

 

[Brandsdale]

I did a keylogger before and it was smart that I did because she gave me a std and was telling the other dude to get checked.

As well I found out she had a second fb where I didn't exist and was writing long ass emails .

Now I still trust and verify I don't have fb or any social media accounts but yeah if I'm talking to or messing with a chick I'll check just a quick overview

If I'm with a girl I'll purposely leave my phone in the car and be like hey can I use yours to check a score and if she hesitstes

Just little things like that.


I'm much more calmer and wiser now though and go with my gut plus I'm like Colombo I cling to every word and phrase women will mess up. Ala she will tell you oh I wasn't feeling well had a headache just stayed home then a month later your out at Walmart together and your like damn this is a nice photo and she's like I even got a better one on my phone when I went out Friday last month





Like when a chick told me she doesn't talk to her ex she hates him bla bla and his name was jamal then im at her house watching a movie and its late and her phone rings and it says @Jamal on the call display

I've been doing this past few weeks for just overall stuff not just females and as simplistic as it sounds its the best solution. You gut is almost a connection feeling to your emotions. Probably why people get mad or irritable when really hungry or joyous when full. I've ignored my gut last year talking to a chic i was really into and look where it got me

 

[MikelArteta]

I've been doing this past few weeks for just overall stuff not just females and as simplistic as it sounds its the best solution. You gut is almost a connection feeling to your emotions. Probably why people get mad or irritable when really hungry or joyous when full. I've ignored my gut last year talking to a chic i was really into and look where it got me

your gut is the best.
Whenever I feel something is off it usually is, now I go with it, if I di in the past it would save me so much heatache.

 

[MikelArteta]

Preach. I was just talking about loggin into my old girls IG. Almost snooped but couldn't do it.

I'm beginning to believe its best not to know what they do or who they're talking to or smashing, hell or even how they think.

But that feeling of knowing you lost or losing is <<<< . You don't wanna go to crazy lengths like snooping, and you don't wanna believe every hunch, but that confusion is ether.

for like 6 months id regularly check my exes facebook , go through all the new friends she was adding, go through all the pics, and all it did was set me back every day Id'd see things I didn't want to see but I kept doing it like a crack addict.

trust me its better not knowing


to me there is nothing wrong with checking up on your investment, a public instagram is a public instagram, a facebook acount that is open , a tumblr etc.

 

[Soundbwoy]

I met this dope russian chick on friday we had a cool convo the only turn off if that she smokes cigarettes, I didnt take her number because I know im going to run into her as we have friends in common

 

[OGBobbyJohnson]

Story of my life....my lady friend is 23 and she texts me asap. Calls me back when she say she is. Its a breath of fresh air, to me. She knows when im busy, to chill on the hounding and stuff. plus shes busy with school, papers and whatnot trying to maintain those good grades. But yeah, some guys wonder why it takes a chick to respond when your texting back and forth one minute, then the next she disappear. Lol until you interact with a woman who respond to your text and calls expeditiously. but some enjoy the taste of something sweet since they're used to bitter taste of fruit. And vice versa. I have a system I use regarding text so it doesn't go stale

Whats The System

 

[jeh]

Whats The System

Do you have a mobile phone, and if so what kind?

 

[Bless't]

your gut is the best.
Whenever I feel something is off it usually is, now I go with it, if I di in the past it would save me so much heatache.

ALWAYS trust your gut fellas. Always.

 

[kevm3]

The less time and effort you put into worrying about women, the better. That's not to say 'don't deal with them.' It's to say if the majority of your day is spent either worrying about or strategizing about procuring this or that woman, you're doing things wrong. When you have your life together, women start strategizing on being with you. You really don't want to come from a position where you're the one who is chasing. You need to put yourself in a position where it's YOU who are filtering out the women you come across.

Never let any woman so consume your thoughts that they can completely alter your mood and ruin your day. If they aren't bringing more joy than headaches, she has to go.

 

[The Mad Titan]

The less time and effort you put into worrying about women, the better. That's not to say 'don't deal with them.' It's to say if the majority of your day is spent either worrying about or strategizing about procuring this or that woman, you're doing things wrong. When you have your life together, women start strategizing on being with you. You really don't want to come from a position where you're the one who is chasing. You need to put yourself in a position where it's YOU who are filtering out the women you come across.

Never let any woman so consume your thoughts that they can completely alter your mood and ruin your day. If they aren't bringing more joy than headaches, she has to go.

This is the truth, while I never put women 1st on my list (even when I had one that I really should have more so at a point) I've always kinda worried about "the next one" or "getting it right" Since I haven't been doing that its like my head is clear, and my thoughts and judgement are far less impaired. You'd be surprised how much you do to please or appease women subconsciously.


My current situation is tricky, but I legit care for the person so we will see where this goes. I'm all for it but a number of things make it difficult to the point where most guys probably wouldn't get involved especially emotionally.


But yeah,@kevm3 is 100 percent correct. If you question it from him, take it from me, a brother that has been around the block. Focus on you bettering yourself and you will attract women, usually decent ones at that.