Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Lo-Co]

To me its not worth it, but you keep trying hoping to find that one gem.

I keep thinking what are these women bringing to the table and minus a pretty face and vagina that a bunch of dudes already got .

Dating should be effortless but I know what you mean the paranoia I've been in relationships where I was told I love you bla bka Sunday night and Monday morning we need to talln

I was talking to this broad whose 31 and I just stopped. 31 she looks good for her age no kids but she's a barista at Starbucks and I'm suppose to chase after this?

these days its like females want so much from a man but wont bring just as much to the table. honestly, i feel like i have a few things to offer a woman, but i dont feel like my catalog of what i offer isnt enough so i observe

and learn. plus conversation isnt my best suit. unless i really know the person. and its like women dont even try to hold up their side of the conversation. like jumping through these flaming hoops isnt good enough?

this game is more crazy than i expected. i feel like marriage is something i wont consider seeing the failed marriages ive seen in my family. its just not worth it. but im positive theres someone that feels the same way.

and kids are something im not sure about.

 

[MikelArteta]

I know what you mean man. Even these "good girls" you get a look at their instagram and its just

these days its like females want so much from a man but wont bring just as much to the table. honestly, i feel like i have a few things to offer a woman, but i dont feel like my catalog of what i offer isnt enough so i observe

and learn. plus conversation isnt my best suit. unless i really know the person. and its like women dont even try to hold up their side of the conversation. like jumping through these flaming hoops isnt good enough?

this game is more crazy than i expected. i feel like marriage is something i wont consider seeing the failed marriages ive seen in my family. its just not worth it. but im positive theres someone that feels the same way.

and kids are something im not sure about.

 

[Youseenmywork]

"If you need to hunt for women because women aren't drawn to you, you/your life sucks. That's why I never liked PUA. Wrong focus."

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[DaHNIC82]

This whole thing with Chris Brown leads me to believe that a lot of women
Personally get THRILLS out of situations like how Chris got her. They cry in front of social media and white media but yet would let that same nikka blow that back out a day later

 

[Rocket Scientist]

A pretty female with baggage is like that great athlete that spent their prime years on a bad team (in female case chasing thugs),then by time you get her she can only give you a shell of herself

 

[Youseenmywork]

"Women spend most of their lives trying to find the ultimate man, "the knight in shining armour" so when you're happy single, they're pissed".


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[Youseenmywork]

"Never give a woman too much of yourself. It will ruin you. Always hold a substantial portion of who you are back and lock that shyt up tight"


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[MikelArteta]

This whole thing with Chris Brown leads me to believe that a lot of women
Personally get THRILLS out of situations like how Chris got her. They cry in front of social media and white media but yet would let that same nikka blow that back out a day later

she will be back to chris brown, women love when men pin over them, once breezy doesnt give a damn anymore or is smashing some other chicks she will be back, alot of women love dysfunction and drama and chris brown gives that

 

[Mike Ock]

these days its like females want so much from a man but wont bring just as much to the table. honestly, i feel like i have a few things to offer a woman, but i dont feel like my catalog of what i offer isnt enough so i observe

and learn. plus conversation isnt my best suit. unless i really know the person. and its like women dont even try to hold up their side of the conversation. like jumping through these flaming hoops isnt good enough?

this game is more crazy than i expected. i feel like marriage is something i wont consider seeing the failed marriages ive seen in my family. its just not worth it. but im positive theres someone that feels the same way.

and kids are something im not sure about.

Your selling yourself short. Not sure how old you are, but there's gonna be a point in your life where you're just going to feel totally comfortable with yourself and know who you are. When chiks see you are comfortable with yourself, they will gravitate towards you...hell, a lot of people that you come in contact in general will gravitate towards you.

I'm 31 now, but it wasn't till I say about 26 or 27, when I just stopped overthinking shyt with females and just enjoyed the ride. i had a lot of hookups in my 20's then got to a point where I realized that all p*ssy feels the same. The thought of getting some no longer got me to act out of character and loose my cool. Girls really began to gravitate towards me then. I'm not even an arrogant dude but I started letting girls know that they are not the center of my life. I had no problem not communicating with them again. But if you meet someone and things are heading the right direction, you will instinctively feel if its worth it (this might come after intercourse). But i'm realizing reciprocation is the key.

 

[Lo-Co]

Your selling yourself short. Not sure how old you are, but there's gonna be a point in your life where you're just going to feel totally comfortable with yourself and know who you are. When chiks see you are comfortable with yourself, they will gravitate towards you...hell, a lot of people that you come in contact in general will gravitate towards you.

I'm 31 now, but it wasn't till I say about 26 or 27, when I just stopped overthinking shyt with females and just enjoyed the ride. i had a lot of hookups in my 20's then got to a point where I realized that all p*ssy feels the same. The thought of getting some no longer got me to act out of character and loose my cool. Girls really began to gravitate towards me then. I'm not even an arrogant dude but I started letting girls know that they are not the center of my life. I had no problem not communicating with them again. But if you meet someone and things are heading the right direction, you will instinctively feel if its worth it (this might come after intercourse). But i'm realizing reciprocation is the key.

well i just turned 20 less than a month ago. and ive been like this since i was about 13. i hinder myself a lot. and i know im worth something and im someone in this world.

 

[TheSpook]

Whenever you deal with women you have to attack them like you play chess. You know what move you want to do so once you see what their strategy is you have to gauge whether you want to get the game over with fast aka fukk her ASAP (win or lose) or if you actually enjoy the game (you really like the competition/challenge). In both instances though we need to stop lying to these women. If you want to fukk let it be known, just not too overtly. If you enjoy her company then you need to show that by not acting super horny because youre fukking up the mental connection youre trying to get as soon as you fukk.

I hope yall understand all that.lol

 

[RealAssanova]

@Asantehene do you have an older sister doing her masters breh?

 

[Ohene]

@Asantehene do you have an older sister doing her masters breh?

nah why...masters in what..where

 

[EQ.]

Whenever you deal with women you have to attack them like you play chess. You know what move you want to do so once you see what their strategy is you have to gauge whether you want to get the game over with fast aka fukk her ASAP (win or lose) or if you actually enjoy the game (you really like the competition/challenge). In both instances though we need to stop lying to these women. If you want to fukk let it be known, just not too overtly. If you enjoy her company then you need to show that by not acting super horny because youre fukking up the mental connection youre trying to get as soon as you fukk.

I hope yall understand all that.lol

Regarding letting them know that you wanna smash i say let em know overtly. Females already know guys want to smash so cut to the chase and see where her head is at. I remember being told by several females that they knew within 10 secs (maybe less) if they wanted to sleep with a guy , so work smarter not harder. Let her know what it is your looking to get from her and let the chips fall where they may.

 

[TheSpook]

Regarding letting them know that you wanna smash i say let em know overtly. Females already know guys want to smash so cut to the chase and see where her head is at. I remember being told by several females that they knew within 10 secs (maybe less) if they wanted to sleep with a guy , so work smarter not harder. Let her know what it is your looking to get from her and let the chips fall where they may.

You're right. Just sometimes you want the challenge of mind control even with a freak. Instead of just getting straight to the point. Majority of the time if you just want to fukk i agree.