Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I used to think that if a woman talked about another guy she was trying to make me jealous or like step up reinscarf. Then I realized it more than likely your friend zoned. Women that were interested in me made me feel like I was the only man in their world
what if they start asking you if your particular friend is a girl or guy. For instance, i tell a girl that i'm helping a female friend move. Then she will ask "is she a romantic friend or something?" and also i tell her that a friend of mine is coming from out of town and wants to hang out. Then she'll ask "is your friend a guy or girl?"

what the meaning behind these questions? is she trying to throw me a bone or something
 

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what if they start asking you if your particular friend is a girl or guy. For instance, i tell a girl that i'm helping a female friend move. Then she will ask "is she a romantic friend or something?" and also i tell her that a friend of mine is coming from out of town and wants to hang out. Then she'll ask "is your friend a guy or girl?"

what the meaning behind these questions? is she trying to throw me a bone or something

well thats different, your portraying you have a life and options. However it can mean two things, my ex didnt want me but when she found out I was talking to a chick or had a date she hated it, even though she was canoodling with other dudes, many women even if they view you as a "friend" even if there sucking mad dikk and sleeping around, they want you to remain in their "web". Yes im sleeping with so and so and were onyl friends, but how dare you reinscarf how dare you go on adate.

the other side is she can be interested in you and jealous, until you step up and say ask her out you wont know your answer
 

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I became really good friends with a girl at my work (we been friends now for a few years outside of work) and I know all about her history and her about mine. I'm fine with it. I do find her to be attractive, she's real fit but the thought has never crossed my mind for several reasons. Anyway, the last month our conversations have been strange. One day she'll be talkin about some other dude she been talkin to or going on a date with and I'm always like :ehh: because like I said I do my own thing but then we'll have other convos and out of nowhere she'll reference how good I look and make like sexual comments (this wasn't happening at all throughout our friendship until now).

What's this about? :francis:


She got done ran through, now she is looking for a good guy to settle down and have a family.
 

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I had this church conference I attended today and something the pastor said.

TD Jakes had his church for years in west Virginia

1990: Moves church from Smithers to South Charleston, West Virginia, and the congregation grows from 100 to 300.


1996 Moves his family and leads 50 other families from West Virginia to establish The Potter’s House in Dallas, Texas, where they occupy the former Eagle’s Nest church building.
The first church service at The Potter’s House draws more than 2,000 people.


He was talking about environments how :ohlawd: was preaching the same was just as talented, but his environment was just not conducive for him to achieve the level of success he was destined to.

@kevm3 has said something like this previously
 

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I had this church conference I attended today and something the pastor said.

TD Jakes had his church for years in west Virginia

1990: Moves church from Smithers to South Charleston, West Virginia, and the congregation grows from 100 to 300.


1996 Moves his family and leads 50 other families from West Virginia to establish The Potter’s House in Dallas, Texas, where they occupy the former Eagle’s Nest church building.
The first church service at The Potter’s House draws more than 2,000 people.


He was talking about environments how :ohlawd: was preaching the same was just as talented, but his environment was just not conducive for him to achieve the level of success he was destined to.

@kevm3 has said something like this previously

I think ultimately, we got to realize that where we start at isn't where we have to finish. Just because you've lived there most of your life doesn't mean that it's home for you. The real question about a location is would you rather be out and about enjoying the location or would you prefer staying indoors and being on some form of electronics. If it's the latter, you might not be in the location for you.
 

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Brehs I just got out to LA and what people told me is true. It's hard as hell to know wtf is going on if you're not connected. I have no problem rolling solo but I only got 11 weeks here so I aint tryna waste too much time.

I finally broke down and created an OKCupid profile. We'll see where this takes me. I'm not even on some "smash and dash" shyt. I ironically have met some really cool people (who later became legit friends) on dating sites. :ohhh:

Of course I've smashed some too. :stopitslime: But that's not really anything worth bragging about.

Don't sleep on meeting people on dating sites btw. I got a friend from Tinder who upgraded my flight through her United points last summer. First time I ever rode in first class brehs. :mjcry:
 

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Heard LA is expensive as hell

Should have done the tinder/dating site beforehand that's what I always do when I travel or go away, set up something beforehand just not smashinf but you can meet interesting folks.



Brehs I just got out to LA and what people told me is true. It's hard as hell to know wtf is going on if you're not connected. I have no problem rolling solo but I only got 11 weeks here so I aint tryna waste too much time.

I finally broke down and created an OKCupid profile. We'll see where this takes me. I'm not even on some "smash and dash" shyt. I ironically have met some really cool people (who later became legit friends) on dating sites. :ohhh:

Of course I've smashed some too. :stopitslime: But that's not really anything worth bragging about.

Don't sleep on meeting people on dating sites btw. I got a friend from Tinder who upgraded my flight through her United points last summer. First time I ever rode in first class brehs. :mjcry:
 

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Brehs I just got out to LA and what people told me is true. It's hard as hell to know wtf is going on if you're not connected. I have no problem rolling solo but I only got 11 weeks here so I aint tryna waste too much time.

I finally broke down and created an OKCupid profile. We'll see where this takes me. I'm not even on some "smash and dash" shyt. I ironically have met some really cool people (who later became legit friends) on dating sites. :ohhh:

Of course I've smashed some too. :stopitslime: But that's not really anything worth bragging about.

Don't sleep on meeting people on dating sites btw. I got a friend from Tinder who upgraded my flight through her United points last summer. First time I ever rode in first class brehs. :mjcry:


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Heard LA is expensive as hell

Should have done the tinder/dating site beforehand that's what I always do when I travel or go away, set up something beforehand just not smashinf but you can meet interesting folks.

I know. :snoop: I really should have done recon in advance. I got a decent network of folks from here so I just started hitting up folks like, "Yo I'm in the house on a Friday night. Put me in touch with some cool people" in addition to the online mining.
 
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