Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I know what you mean man. Even these "good girls" you get a look at their instagram and its just :snoop:




ThatGuyloco said:
these days its like females want so much from a man but wont bring just as much to the table. honestly, i feel like i have a few things to offer a woman, but i dont feel like my catalog of what i offer isnt enough so i observe

and learn. plus conversation isnt my best suit. unless i really know the person. and its like women dont even try to hold up their side of the conversation. like jumping through these flaming hoops isnt good enough?

this game is more crazy than i expected. i feel like marriage is something i wont consider seeing the failed marriages ive seen in my family. its just not worth it. but im positive theres someone that feels the same way.

and kids are something im not sure about.
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This whole thing with Chris Brown leads me to believe that a lot of women
Personally get THRILLS out of situations like how Chris got her. They cry in front of social media and white media but yet would let that same nikka blow that back out a day later
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she will be back to chris brown, women love when men pin over them, once breezy doesnt give a damn anymore or is smashing some other chicks she will be back, alot of women love dysfunction and drama and chris brown gives that
 
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ThatGuyloco said:
these days its like females want so much from a man but wont bring just as much to the table. honestly, i feel like i have a few things to offer a woman, but i dont feel like my catalog of what i offer isnt enough so i observe

and learn. plus conversation isnt my best suit. unless i really know the person. and its like women dont even try to hold up their side of the conversation. like jumping through these flaming hoops isnt good enough?

this game is more crazy than i expected. i feel like marriage is something i wont consider seeing the failed marriages ive seen in my family. its just not worth it. but im positive theres someone that feels the same way.

and kids are something im not sure about.
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Your selling yourself short. Not sure how old you are, but there's gonna be a point in your life where you're just going to feel totally comfortable with yourself and know who you are. When chiks see you are comfortable with yourself, they will gravitate towards you...hell, a lot of people that you come in contact in general will gravitate towards you.

I'm 31 now, but it wasn't till I say about 26 or 27, when I just stopped overthinking shyt with females and just enjoyed the ride. i had a lot of hookups in my 20's then got to a point where I realized that all p*ssy feels the same. The thought of getting some no longer got me to act out of character and loose my cool. Girls really began to gravitate towards me then. I'm not even an arrogant dude but I started letting girls know that they are not the center of my life. I had no problem not communicating with them again. But if you meet someone and things are heading the right direction, you will instinctively feel if its worth it (this might come after intercourse). But i'm realizing reciprocation is the key.
 
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Mike Ock said:
Your selling yourself short. Not sure how old you are, but there's gonna be a point in your life where you're just going to feel totally comfortable with yourself and know who you are. When chiks see you are comfortable with yourself, they will gravitate towards you...hell, a lot of people that you come in contact in general will gravitate towards you.

I'm 31 now, but it wasn't till I say about 26 or 27, when I just stopped overthinking shyt with females and just enjoyed the ride. i had a lot of hookups in my 20's then got to a point where I realized that all p*ssy feels the same. The thought of getting some no longer got me to act out of character and loose my cool. Girls really began to gravitate towards me then. I'm not even an arrogant dude but I started letting girls know that they are not the center of my life. I had no problem not communicating with them again. But if you meet someone and things are heading the right direction, you will instinctively feel if its worth it (this might come after intercourse). But i'm realizing reciprocation is the key.
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well i just turned 20 less than a month ago. and ive been like this since i was about 13. i hinder myself a lot. and i know im worth something and im someone in this world.
 
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Whenever you deal with women you have to attack them like you play chess. You know what move you want to do so once you see what their strategy is you have to gauge whether you want to get the game over with fast aka fukk her ASAP (win or lose) or if you actually enjoy the game (you really like the competition/challenge). In both instances though we need to stop lying to these women. If you want to fukk let it be known, just not too overtly. If you enjoy her company then you need to show that by not acting super horny because youre fukking up the mental connection youre trying to get as soon as you fukk.

I hope yall understand all that.lol
 
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Whenever you deal with women you have to attack them like you play chess. You know what move you want to do so once you see what their strategy is you have to gauge whether you want to get the game over with fast aka fukk her ASAP (win or lose) or if you actually enjoy the game (you really like the competition/challenge). In both instances though we need to stop lying to these women. If you want to fukk let it be known, just not too overtly. If you enjoy her company then you need to show that by not acting super horny because youre fukking up the mental connection youre trying to get as soon as you fukk.

I hope yall understand all that.lol
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Regarding letting them know that you wanna smash i say let em know overtly. Females already know guys want to smash so cut to the chase and see where her head is at. I remember being told by several females that they knew within 10 secs (maybe less) if they wanted to sleep with a guy , so work smarter not harder. Let her know what it is your looking to get from her and let the chips fall where they may.
 
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EQ. said:
Regarding letting them know that you wanna smash i say let em know overtly. Females already know guys want to smash so cut to the chase and see where her head is at. I remember being told by several females that they knew within 10 secs (maybe less) if they wanted to sleep with a guy , so work smarter not harder. Let her know what it is your looking to get from her and let the chips fall where they may.
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You're right. Just sometimes you want the challenge of mind control even with a freak. Instead of just getting straight to the point. Majority of the time if you just want to fukk i agree.
 
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You're right. Just sometimes you want the challenge of mind control even with a freak. Instead of just getting straight to the point. Majority of the time if you just want to fukk i agree.
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:manny: i see where you're coming from. Reminds me of that Jay line on "Allure" "Man, it's just a game, I just play it to play it"
 
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